My sweet friends, Melissa, Terra, and Nekedria hosted this shower for me over the weekend. I haven’t had a chance to upload pictures and tell about it, but Melissa posted it on her blog at Blessingsinchaos@wordpress.com so you can get a glimpse. Hugs! Amber
Month: May 2012
We’ve Got a Pillow Situation
As the babies and I grow larger, sleeping is becoming increasingly interesting. I have this fantastic set of pillows that make it all work, at least as well as you could expect. You see, I have one maternity noodle-shaped pillow called a Snoogle that goes under my head, runs the length of my body and curls back up to go between my knees. It’s enormous, but it’s not all I need. I have a regular pillow to put at the top of the Snoogle for my head plus a down pillow to hug. Plus, I have this nice little wedge pillow that fits in the space between the mattress and my stomach. Without that wonderful little wedge, the weight of my stomach pulls downwards and just plain hurts. I get it all “just right” and sleep for a bit when of course….nature calls. It’s not terribly easy since I can’t just sit up or roll over. I have to use my arms to heave myself up, move all the pillows over and eventually slither out of bed. When I return, about half the time a dog has snuggled herself into my pillows so I have to move her, re situate everything and it all begins again. George and I joke that I’m just practicing getting up in the night and back to sleep for when the babies arrive. I can only imagine how much more “fun” this will become in the approaching weeks!
hugs!
Amber
- This is how my pillows begin when I get into bed.
Emotional much?
It is official, my hormones are in overdrive and I am an emotional roller coaster these days. Here’s how the past two days have gone for me:
Yesterday we had our 20 week check up and it was GREAT!!! Again, the babies are all the right size with good fluids. Of course Rylin has not yet decided to head further north, but it’s okay. I’m thinking she got a bit of the stubborn gene. My vitals were also good. I managed to hold off on another week of bed rest. I left feeling very confident.
About 9:30 last night, less than four hours from my appointment, I started having Braxton Hicks contractions. They weren’t painful, but my stomach was absolutely tightening. This of course made me feel anxious and not so great. I phoned a few friends and then decided to call the on-call doctor. She said to drink water/ lay on my left side and if the continued for 30 more minutes to head to the hospital. UGH! She also thought my anxiety might be making them worse so I opted for a warm bath. It helped, the contractions stopped and I was able to get to bed. Okay, disaster averted.
This morning started off as usual with the rush hour nightmare that is my commute, but there was also a wreck where two highways merge so it was completely gridlocked. I knew better than to get on the highway when I saw the sea of red taillights so I opted to stay on the service road and take some back roads. The only problem was I wasn’t the only one with this brilliant idea. The stop and go of the commute made me queasy so I felt rotten by the time I got into the building (I possibly had a green tinge to my face too). What should have taken about 25 minutes took well over an hour. I immediately headed to the school nurse (she was a high-risk OB nurse before coming to the school system) to ask her about how to correctly monitor contractions and what to look for. She immediately noticed I felt bad and naturally inquired. Of course, this set me off into a crying spell for no apparent reason. Sweet Nurse Patty sent me to my office with a blanket and literally made me rest on my side eating ice chips to calm me and settle my stomach. However, throughout the day when certain people would stop in or I would start talking about something (not sad), tears would start flowing for no reason. But, the good news is that I did survive the day and managed to finish a report!

This picture really doesn’t fully capture the gridlock fun I experienced, but it’s an idea. ARGH!!!!
This evening when I got home, George was very thoughtful and made Chex mix for me. That was the perfect way to wrap up an overly emotional day for me! However, as he was making the Chex mix, I decided to catch up with my emails and blog reading. Of course, someone posted a You Tube video about a man who was a disabled veteran who was told he could never walk again. As I watched videos of him learning to walk again and then practice yoga, tears streamed down my cheeks! However, as I bawled, I simultaneously laughed at myself! I knew it was silly, but could not stop either. It is like a lucid dream, so weird. I managed to get it together and enjoy watching some Big Bang Theory with George as I stuffed my face with Chex Mix.
George is so smart…he suggested that I head to work extra early to beat rush hour and leave early to get home before rush hour hits again. Why didn’t I think of that??? So, here’s to a better day tomorrow perhaps with less gridlock. Just maybe…I’ll be able to control my emotions.
hugs!
Amber
Adventures in a Mini Van
This week we had another good visit with Dr. Tabor for our 19 week check up. My appointment was at 4:45 and I arrived at 4:45 sharp. However, when I came in the office, the receptionist exclaimed, “There she is!” I checked the clock twice and replied, “It’s 4:45. That’s my appointment time right? Is everyone trying to get home since it’s almost 5:00?” The receptionist said, “Oh yes it is 4:45, but Dr. Tabor was worried about you. I was about to call your cell to see if you were okay.” I thought that was so sweet that he cared about me enough to worry! Anyways, my vitals were all good, the babies were the right size and had good fluid levels so no bed rest! I keep expecting for my appointment to be the one where I lose my freedom, but continue to be surprised. Rylin is still situated a little bit low, but it’s still not a huge concern right now, he says there is still time for her to migrate upwards. Dr. Tabor pointed out the silver lining about her position: if I were to dilate, I would bleed and know I dilated so I’d come in right away. Otherwise, I might not know if I dilated and keep up with business as usual. Dr. Tabor had me book appointments every week through the month of May, which I thought was funny, but also really convenient.
If only Saturday had gone as smoothly as my appointment. George and I woke up relatively early, ate breakfast and decided to peruse the community garage sales for baby containers (that is what I call things like swings, bouncers, and seats, which I think we need lots of). We didn’t want anyone scooping up anything we would want so we didn’t bother getting ready. We basically got dressed and brushed our teeth. (We were looking good! Ha!) George thought it would be best to take the van in case we stumbled across something large, but pointed out that we didn’t have much gas. He said it would be okay if we stayed close though, after all there was probably a 1/8 of a tank. Mind you, I like to fill up when my gas gauge is at 1/4 of a tank just to be safe. We stopped by a few sales but found nothing. Then we saw one that seemed to have several baby containers so we stopped. George didn’t bother to park very well since we were just stopping by. He was sort of far from the curb and halfway parked in front of a driveway. As it turned out, there was a fantastic swing with all sorts of nifty sound and swing settings. It could chirp like birds, sound like the rolling ocean waves, or play lullabies- very cool. We scooped up that treasure then loaded it in the van. There was a problem, however. The van we bought two weeks ago didn’t start. The radio played and the instrument panel worked, but it didn’t start. I leaned over to check the gas gauge and it was registering below zero. On the van, there is a label for a full tank and 1/2 tank with tick marks in between. Then, there is a thick red line labeled zero. That is where the needle fell- below the zero. Of course, I gave George the speech about filling up the tank at 1/4 to be safe and how emptying the tank can cause fuel injector problems. He begrudgingly walked back to the house to pick up our lawnmower gas. It wasn’t much, but should have been enough to start the van, but it didn’t! The neighbor hosting this particular garage sale kindly shared her lawnmower gas, but to no avail. George had to walk back home again to pick up the Accord so we could drive to the closest Quick Trip to fill up as many gas tanks as possible. I just knew it was out of gas. George filled up the tank, but it still didn’t start! ARGH!!!! George hotly called the Volkswagen Roadside Assist number and they determined it would need to be towed to the nearest dealership. Okay, this was getting embarrassing. 45 minutes later, George hopped up into the tow truck for a ride to the dealership. I felt bad to make him take care of it all, but I had a hair cut appointment because we were reading scriptures in a wedding that evening. The dealership ran diagnostics and determined the battery was low. They jumped it and George drove it home. Why didn’t we think of that? Oh yeah because it is our new van! I had a huge helping of crow to eat… However, when it was time to go to the wedding, the van wasn’t starting quite right, which meant we would need to take the Accord. Except, George noticed there was a nice nail in the front right tire. We had a gamble to make: take the van with a questionable battery or the Accord with a nail that could result in a flat tire. George made an executive decision to take the car, and thankfully there were no more hitches in transportation. This morning we spent a good chunk of time at National Tire and Battery taking care of the two sick cars. Turns out the van’s battery was totally dead so we replaced it and now it’s good. They plugged the tire and it’s good. So, we had our first adventure in the van and we weren’t even on a road trip! I hope we’ll make better memories with the van in time.
hugs,
Amber




