And then I jinxed myself!

I’ve been working full-time and have been managing it day by day. Fatigue has been my primary nemesis, but otherwise I have felt decent. After work, I’ve been totally exhausted and have taken two-hour naps most nights. Someone came into my office on Tuesday and noted that there were only 11 more school days for the students. I thought to myself, “Hey, I think I can make it to the end of the school year. What’s 11 more days?” So, I opened my big mouth and announced that thought to my visitor and office mate, Gina. Immediately, Gina shot me a look and replied, “Oh no, I think you jinxed yourself!” Well, I went to work again on Tuesday and Wednesday. Sure I was tired, but again managed.

After work Wednesday, my weekly appointment with Dr. Tabor went great! The babies looked great regarding size and fluid levels. My vitals were good and no signs of dilating. He did dryly announce, “Well, I have good news and bad news.” We asked for the good news first. Dr. Tabor stated, “You don’t have placenta previa. The lowest placenta isn’t covering the cervix.” I said, “Okay, that’s great! Now….what’s the bad news?” Dr. Tabor repeated himself, “You don’t have placenta previa. The lowest placenta isn’t covering the cervix.” And he was right, it is good news and bad news all in one. Not having placenta previa means I won’t bleed and am not at risk of hemorrhaging (GREAT!!!!), however if I do dilate, there will not be a warning sign. For some reason Dr. Tabor didn’t realize I was working full-time and seemed surprised that I was still managing ok. He was concerned about me over-doing it though so he decided to put me on a 1/2 day work schedule. I was released for another week of freedom!

After my appointment we had to fight rush hour traffic yet again and I had quite a few Braxton Hicks contractions. UGH! That evening I had more contractions, but was able to keep them at bay by essentially resting and going to sleep at 9:30. I thought I fixed the problem, but when I woke up….more Braxton Hicks contractions, which started up with almost every movement I made. I felt my stomach contract when I tried to sit up let alone walk or do anything else. I rested on my side and drank water by the gallon, but none of it seemed to help so I had to call Dr. Tabor. He ordered me to the maternal observation unit at the hospital so George and I were off to the hospital. Gina was right, I totally jinxed myself!!!!

Maternal observation was fun….NOT! I got a very painful cervical exam before they hooked me up to a Toco monitor, which keeps track of contractions. Since I was at rest there weren’t any contractions, which was a good thing. That did mean, however that Dr. Tabor had to put me on bed rest since contractions were triggered by activity.

I knew bed rest was coming, but it was a nice dream to think I could make it those last 11 days. It’s okay though. I had been a little worried about over exerting myself and causing trouble, so bed rest was needed. Today was my first day of full bed rest and it’s been okay. That’s because my mom’s been with me and has been helping organize and tidy up while I rest on my side or sit. I’ve been able to do some things like fold laundry that she delivered to me and sort baby clothes. The nurseries are much more organized now thanks to Mom. I made myself a laundry list of things I want to accomplish while on bed rest like read The Hunger Games and write thank you notes. I’m trying to make the best of house arrest here!



PS- Since I’m home…I will try to catch up on all the blogging I didn’t do this week while I was napping every evening. I have new pictures to add to the photo gallery and everything =)

21 weeks, 5 days

12 thoughts on “And then I jinxed myself!

    • You got it! I think I can make the most of it, after all it really is a short time in the grand scheme of things isn’t it?


  1. Sounds like you’ve done amazing so far, so maybe resting a little might be a good reward?? 😉 I will definitely be sending you some goodies this week so you can have some European entertainment while resting! Hugs!!


    • I sure hope resting now pays off later 😉 I am really looking forward to some European goodies! Perfect timing!


  2. Hi Amber! I have really enjoyed reading your blog. I used to work with George at BOT, but I transferred to BOK after my daughter was born. She spent quite a bit of time in the NICU, where I met Heather Cox from cox quads, I saw you were following her blog. I’ve been praying for you and George and your little ones!


    • Hi Courtney! George has actually told me a lot about you. You have an amazing little girl! She is quite the fighter. I heard Heather was local so I was excited to find her blog. Thank you for the prayers!


  3. If there are any incredibly time-consuming hobbies you had planned on picking up, I think now’s the time! Hang in there–you are doing great! Is it crazy that you will have viable babies in a week or two? That’s a nice milestone to hit, and then every week after that you can breathe a tiny bit easier. Except for the babies crowding your lungs. 🙂


    • I have a decent list of bed-rest worthy things to do so hopefully it will all keep my mind busy. The babies are certainly crowding me 🙂 It is amazing that they will be viable relatively soon- but I still tell them I don’t want to meet them for at least 8-10 weeks.


    • I know! I acomplished most of what I wanted to for the year at least. I was getting a bit too tired at work anyways.


  4. While I was on bedrest for 5 weeks I knit 5 blankets and watched a 9 season BBC show plus countless movies on Netflix. Good Luck with the bed rest.


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