Play Date for Eight

We finally settled into our new digs enough to host our first play date with none other than our quad buddies, the Bells. After several trial and error play dates, Amber and I discovered that evening play dates are pure genius. Initially we tried the traditional daytime rendezvous and failed repeatedly. The babies usually played happily until nap time.  However at nap time, the visitors protested voraciously and the host babies were upset by wailing visitors. This left two frazzled mammas with eight grouchy babies.  It wasn’t pretty.

We now meet up after all babies are refreshed from naps and have several hours before bedtime. The hostess serves up dinner for everyone and the mammas enjoy a glass of vino while the kiddies play in harmony. I can honestly say this is the only way to have a relaxing play date with so many little ones.

Despite a week of flash flooding, we opted for an evening of water play.  What better way to celebrate summer?  In preparation for the event, I littered our backyard with water tables, a mini pool, slide and an assortment of water toys.  While my quads snoozed, I prepared a picnic for everyone: P B & J triangles with berries and veggie sticks for the quads, pimento cheese for the adults, and cakeys for dessert (cake bars Rylin dubbed “cakeys”).

During the day, I showed the quads pictures of the Bell family and explained they were coming over.  After nap, I dressed everyone in swimsuits and doused them in sunscreen as I reminded them of our company.  Clearly they knew it was time to parr-tayy because all four began running circles in the den as they squealed in delight.  When Amber and her crew arrived, I gave her the quick house tour then we ushered all eight babies outside.  Thankfully, George was home from work a bit early so he helped set up the goods for water play (he was also instrumental in clean up efforts).  Everything went swimmingly!  All eight babies scampered around, finding ways to entertain themselves.

It didn't take long before all eight babies were fully entertained with water play.

It didn’t take long before all eight babies were fully entertained with water play.

This is like a game of Where's Waldo....can you spot all eight babies?

This is like a game of Where’s Waldo….can you spot all eight babies?

Mason and Trystan cozied up in the mini pool.

Mason and Trystan cozied up in the mini pool.  Aren’t they adorable together?

I dropped some of our Color Dropz into the water tables and mini pool for a little pizazz!

I dropped some of our Color Dropz into the water tables and mini pool for a little pizzaz!

Amber helped dole out ice water to little beggars.

Amber helped dole out ice water to thirsty little beggars.

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It looks like someone found the mud.  No worries though, Amber and I had a solid clean up plan.

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All eight of the quads now interact with each other, and don’t always stick to their familiar siblings, which indicates play date success in my book.

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Look carefully in the background and you’ll see Harper bailing water from the mini pool to the galvanized bucket. He managed to fill it halfway with just that little red scoop!

As the dinner hour approached, I gathered our picnic trappings and brought them outside along with plastic dinnerware.  Within seconds, all eight babies gathered around our Little Tykes picnic table where we dished out dinner.   Our quads don’t have the best track record for eating meals away from their quad table so I wasn’t really sure what eight would do.  They amazed us as they sat for the entire meal and gobbled up dinner.  I suppose they worked up hearty appetites playing outside.

I couldn't squeeze eight plates around the picnic table, but sharing is commonplace for multiples so it wasn't a problem.

I couldn’t squeeze eight plates around the picnic table, but sharing is commonplace for multiples so it wasn’t a problem.

As the babies noshed on their picnic, Amber snatched ice water for everyone.   She's a pro at this!

As the babies noshed on their picnic, Amber snatched ice water for everyone. She’s a pro at this!

After dinner, George became very popular as he was the cakey server.

After dinner, George became very popular as he was the cakey server.

When the sun began to set, George, Amber, and I created a pioneer style wash basin for the babies with our toy bucket.  George filled it with warm water then Amber and I took turns sponge bathing our respective babies and wrapping them in dry towels.  As each one was wrapped tightly, we lined them up in the den for a Veggie Tales movie.  Amber and I managed to “bathe”, dry, and dress eight babies in pajamas (complete with lotion) in a matter of minutes.  Impressive, I think.  I turned on our classical lullaby playlist as everyone enjoyed perusing a few books and novel toys before bed.  George tucked our babies into cribs as Amber and I loaded hers into the Suburban before we said farewell.  Another successful play date for eight!

Ahhh, clean, dry and jammied babies with a few good reads before bed.

Ahhh, clean, dry and jammied babies with a few good reads before bed.

hugs!

 

Amber

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Home Sweet Home


After nearly a month in the new digs, it’s finally starting to feel like home.  All of the boxes (except George’s garage stuff) are unpacked.  We are struggling a bit with organization, and we have a laundry list of DIY projects to complete in the next few months and even years, but it feels like home.  The aroma of our Scentsy fills the air while our lamps cast warm pools of light in each room.  The toys strewn about and photographs adorning the walls make everything feel cozy.

 

At one point we thought we were done unpacking, only to remember all of the boxes in storage from when we "decluttered" to put the old house on the market.  I nearly cried!

At one point we thought we were done unpacking, only to remember all of the boxes in storage from when we “decluttered” to put the old house on the market. I nearly cried!

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This was our kitchen the week of move in.

Ta da!  We have counter tops!

Alas! We have counter tops!

 

Well before I started feeling at home, the quads began enjoying the new digs, especially their dedicated playroom.

The playroom was the perfect spot for the quad's table and chairs.  They've been making me "hot coffee" nearly every morning.  They even remember to add a little cream and sugar, just the way I prefer it.

The playroom was the perfect spot for the quad’s table and chairs. They’ve been making me “hot coffee” nearly every morning. They even remember to add a little cream and sugar, just the way I prefer it.

One morning, Mason busily punched letters on his LeapTop as he sipped piping hot imaginary coffee.

One morning, Mason busily punched letters on his LeapTop as he sipped piping hot imaginary coffee.

Long tiled hallways make for perfect motorcycle races. Long tiled hallways make for perfect motorcycle races.

Our larger breakfast nook better accommodates the quad table.

Our larger breakfast nook better accommodates the quad table.

Indoor tents made the perfect refuge for reading on a rainy day.   Notice Rylin's "Elsa dress", she wears it almost daily.

Indoor tents made the perfect refuge for reading on a rainy day. Notice Rylin’s “Elsa dress”, she wears it almost daily.

 

When rainy days resulted in a sloshy back yard, we discovered the front porch as a play space.

When rainy days resulted in a sloshy back yard, we retreated to the covered front porch.

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I most certainly would not chose “Gold Brown” as the accent color for our home, but it’s there and we are embracing it for the moment.  Painting is not a top priority at the moment.  These portraits were done by Preemie Prints shortly after all four babies came home from the NICU.  They mark special moment in time.  Since George and I do 90% of our organization and decorating after the quads are off to sleep, they don’t see us in action.  The day after we hung these, the babies honed in on them immediately.  They can now identify who is who in every picture.

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There’s no better way to feather a nest than to brighten the front door with a cheery wreath. I reinvented the wreath I created for autumn by changing out the “S” for a crisp white version, adding spring floral picks, and moving the lime chevron burlap bow. It makes me happy each time I pass it!

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What makes your house feel like home to you?

hugs!

Amber

We have a hero, and we call him Daddy

Dear George,

 

You are among the ranks of a small group of men who are better known as Quadfathers.  Going from being a Dad to a pair of fur babies to four children is no easy feat.   You work tirelessly to provide for our family and to make our home a perfect place to live. I doubt you remember what it feels like to savor “me time” because it’s illusive here.  Toddlers are a thankless lot who demand things like, “DADDY HOLD YOU!!!” and squabble mercilessly.  Undoubtedly, being a Quadfather is the most difficult challenge of your life, but also the most rewarding.

A year ago, you were a professional formula mixer, baby burper, and infant soother.  With the change of seasons, you are now a hero to four little people.  You are the center of their universe and are held in the highest regard.  Believe me, they are watching your every move.  It’s apparent when I’m frantically searching for something and Harper correctly proclaims, “It’s right here.”  You may not realize it, but that’s one of your signature phrases.  I’ve heard you mutter it while looking for something many times over.  It’s now a common phrase for little big man too.  I know you are a powerful influence when the garage door creaks open and four little people exclaim, “DADDY!!!!”  as they bull rush the gates to reach you.  I promise, when I arrive home from work the welcoming committee is not half as excited as when Daddy returns.

As soon as the quads 5were mobile, you had a stunning welcoming committee,

Because of you, Mason knows it’s Jesus is on the crucifix in our entry way and Rylin distinguishes between an iguana and a gecko.  Since I can’t carry a tune to save my life, you are to thank for Sydney’s sweet singing.  Of course you aren’t the only one with influence around our house, four little people have quite the effect on you  too.  I know this when I catch you singing from their itunes playlist or reciting Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.  You are beginning to see the world through new lenses and it’s beautiful.  Even when the days seem eternal and thankless, I hope you never forget the way you family adores you, and the many reasons why.

You model how to be a strong husband and father.

You model how to be a strong husband and father.

You have fun with them.

You have fun with them.

You appreciate their personalities.

You appreciate their personalities.

You share the value of knowledge.

You share your love of learning.

You show them how to explore the world in new ways.

You show them how to explore.

You are affectionate with our children.

You rock them (this is one of the most common requests for the moment).

You contribute to all of our family's needs, great and small.

You contribute to all of our family’s needs, great and small.

You enjoy time for rest and relaxation with our children.

You enjoy time for rest and relaxation with our children.

Happy Father’s Day!

xoxo,

 

Amber

 

 

 

 

Making a Splash at the New Pad!

One of the selling features of our new home was the yard. It doesn’t boast acreage or anything, but it has ample space for the quads to jaunt around, and eventually for us to add a small playground. Although the garden needs a little a lot of TLC, the previous owner had the yard fully landscaped with many ornamental plants and trees.  Every morning after breakfast and in the evening before bed, we enjoy a little time outdoors.  On most mornings, we have a little splash party using the water table followed by a bubble bath.   In the evenings the quads dart around as we weed the once neglected flower beds.  A few mornings ago, I captured some of our morning shenanigans.

Rylin took it upon herself to water the rose bushes with her pink watering can.    She refilled it multiple times to make sure the roses got a nice drink.

 

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We received this pewter wind chime as a gift from a family friend.  It was in her family for years because there were two girls and two boys in the family, just like ours.  It made the perfect addition to our new yardscape.  The quads are fascinated by the mellow tinkling of the chime dancing in the breeze.

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A few months ago, I purchased faux crocs for the quads to wear in the yard.  They’ve proven themselves as yard must haves for us.  They protect tender baby feet and rinse off easily with the garden hose.  I stumbled upon a pair on clearance at Marshall’s in my size and snagged them.  While I’m not hip to the fashion statement they make, I am in L-O-V-E with these shoes.  Oh how I’ve been missing out on the goodness of Crocs for the yard.  They are ohhhh sooooooo comfortable and yard work friendly.  The fact that they are violet and ballet slipper style helps my inner fashionista to appreciate them.

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We have an assortment of inflatable baby pools from the quad’s first birthday party last summer.  However, I didn’t have the patience to inflate one of the larger ones so settled for the tiniest pool ever created.  It served as a “Go Fishing” pond for the party, and was never really intended for wading.  It began as extra splash space alongside our water table until someone took a dip….then another….and another….and then all four.

If two’s company,

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And three’s a crowd….

 

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What’s four???

 

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A spoiled party perhaps?

 

We enjoyed nearly a full hour of splishing and splashing before the dog pile resulted in cranky babies.   When the party ended, I stripped all four babies down in the yard, hung the soppy clothes on the swing set and wrapped each one in a dry towel.  I took a tip from fellow quad mama, Amber, and lined each baby up as they waited for a diaper and outfit.  Much to my surprise, they waited perfectly still for their turn!  Of course, the episode of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse helped my efforts.

 

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Once the babies are snuggled into their beds for the night, we often enjoy a glass of vino or iced tea from our front porch.  The sunset is gorgeous!

 

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Have you ever owned a pair of Crocs?   If not, would you consider it?

 

hugs!

 

Amber

The Guest

I’m anxious to share our moving saga and updates on the new digs, but we are totally swamped with the settling process.  While George and I are tackling boxes, I thought you’d enjoy my latest guest posts, both of which posted today.

On the Mothers of Supertwins blog, Stories from the Heart, I shared my tips for getting out with multiple toddlers.

 

Most people would expect me to use a giant diaper bag, but I prefer this Vera Bradley bag instead.

Most people would expect me to use a giant diaper bag, but I prefer this Vera Bradley bag instead.

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Our neighborhood Kroger has carts which seat all four babies.  Scoring one of these sweet rides usually involves me stalking the cart corral, however.

Our neighborhood Kroger has carts which seat all four babies. Scoring one of these sweet rides usually involves me stalking the cart corral, however.

I also made a second contribution to the Fort Worth Moms Blog about how we sleep trained the quadruplets. 

On the Fort Worth Moms Blog, I reviewed how we sleep trained the quads as infants.  I eventually would like to share how their sleep has evolved with toddlerhood.  I snapped this particular picture when all four awoke from naps extremely early and were cranky.

On the Fort Worth Moms Blog, I reviewed how we sleep trained the quads as infants. I eventually would like to share how their sleep has evolved with toddlerhood. I snapped this particular picture when all four awoke from naps extremely early and were cranky.

 

hugs!

Amber

 

 

 

 

Impromptu Parade

We were lucky that our house closing happened to align with Memorial Day weekend.  It afforded us an extra day off work to unpack and settle.  We didn’t have Memorial Day plans since we intended to be working on the house, but by Monday afternoon we had E-N-O-U-G-H already. After two days of moving, our bodies ached while bruises lined our legs and biceps. It was clearly time for a break so I invited us to my Aunt Linda’s BBQ.   Although taking four toddlers anywhere is a lot of work, getting out for a few hours proved refreshing.

I managed to pull four patriotic looking outfits from the quad's closets.  The previous homeowner left behind four small flags so we had an impromptu parade.

I managed to pull four patriotic looking outfits from the quad’s closets. The previous homeowner left behind four small flags so we had an impromptu parade.  Please excuse Harper’s faux pas of letting his flag touch the ground.

 

Since we are in the middle of moving, we didn't pack the quad's booster seats.  Linda had two already, but two kids were left to regular chairs and they did great!

Since we are in the middle of moving, we didn’t pack the quad’s booster seats. Aunt Linda had two already, but two kids were left to regular chairs and they did great!

Later, Mason shared his chair with me.

Later, Mason shared his chair with me.

 

George and I manned the kiddie table while the rest of the family enjoyed fine dining.

George and I manned the kiddie table while the rest of the family enjoyed fine dining.

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After dinner, Uncle Clarke entertained the quads with his banjo.  The loud creshindo of the insturment initially startled them, but it wasn't long before they sang along.

After dinner, Uncle Clarke entertained the quads with his banjo. The loud strums of the instrument initially startled them, but it wasn’t long before they sang along.

I captured Rylin’s rendition of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star.

 

We may not have been on the initial guest list, but I think the quads did a fine job of entertaining the great grandparents.  They have a way of brightening the day of others with their antics.  How did you celebrate Memorial Day?

 

hugs!

 

Amber

 

P.S. Stay tuned for the low down on the BIG move and the gazillion projects we’d like to tackle.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Boxes….Boxes…Boxes

When George and I bought our first house eight years ago we never could have fathomed four children living in it. At the time of purchase, our house was far more square footage than two people needed.  We bought it as a “five-year house”, and anticipated living in it for several years, then maybe adding a baby (or two) to our family before up sizing. In time, we fell in love with our neighborhood and added our own special touches to our home. After discovering we were expecting quadruplets we knew our house couldn’t be a forever home. Yet, the prospect of buying and selling during a quadruplet pregnancy was not going to happen. Once the babies came home we made do by adding storage and getting creative with furniture arrangement.  It was working surprisingly well.  However as our babies transformed into busy toddlers, we knew it was past time to find a house better suited to our burgeoning family.

This spring we finally pulled the trigger and interviewed with real estate agents to discuss our property value and desired features for a new home.  Initially we planned to move out of our neighborhood where we could find more square footage for our money.  However, multiple real estate agents reminded us why our neighborhood is ideal for our family.  Great schools, family friendly, close proximity to many amenities.  I began feeling anxious about sacrificing our beloved neighborhood for more space.  We found a gorgeous home in a nearby neighborhood with almost every item ticked off our wish list.  It was a five bedroom turnkey house with an over sized kitchen and pantry, it was dreamy.  One bright Sunday afternoon we hauled the quads to see this particular home.  As soon as our agent opened the doors the quads dashed upstairs.  This would have been fine except the shiny wooden staircase was adorned with wrought iron spindles, which overlooked the den from about 25 feet off the ground.  While the house was stunning, I immediately knew it was not our house.   All I could envision was toddlers catapulting themselves over the stair railing and subsequent ER visits.

Our real estate agent urged us to visit an open house in our neighborhood, but I wasn’t enthusiastic.  It looked drab and small, but to appease our agent we walked the quads over for the event.  After about five minutes, George and I looked at each other and both agreed it was perfect for us.  It boasted all the features of our current home, but was a somewhat improved version.  It had more space inside and out, and best of all there was a dedicated playroom space for the quads.  That evening we made an offer on that house, which was accepted contingent upon the sale of our home.  Within a week’s time, our house was decluttered, spiffed up, and market ready.  Thankfully, we received a full price offer with just six days on the market.  The only catch we are now amidst moving a house that’s accumulated eight years worth of stuff, two dogs, and four kids.  Even though the new house is just around the corner, we still have to pack, update utilities, and situate ourselves in a new home.  I’m over the moon about the new digs, and slightly extremely anxious about managing the mayhem.

In order to keep it manageable, George and I set daily goals for packing, and elicited the help of the quads.  They’ve proven themselves as unreliable help, however.  They tend to unpack things after us, and add their own accouterments to boxes.  On the bright side, packing materials are highly entertaining toddlers.

Four little people make for interesting helpers.

Sydney read the newspaper for at least thirty minutes while Harper added books to my kitchen box.

 

At one point, I had four boxes set up for each of the quads.  Yet, they insisted on pairing off, and the dogs ducked in with them a few times.

At one point, I had four boxes set up for each of the quads. Yet, they insisted on pairing off, and the dogs ducked in with them a few times.

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The quads enjoy taking rides a top the boxes.

The quads enjoy taking rides a top the boxes.

Moving with multiples is proving difficult for my Type A personality. Before boxing anything, I prefer to ensure that all parts are accounted for, and boxed together (the idea is extreme organization now will help with unpacking later). With eight helping hands, parts tend to go missing. One evening the quad’s clock puzzle was strewn about and three pieces weren’t found. I put this clock on the counter and feverishly searched every imaginable place for them. Finally one night George admitted tossing them into a random box. I found enough self-restraint not to rip into boxes, but I assure you I wanted to. If I thought I’d actually find all three pieces I might do it, but the prospects are slim.  Don’t assume I’m the only Type A personality in our house though. Every night, George scours the house with touch up paint in hand, masking our previous short cuts and damages.

 

EAch night, we heave another set of boxes to the garage.  It won't be long before we are engulfed in boxes.

Each night, we heave another set of boxes to the garage. It won’t be long before we are engulfed in boxes.

Unfortunatley, moving is uncovering some of our Shawver Shortcuts in home renovations.  We apparently have a bad habit of painting around things.  There was a shelf hanging in this particualar spot.

Unfortunately, moving is uncovering some of our Shawver Shortcuts in home renovations. We apparently have a bad habit of painting around things. There was a shelf hanging in this particular spot.

My den looks like a stick of dynamite hit a toy store...and it makes me anxious!

My den looks like a stick of dynamite hit a toy store…and it makes me anxious!

I can't explain how crazy seeing this clock with three pieces missing makes me feel!  If these pieces don't resurface, I may have to donate it.

I can’t explain how crazy seeing this clock with three pieces missing makes me feel! If these pieces don’t resurface, I may have to donate it.

This morning the buy and sell were official and the ink is now dry on our paperwork!  Our agent, Tommy graciously volunteered to babysit Sydney and Mason during closing while Rylin and Harper stayed behind with George's aunt.

This morning the buy and sell were official and the ink is now dry on our paperwork! Our agent, Tommy graciously volunteered to babysit Sydney and Mason during closing while Rylin and Harper stayed behind with George’s aunt.

 

What is your best moving tip?

Hugs!

Amber

 

Daddy’s Weekend

Before I headed off to Gruene to meet up my quad mama friends, George had a trial run of being in charge. It went surprisingly well, which was a good thing because it made me feel confident leaving him for a whole weekend. While I knew he could handle the fort and he told me repeatedly he could do it alone, I rallied the troops.  Nisey came Thursday evening to spend the night just like she does every week.  On Friday, Nisey and her sidekick, Terri, cared for the quads while George worked.  Nisey and Terri sent me these precious snapshots from their day together.

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I haven’t the foggiest idea how she managed it, but Nisey put Rylin’s hair in legit pigtails.  I’ve since attempted to replicate this hairstyle and failed several times.

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I can’t be certain what happened the rest of the time I was away, but I found miscellaneous videos and pictures waiting for me on the camera….

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I can only assume there was a great toddler flick showing.  Elmo, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Baby Einstein or Bubble Guppies perhaps.  Nothing else could convince these three to sit perfectly still long enough for a snapshot.

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Sydney typically sings all day long until someone pushes “record” on a device, in which case all singing ceases.   George was able to ambush her before dinner and captured her ellusive version of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star and the Alphabet Song.  My favorite part is when she catches him recording and instructs him to turn it “off”.  He also managed to record a few other tricks courtesy of the quads.

 

Friday night, Nisey helped George get the quads to bed and then he was left to his own devices on Saturday morning.  Aunt CiCi and Matt came later in the afternoon as fresh troops. Again, George had assistance with bedtime, but managed the night and Sunday morning solo.  Early Sunday morning I received a panicked text from George because his morning help had to cancel.  He muddled just fine, but I think appreciated all the helpers I sequestered after all.  By lunchtime Sunday, George had fresh help and was able to run a few errands.  I believe he now understands why cherish running errands run alone and count them as “me time”.   Although these pictures show kiddos donning jammies, George texted me a few of the quads in coordinated outfits throughout the weekend.  I’m not posting them because they are so blurry the babies are almost unidentifiable.  Apparently no one was willing to strike a pose for Daddy.

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Before returning home, I wanted to offer George a small token of my gratitude.  When Amber B. and I stopped at a favorite roadside stop, Buc-ee’s, I immediately cruised the candy aisle in search of George’s beloved sour belts.  When I found a bag of “Sour Power Quattro” I knew it was meant to be!

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While I had a spectacular time in Gruene, I was ready to return home to George and my littles.  I was gone just long enough to really miss them.  When I opened the door, the dogs excitedly greeted me with wagging tails and excited yelps.  Rylin rushed to the gate exclaiming, “Mommy!  Mommy!  Mommy!”, but I’m not sure the other three noticed my return at all.  Apparently Elmo was far more exciting than Mommy.  I was slightly disappointed that the welcoming committee’s lackadaisical attitude, but I know George was more than ready for my return.

 

hugs!

 

Amber

Moms of Multiples: “I Bet You Were as Big as a Beluga” and Other Verbiage to Avoid

In honor of Multiples Awareness Month, the Fort Worth Mom’s Blog asked me to write an article about what NOT to say to parents of multiples.  I cannot express how happy I am with the positive response I’ve received so far.  In this day and age so many families are different from your average 2.5 kid household with one dog and a two car garage.  As it turns out, what makes families unique is also what falls under public scrutiny.  I don’t believe people intend to be rude, but are often taken aback when they see something different.  They really have no idea what to say and they unintentionally offend and hurt others.

A couple of days before my post on Fort Worth Mom’s Blog, an adoptive father published a video about what to say (or not) to adoptive families.  He came up with the rule of thumb, “If you wouldn’t ask it about a boob job, don’t ask it about adoption”.  It’s a humorous way to remember our manners, and it works for a multitude of situations where someone is different.   The video is really hysterical; if you’ve got two spare minutes take a peek!

Here’s my piece, Moms of Multiples: “I Bet You Were as Big as a Beluga” and Other Verbiage to Avoid as published on the Fort Worth Moms Blog.  Please take time to read it, and share with others.  Knowledge is power, right? Happy Multiples Awareness Month!

George and I are developing a thick skin when out in public with the quads and ignore much of what is said.  A friend snapped this photo and later I noticed the woman in the background with her mouth gaping open while she chats on the phone.  I didn't hear her, but I"m certain she was saying, "Gladys, you will not believe this...I am looking at quadtriplets.  Yeah, four babies the same age.  I can't wait to tell Brittany that she's got it easy with the twins."

George and I are developing a thick skin when out in public with the quads and ignore much of what is said. A friend snapped this photo during the March of Dimes.  Later, I noticed the woman in the background with her mouth gaping open while she chats on the phone. I have no idea what she’s saying, but the expression is all too familiar.

 

 

hugs,

 

Amber

 

Toddler Tips #701: Civilized Dining (sort of)

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I'm sharing.

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I’m sharing.

 

We are far from a perfect mealtime at our house, but we are diligently working on it.  At around 15 months we began serving the babies meals on plates (we ordered the Boon Saucer Edgelesss Stayput Divider Plate, Multi
as seen on Texas Tales), and we gave them toddler utensils.  At that age, they refused to let us spoon feed them, and attempted to self feed by grabbing our spoons.  They didn’t yet have the dexterity to feed themselves with utensils and instead relied upon finger feeding.  Dinner finally became family mealtime where all six of us ate at the quad table, which allowed us to model utensil use for the quads.  It wasn’t long before they made crude attempts at spearing and scooping food.  Despite their interest level and best efforts, the process was frustrating to say the least.  They’d chase their food and poke, but rarely got food onto their forks.   I bought metal toddler forks, but they are so dull even I struggled to stab food.  Sydney’s Occupational Therapist suggested using cocktail forks instead of toddler forks.   The next time I was out shopping, I scoured Home Goods and found a four pack of cocktail forks that closely matched our flatware.  I couldn’t resist buying the matching cocktail spoons as well even though they probably weren’t necessary.

 

I scored these at TJ Maxx for $6.99.  They are a close match to our flatware so I could probably use them as cocktail forks if we ever had a cocktail party.

Since these are a close match to our flatware so I could probably use them as cocktail forks if we ever had a cocktail party.  If that ever happens.

 

I excitedly presented the new forks at our next dinner.  The results were magical.  With small, yet sharp utensils, the quads easily speared food AND the food stayed on their forks.  They were so proud of their newly acquired skill that they beamed.  We’ve been using cocktail forks for a few months now, and for the most part the quads use their forks instead of fingers.  It’s still messy, but I attribute better success to our new forks.  I wouldn’t recommend offering cocktail forks to very young toddlers since they are a little sharp.  They are probably best for toddlers who have the concept of self feeding and won’t poke their hands or faces.  I might start with spoons and when the concept is mastered, offer cocktail forks.

They are messy, but really using their new forks!

They are messy, but successfully using their new forks!  In the picture, Rylin is using her right hand, but 95% of the time she uses her left and does a much better job when using the left.  I wonder if she’l be a lefty.

 

Are you left handed or right handed?

 

Hugs!

 

Amber