Ta, Da! The Liebster Award

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A BIG thanks to Lily and The Bee for nominating me for the Leibster Award!  I am absolutely flattered.  When I entered the Circle of Moms Top Moms of Multiples blog contest, I shamelessly plugged and sought votes.  This award is totally different as it’s peer nominated, which means a lot to me. 

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The Rules:

  1. Thank your Liebster Blog Award presenter on your blog and link back to them in your post.
  2. Answer the 11 questions from the nominator, list 11 random facts about yourself and create 11 questions for your nominees.
  3. Present the Liebster Blog Award to 11 blogs who you feel deserve to be noticed and leave a comment on their blog letting them know they have been chosen.
  4. Copy and Paste the blog award on your blog.

Note: (These are the “rules” but please feel free to do as you wish. If you have 5 bloggers to nominate instead of 11, and you can only think of 7 random facts about yourself – that’s perfectly fine! )

Alright, since I can bend the “rules”, I’m going from 11 to FOUR in all areas.  With the bustle of having quadruplets at home, I cannot read blogs nearly as often as I prefer and coming up with 11 of anything is almost overwhelming.  I hate to admit it, but I only “follow” a few these days and I even get behind on reading those.  ______________________________________________________________________________

My Questions To Be Answered:

1) If there was an apocalypse and the world became overrun by giant marshmallows what would you do?

Hahahahaha!  That is an interesting apocalypse….I think I would grab a pair of moon shoes and start bouncing on top of the marshmallows like Tigger.

2) What does your happy place look like? I’m talking that place in your head you go to when the kids/work/life in general is screeching?

Ah, it is a tropical locale void of tourists; secluded, but not in an eerie way.  The crashing of waves fills my ears and drowns out all worries.  As I breathe deeply I smell the faint aroma of salt and coconut.  I am stretched out on a cushy beach lounger underneath a giant umbrella that is pouring shade over me.  I am reading a romantic comedy, likely something written by Sophie Kinsella.  As I read, slushy cool cocktails are delivered to me and I eat tidbits of fresh fruit.

3) What was the scariest movie you watched as a kid that still gives you the creeps?

My parents were rather protective of me so I wasn’t allowed to watch horror movies until I was of age to take myself.  As a child, Pinocchio terrified me- you know the scene where the boys become inebriated and transform into donkeys?  HORRIFYING!  Actually, it still bothers me that is even in a children’s movie.

4) Which celeb can you absolutely NOT HANDLE..as in makes you want to Gag every time you see them?

Mmm, good question!  There are numerous celebs that could fall into this category.  Mostly people who are famous for being famous, think Snooki (or really anyone from the cast of Jersey Shore), Paris Hilton, and I can’t leave out John Gosselin (he gives parents of multiples a bad name!)

5)What happened to all those socks that used to have other halves?

At my house, if a sock loses it’s mate I toss it in the drawer as a bachelor/ bachelorette in hopes of the other half returning home.

6) What does your ‘slouchy’ day look like? Such a winter question!

Most days I am home with the babies so that means I have more slouchy days than I’d prefer to admit.  I wear what I dubbed “The Mommy Uniform”, which consists of yoga leggings and boyfriend cut t-shirts.  My hair is usually pulled back into a pony tail or messy bun to help keep the 40 fingers from yanking it or coating it in food.  I find that I feel better about myself if I at least dress this way and put a bit of bronzer and lip gloss on my face.  Also, I am not totally embarrassed if I have visitors or if pictures are snapped.  You never know!

7) What food grosses you out the most?

Sardines.  I am not a fan of seafood, while George adores it.  Since I don’t consume fish, I don’t cook it.  Poor George stockpiles the tiny fish so he can get a bit of fish, but sheesh those things smell putrid!

8) Cats or Dogs?

Hands down, DOGS!  Sasha and Lily our canine companions that we affectionately call “the fur babies”.  Most of my family is allergic to cats and honestly I don’t understand the feline mind.  Not to mention the fact that Sydney usually cries when she sees cats (house or large) on Baby Einstein DVDs

Random Facts About Me:

  1. One of my lifelong goals is to author a book.  I began this blog as a means of sharing our story with friends and family.  It’s blossomed into much more and helped me to realize how much I enjoy writing.  There is much more to our story than is captured on the blog and I would love to tell it all.
  2.  I am a total cookie monster.  I could probably eat my weight in cookies.  I also love cookie dough, but salmonela scares the fire out of me.  So, George and I make cookie dough without eggs sometimes.
  3. I fought getting a smart phone tooth and nail.  I was totally okay with still having my old school Razr in 2009.  The only feature I lacked and desired was calendar function.  When we went to upgrade our phones, I ended up getting a Droid.  Best and worst decision ever!  I know full well I don’t need a smart phone, but it would be hard pressed to do without it.
  4. Before the quads grand arrival, I loved kickboxing and yoga, but I seriuosly lack any sort of athletic ability.  When I say I lack athletic ability, I mean I cannot catch or throw a ball to save my life and trip over my own feet sometimes.  It’s not uncommon for me to find bruises along my legs and not be able to recall how I acquired them.  I hope the babies did not inherit my ability….

Questions for Nominees to Answer:

  1. What is the best thing a stranger has said to you upon realzing you have quadruplets?
  2. What features does your dream house include?
  3. When you need some “me” time, what do you do?
  4. What is your biggest guilty pleasure?

And now, for my nominated blogs:

Since this blog is “FOUR to Adore”, I’m choosing four of my favorite quad mom blogs.  These women are my friends, confidants, and mentors.  I don’t know what I’d do without them.

1. A Beautiful Ruckus

2. Our Multiples Journey

3. Texas Tales

4. The Littlest Lesnaus

Hugs!

Amber

In 51 Years…

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“Don’t marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can’t live without.” -James C. Dobson

Sunday was a momentous occasion for our family as my grandparents celebrated 60 years of marriage.  In a society where approximately half of all marriages fail, 60 years is truly remarkable.  I am grateful for the example of a strong, long-lasting marriage they provide for all of us.

Due to lock down, we were unable to celebrate holidays with our extended family this year and I know that broke my grandmother’s heart.  Several months back, she inquired about when the babies would be able to venture out because she wanted nothing more than the ENTIRE family together for their anniversary.  I was pleased to report by late spring we would be good to go, which meant we could make the trek to the party.  On Sunday it finally happened: the babies joined us for an extended family party in honor of my grandparents.

All seven grandchildren were present for the big event.

All seven grandchildren were present for the big event.

Ten of the eleven great grandchildren are in this photograph. Can you spot BOTH sets of multiples? Of course the quads are one set, but there are also twin boys in the mix!

Ten of the eleven great grandchildren are in this photograph. My cousin’s youngest son was ill so could not be around the babies (I really appreciated her making sure the quads weren’t exposed). Can you spot BOTH sets of multiples? Of course the quads are one set, but there are also twins in the mix.

This is nearly the entire family. We are missing just two family members. I know it made Grandma one happy lady to see everyone for the first time in years.

This is nearly the entire family. We are missing just two family members. I know it made Grandma one happy lady to see everyone all together for the first time in years.

The guests of honor, Grandpa and Grandpa aka GG Paw and GG.

The guests of honor, Grandpa and Grandpa aka GG Paw and GG.

 

Despite it being a summer afternoon in Texas, the weather was stunning.  We enjoyed a southern style picnic complete with roast, macaroni and cheese, green beans, black eyed peas, cornbread, honey buttered rolls and sliced melon.   I packed dinner for the babies, but quickly discovered they preferred the same fare as the rest of the family.  To top it off, black eyed peas were their favorite dish!  We divided the babies up among the adult tables so they each got a bit of individual time and I wasn’t overwhelmed with babies during the meal.

Nisey and Grandpa kept track of Rylin.

Nisey and Grandpa kept track of Rylin.

Haper enjoyed the company of his big cousins.

Harper enjoyed the company of his big cousins.

Mason was posted up at Aunt CiCi's table.

Mason was posted up at Aunt CiCi’s table.

Sydney sat between George and I where she packed away shredded chicken and roast beef!

Sydney sat between George and I where she packed away shredded chicken and roast beef!

After dinner and relaxing outdoors, we moved the shindig inside for a wedding cake and punch reception.  The babies had fun playing with the “big kids” on the floor.  In 51 years, I hope George and I have the quads and their families surrounding us like this!

I always think it's neat how the babies gravitate to children. They seem to know that even though they are much bigger than themselves they are not yet adults. Here Michael (one of the twins) is playing with Harper.

I always think it’s neat how the babies gravitate to children. They seem to know that even though they are much bigger than themselves they are not yet adults. Here Michael (one of the twins) is playing with Harper.

Everyone participated in a champagne toast (or sparkling juice) with cake.

Everyone participated in a champagne toast (or sparkling juice) with cake.

Hugs!

Amber

P.S. Grandma, I know you will try to print the pictures from this blog.  However, I am planning to blow up the family portrait to send to you in the mail.  Hang in there =)

The Little Things Thursdays Installment #21

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It’s time for our weekly link up with A Beautiful Ruckus for The Little Things Thursdays!  Yippee!!!!

1. One day during witching hour, the babies took a field trip to a faraway land…The Foyer & Dining Room!  The babies rarely get opportunities to venture into this part of our house, but they clamor at the gates in hopes of finding a chink to escape.  I blocked the opening between the kitchen and dining room, removed all glassware, and foreseeable baby hazards then let them explore.  They were fully entertained for nearly an hour!  Mason found the antique handles on our English liquor cabinet amazing while Sydney took up post at the window fussing at anyone who dare come near.  Harper naturally discovered the final remaining spring behind the door and flicked it with his chubby fingers.  Rylin seemed just to enjoy crawling in wide open spaces.  Maybe in a few weeks, we will revisit this exotic destination.

Sydney actually explored the entire globe from the dining room.

Sydney actually explored the entire globe from the dining room.

Don't mind the dust bunnies and other gross stuff seen on the floor. The maid hasn't been here in a while.

Don’t mind the dust bunnies and other gross stuff seen on the floor. The maid hasn’t been here in a while.

Rylin and her sidekick, Lily take on the dining room.

Rylin and her sidekick, Lily take on the dining room.

This window is just Sydney's size.

This window is just Sydney’s size.

Oh how fascinating handles can be!

Oh how fascinating handles can be!

2. I won, I won!!!!  I actually won the Simply Sweet headband giveaway hosted by fellow quad family, The McCleary Quadruplets.  If you ever wondered about blog giveaways, yes someone wins them!  They are always worth entering if you are interested in the prize.  I am also excited about being nominated for the Leibster Blog Award from Lily and the Bee.  That one gets it’s own post later, but I’m excited now!

3. My friend and co-worker, Kristin, promised her two kids a “surprise” on Monday.  Unbeknownst to them, the surprise was a day with the quads.  At first, I don’t think her teenage son, Robert was terribly impressed.  However, the quads worked their magic and won him over before the day was done.  Carolyn has been itching to play with the babies, namely Sydney, since before they were born.  Preemie babies and lock down put a damper on her play date dreams, but it finally arrived.  Here’s what Kristin had to say: 

“My kids were in heaven. We played, babies took naps, changed diapers, folded baby clothes, washed bottles, fed the babies “baby goldfish” when they signed “more”, mixed the goldfish in with Cheerios (all the babies could discriminate the goldfish and picked them out no problem with a pincer gasp..my OT friends would be proud of me!), played some more, fed the babies dinner, Amber was able to give them individual baths instead of two by two, had more bottles, watched Baby Einstein, and put the babies to bed! 8 hrs with the 4 of us and I’m pooped! Amber and George are rockstars! They make it look so easy! What a blessing these four precious, HEALTHY babies are!!!!” 

To the Nethers family, it may have been just a summer day, but to me it meant the world.  They sacrificed an entire day of summer fun to be with four busy babies.  It was a tremendous help.   If friends keep stepping up to the plate like this, I may just avoid hiring help a bit longer. 

In case they didn’t get enough quad time, Kristin and Carolyn returned the next day bearing Sippy cups and suction cup bowls.  They noticed the babies were wanting to be more independent with feeding themselves and thought we could use these items.  They boys have been using these Sippy cups with success, but “The Hulk” aka Mason figured out how to pull the bowls off the table already. 

Carolyn has a special affinity for Sydney. She even noted they resemble each other.

Carolyn has a special affinity for Sydney. She even noted they resemble each other.

Mason showed his affection for Robert by growling at him!

Kristin and Carolyn helped the babies work on signing "more" for baby goldfish or Cheerios.

Kristin and Carolyn helped the babies work on signing “more” for baby goldfish or Cheerios.

What little things brought joy to your heart this week?

Hugs!

Amber

The “Witching Hour” Anecdote

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With the babies waking from afternoon naps between 2:00 and 3:00 pm, we now have quite a bit of wake time before bed.  This time also coincides with “witching hour” (in other words, a time when the babies are particularly fussy and sometimes downright intolerable).  We have learned in recent days that “witching hour” is reserved solely for home, however.   Because the babies are enamored with novelty, they are chipper on field trips.  Since babies that cannot yet walk, we are limited as to what they can manage.  We have come up with a few creative outings for the wee ones.

Friday, we ventured to Cabela’s, which is only minutes from our home.  I’m not much of an outdoorsy gal, but Cabela’s is FREE, indoors, and best of all air-conditioned.  We spent well over an hour showing the babies the taxidermy zoo and aquarium.  We then enjoyed noshing on some sweet potato fries.  The babies especially loved this snack and three of them signed “more” repeatedly.  While Sydney didn’t sign, she vocalized that she enjoyed her snack too.  Sydney isn’t terribly interested in signing, but she babbles so much, I expect she may just say, “MORE” one day.

This is how we toted four babies around Cabela's!

This is how we toted four babies around Cabela’s!

Terri chauffered Rylin in a shopping cart.

Terri chauffered Rylin in a shopping cart.

Sydney was far more fascinated by the lighting than anything else.

Sydney was far more fascinated by the lighting than anything else.

We stopped by the kid's fishing pole koisk for Grandpa. He's been dreaming of taking the babies fishing since they were mere dots on a sonogram. Notice, the girls have a Tinkerbell and Barbie pole while the boys have Cars and Spiderman. There is something for everyone!

We stopped by the kid’s fishing pole koisk for Grandpa. He’s been dreaming of taking the babies fishing since they were mere dots on a sonogram. Notice, the girls have a Tinkerbell and Barbie pole while the boys have Cars and Spiderman. There is something for everyone!

The babies sat perfectly in these high chairs. I forgot our sticky place mats at home so improvised by washing the table with Germ X.

The babies sat perfectly in these high chairs. I forgot our sticky place mats at home so improvised by washing the table with Germ X.

The sweet potato fries were surprisingly tender and tasty.

The sweet potato fries were surprisingly tender and tasty.

On Sunday, the babies enjoyed another field trip.  This time, to Grandaddy’s house for a dip in the pool.  He has an in ground pool so it was a true swim this time.  Mason wasn’t keen on the crisp water, but was content to float in an inflatable boat or snuggle in my arms.  The other babies happily splashed and kicked in their respectable rafts.  After swimming, we changed them into dry diapers and pajamas in an assembly line then served up a delicious meal.  Following dinner, the babies enjoyed some poolside entertainment as George’s cousin, Brandi, practiced diving.  The babies gawked in amazement for well over 20 minutes allowing us time to clean up and load the van.   They may have well enjoyed the show over Baby Einstein!

The girls are suited up for the pool!

The girls are suited up for the pool!

Carol helped keep babies from crawling into the water.

Carol helped keep babies from crawling into the water.

And this is what it looks like to have four babies in a pool together.

And this is what it looks like to have four babies in a pool together.

Family picture in the pool.

Family picture in the pool.

It was much easier snapping a picture when we could hold the squirmy babies.

It was much easier snapping a picture when we could hold the squirmy babies.

Mmm, poolside dinner!

Mmm, poolside dinner!

Mason never ceases to amaze me. He used poor little Sydney to boost him up.

The Pack ‘n’ Play worked well as a baby holding tank that prevented anyone from heading towards the water unsupervised.  Mason never ceases to amaze me. He used poor little Sydney to boost him up.

Rylin rocked some wild post swim hair.

Rylin rocked some wild post swim hair.

I’m hoping to pack in many more field trips this summer, especially when I have the help of our weekday babysitters.  I’m thinking of visiting the aquarium, zoo, restaurants, and mall.   Do you have any baby friendly field trip ideas?  I’d love some suggestions, particularly inexpensive or free options.

hugs!

Amber

Nearing “The BIG One”

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As of Thursday, the babies turned 11 months old! While they are an increasing challenge, the babies are also becoming fun little people and more entertaining every day.  They are so busy in fact, George and I are putting serious thought into carving out funds for a very part time nanny or housekeeper.  I continue to enjoy spending lots of time with the babies on my own.  Without long daytime naps, maintaining the house while enriching the babies is not so simple.

At 11 months, I’m both proud and relieved to see them begin to catch up to same age peers with regards to developmental milestones.  Harper and Rylin were dismissed from Occupational Therapy several months ago, and Mason and Sydney are soon to follow suit.  The babies are all doing the following things:

crawling with tummy off the ground

pulling up onto furniture and toys

transitioning from tummy to sitting and standing to sitting

cruising along furniture and walls

picking up finger foods with a pincer grasp

eating chunky purees, including our dinners

approximating some words, babbling

using cause/ effect toys with switches or buttons

recognizing caregivers

discriminating between familiar and unfamiliar people

imitating some adult actions (e.g. clapping, faces)

indicating preferences by turning head, making faces, or making sounds

interacting with each other (I love it when they hold hands or share enjoyment with a toy)

beginning to follow simple commands (e.g. “no”, “come here”)

clapping two objects together

open and close doors

listen to stories and songs

turn pages of board books

In addition to group milestones, each of the babies has a few tricks of their own.

The days of babies laying still in a crib is a officially a thing of the past!

The days of babies laying still in a crib is a officially a thing of the past!

We had some fun capturing the babies documentary style.

We had some fun capturing the babies documentary style.

 

Here is our obligatory 11 month crib picture. They may not lay still anymore, but I love how they stand.

Here is our obligatory 11 month crib picture. They may not lay still anymore, but I love how they stand.

Of the babies, Rylin has the widest repertoire of facial expressions.  She can go from a scowl to a wide mouthed grin, letting her emotions be known.  She has been enjoying clapping for a while and signs “more” with ease.  Rylin also enjoys playing a modified version of catch and showing her four teeth.

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Harper is generally happy and loves grinning so his bottom two teeth show.  He recently learned how to sign “more” and does it frequently.  When frustrated, he holds his arms out wide and turns his wrists in little circles as he protests.  He knows the word, “no” and turns around when verbally redirected.

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Sydney is a girl with the gift of gab.  She talks almost incessantly saying, Dada, Dad (which she spreads out emphasizing the vowel), Mom, Mama, Tatata, and several others.  Sometimes, I am certain she said, “I did it!”  Apparently Syndey prefers that her personal space be respected.  When she is playing alone, she feigns injury if another baby invades her territory.  She is particularly fond of Lily and gingerly strokes her fur.

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Mason as usual conquers the motor milestones with ease.  He has been crawling well over two months now and recently began pulling up onto objects to get a better view out the window or onto a table.  While the others are close, he is the only one who uses a sippy cup independently.  When asked, “Where’s your nose?” he often crinkles his nose as he lets out a little snort, which is hilarious.

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I can’t wait to see what “the BIG one” brings!

hugs,

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #20

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It’s time once again to link up with Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus and make note of some special little moments from the week.  Without further a due, here we go!

1. When my cousin’s oldest daughter, Taylor, turned one George built her a puppet theater based on a Pottery Barn Kids version we saw in store.  It was well crafted to resemble a castle.  Recently, we noticed the babies, Sydney especially, giggle at the puppets on their DVDs.  We searched for puppets online, but found them to be expensive.  George eventually found a set on Craigslist that included a puppet theater.  The theater was cute, but not nearly as magnificent as George’s version.  He kept remarking that he wanted to build a new one like Taylor’s.  I, however, was okay with the Craigslist find.  Ironically, my cousin called a week after we bought the puppet theater asking if we wanted Taylor’s puppet theater.  At the ripe old age of eight, Taylor outgrew it.  George was ecstatic to say the least.  This week, the babies enjoyed the theater’s inaugural show.

For a brief moment, everyone watched the puppet show.

For a brief moment, everyone watched the puppet show.

Even Lily was interested.

Even Lily was interested.

2. With busybody babies, I’m always looking for fresh ways to entertain them.  I purchased a bag of plastic balls at Walmart and tossed them into a Pack ‘n’ Play as a makeshift ball pit.  I tried putting babies in there individually, but they seemed bored so I started adding babies.  Eventually, all four were in there at once and tossing balls.  It would probably be more like a play land ball pit if I added another bag of balls, but I really don’t want to store them.

Mason decided to visit his sibs in the ball pit.

Mason decided to visit his sibs in the ball pit.

And then all four ended up in the ball pit together.

And then all four ended up in the ball pit together.

3. This week has been dedicated to health and wellness for the whole family, fur babies included.  Earlier in the week George took Sasha and Lily to the vet for their annual vaccines and exam.  I intended to make dental and doctor appointments for myself on days when we have our usual babysitters. I procrastinated on appointment making and found desired times booked.  My aunt, Terri, saved the day and agreed to babysit ALL four babies single handedly while I got my pearly whites cleaned.  I never thought I would see a dental hygiene visit as “me time”, but it was.  I was in a quiet place where I could watch an episode of Ellen mostly uninterrupted.  The babies got a good report and I enjoyed some extra evening help after my appointment.

Few can manage the dual baby hold, but Terri mastered it!

Few can manage the dual baby hold, but Terri mastered it!

This is pretty typical at our place. Babies everywhere!

Babies everywhere!

4. This is a typical scene around 6:30 pm when George arrives home from work.  A picture is worth a thousand words-

Priceless!

Priceless!

What little things highlighted your week?

hugs!

Amber

Father’s Day Festivities

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It was indeed George’s first official Father’s Day this year, which was special.  However, we also spent time recognizing our own fathers who have since become “Grandaddy” and “Grandpa”.  George’s father aka Grandaddy joined us for brunch.  Since he helps us care for the babies on a weekly basis, he has become a keen observer of their individuality.  In fact, so keen he noticed immediately that something was “off” with Rylin.  Without us uttering a single word, he knew that she woke entirely too early that morning.  He also noticed when George attempted to feed Sydney a bite of food that was too big for her.  He constantly surprises me the way he knows our babies so well.  When we first brought our tiny newborns home he could hardly differentiate between Harper and Mason, but now we couldn’t confuse him if we tried.

The Quadfather and Grandaddy managed to hold all the babies for a group photo opp.

The Quadfather and Grandaddy managed to hold all the babies for a group photo opp.  I was so busy trying to capture still babies, I didn’t notice Grandaddy blinked.  Ooops!

Grandaddy was manly enough to join the babies in our new Tinkerbell Playhut.

Grandaddy was manly enough to join the babies in our new Tinkerbell Playhut.

Later in the afternoon, my family joined us for lunch and the babies’ first dip in a baby pool.  Nisey and Aunt CiCi helped me grease the babies in Water Babies and dress them in swim suits.  Then it was splash time.  To my astonishment, Harper took to the water like a fish!  At first we just helped him wade in the water, which was a blast.  Then, he dropped to his knees and crawled in the shallow water.  I gasped several times when he dunked his face or lost balance, but Harper never flinched.  He LOVED splashing and soaking in the crisp water.  The girls were only content if an adult helped them stand and walk or if they could latch onto the sides of the pool.  At one point Rylin lost her balance and got a bit too deep in the water for her taste.  I had to bail her out for greener pastures in the swing.   Mason never attempted to crawl in the water, but found great joy in bouncing on the side of the pool.  He bounced so much his swim trunks sagged down exposing his swim diaper.   Grandpa seemed to enjoy watching the quadlings splash as well as snuggle time with soppy babies.

Grandpa snuggled up with the babies for a Baby Einstein movie.

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Harper
Harper
Mason

Mason

Check out Mason's swim diaper on the right...droopy drawers!

Check out Mason’s swim diaper on the right…droopy drawers!

Swinging is even better when Aunt CiCi pushes.

Swinging is even better when Aunt CiCi pushes.

I was so proud of Harper enjoying the water even though it was unfamilar to him.

I was so proud of Harper enjoying the water even though it was unfamiliar to him.

How did you honor your father this year?

Hugs!

Amber

You Win Some, You Lose Some

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When our friends, Neha and Kristen came to help with the babies last week, I really wanted to do something that would be difficult without four adults.  I spent a good portion of the day deciding what missions I wanted to tackle and came up with two: 1. Do a first birthday photo shoot 2. Take the babies out to dinner.  You may remember, we took the babies out for dinner several months ago, but at the time they were tiny and not ready to enjoy the scenery.  At 10 months old, they can sit in high chairs, eat finger foods, and soak in their new environment.   Plus, they really need the occassional field trip.

The three of us attempted the photo shoot before George arrived home from work and it was dicey to say the least.  Needless to say, mobile babies are not so easy to capture as infants who lay still.  After squeezing four babies into beach wear, we spread a quilt outside in the shade and toted the babies outdoors.  Neha and Kristen enthusiastically blew bubbles and tossed a beach ball in a futile attempt to engage the babies.  As soon as we’d get all four situated, one or more would make a mad dash to the grass or would yank someone else’s hair.  The babies were far more concerned about exploring the back yard, or in Sydney’s case snuggling up on the quilt for a nap.  As the three of us furiously smoldered in the Texas heat, we gave up on an outdoor shoot and hauled the babies back indoors.  They were just as active inside as out so we turned on a Baby Einstien DVD.  My little trick kept the babies together, but they were hardly still and of course they craned their necks to see the television.  All I can say is we tried.  I showed George the “good one” and he made the mistake of saying, “But no one is smiling.”  Getting them together was nearly impossible so smiles were low in the priority list.

Harper is darting out of the photo as the other three have other priorities as well.

Harper is darting out of the photo as the other three have other priorities as well.

I thought it would be cute to lay the babies on the quilt with their heads together. They disagreed.

I thought it would be cute to lay the babies on the quilt with their heads together. They disagreed.

And, this was a "good one". All babies are together, but as you can see it was not the money shot.

And, this was a “good one”. All babies are together, but as you can see it was not the money shot.

Thankfully, the second mission was far better than the first.  Although it was witching hour, I thought dinner out might be refreshing for the babies. I didn’t think Jason’s Deli would be bustling on a Tuesday at 5:30 pm either.  After we fed the babies dinner, we loaded them into the van armed with an arsenal of baby supplies.  Once at Jason’s Deli I scooted in first with Super Seats as the other adults unloaded the babies.  I scouted out a long table where adults could sit in the middle and anchor the corners with babies.  After attaching each Super Seat, we adorned each baby’s spot with adhesive place mats and littered them with Cheerios.  As soon as we knew the babies were content, the adults took turns ordering.  There was just enough time for us to enjoy dinner while the babies entertained themselves with Cheerios and making observations.

Can you spot all four babies?

Can you spot all four babies?

Mason was enamored with the little girls seated behind us and spent most of the time craning his neck to see them.  At just 10 months old, he is already proving himself to be flirtatious.  Meanwhile, Sydney found the ceiling fans to be fascinating.  We were able to enjoy our meal and some conversation while the babies simply enjoyed the new scene.  Breakdown was a breeze; I pulled up place mats and wadded them into the trash, stacked Super Seats and loaded car seats.  We arrived home just in time for pajamas and the last call bottle.

Sydney looked so tiny sitting at the table. She had to stretch her arms and fingers out just to reach the Cheerios.

Sydney looked so tiny sitting at the table. She had to stretch her arms and fingers out just to reach the Cheerios.

I brought Sippy cups and then left them in the van. We improvised with cups and straws.

I brought Sippy cups and then left them in the van. We improvised with cups and straws.

The babies each got their first sample of ice cream. I wanted to make sure they were okay before their birthday.

The babies each got their first sample of ice cream. I wanted to make sure they were okay before their birthday.

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Each adult was assigned a baby Kristen: Rylin, Me: Harper, George: Sydney, and Neha: Mason.

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hugs!

Amber

The Quadfather

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Dear George,

Last year you made it clear that you did not want to be honored on Father’s Day because you weren’t yet a father.  Watching you prepare for our babies, I vehemently disagreed, but also understood your perspective.  I’ve heard men don’t feel truly bonded to their babies until they hold them for the first time because that is when it becomes real.  Unlike typical parents who hold their babies immediately after delivery, we had to wait nearly a week.  Instead, we were only able to gaze at them through isolettes and touch them through port holes.  Even though you couldn’t hold the babies immediately, you sprung into action and became “The Quadfather” the moment the babies were delivered.  Without hesitation, you rushed to the NICU to be with them and advocate for their best interests.  You were forced to make decisions for the babies on your own as I recovered.  In fact, you had the task of matching our chosen names to the babies by checking their weights.  I never once worried about your abilities because I knew you were fully capable.

These shirts were a surprise from me to you for D-Day. I love how you still wear it with pride.

These shirts were a surprise from me to you on D-Day. I love how you still wear it with pride.  You joined the ranks of a few lucky enough to be called “Quadfathers”.

It was excruciating seeing the babies only through isolesttes in the early days, but they were worth the wait.

It was excruciating seeing the babies only through isolesttes in the early days, but they were worth the wait.  Our first snuggles were momentous.

We’ve been on quite a journey together, but there’s no one I’d rather have by my side than you.  Each day I wake up to four tiny people jabbering or fussing, I am grateful that you are right beside me.  Few fathers can spoon feed four babies simultaneously, build a quad table and diaper chute, or make formula by the gallon.  You can, because we are a team.  Happy 1st Father’s Day!

Rylin was the first born and first baby you laid eyes upon.

Rylin was the first born and first baby you laid eyes upon.

When you held Harper for the first time I could see the love in your eyes.

When you held Harper for the first time I could see the love in your eyes.  If you didn’t feel bonded on delivery day, you certainly were by this very moment.

I was terrified to hold our two pound Sydney for the first time, but you didn't hesitate to wrap her in your arms.

I was terrified to hold our two pound Sydney for the first time, but you didn’t hesitate to wrap her in your arms.

Mason

Mason was the first baby we were able to hold.  He opened his eyes and looked deeply into yours.

Whether you know it or not, you are the babies hero already. When you arrive home from work, they race to the gates to see you. Whenever possible they follow you and watch your every move. So never forget, eight little eyes are watching you Daddy!

Whether you know it or not, you are the babies’ hero already. When you arrive home from work, they race to the gates to see you. Whenever possible they follow you and watch your every move. They know you are their Daddy.

xoxo,

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #19

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As the babies are getting older, they are napping less and are far more busy and inquisitive than ever before.  I’m finding that the late afternoons and evenings are becoming a time when they require more entertainment, yet aren’t quite big enough to do many things.  Thankfully with the onset of summer, more friends are available to lend a helping hand.  This week the babies enjoyed an onslaught of special visitors.  I’m thankful for the relief and sunshine these special people brought to our home this week.  This week as we link up with A Beautiful Ruckus, we are recognizing the visitors from the week.

  1. On Friday when I arrived home from work, I discovered an unexpected visitor.  Our friend, Kelsey, was sitting in the den with babies perched around her. She recently graduated from Notre Dame (we are so proud of her!) and is now back home in Texas.  Yippee!  Bless her heart, she returned for a second round of baby help Wednesday evening, which included bath night and babies who did not take naps.  It was so nutty both days she came, I didn’t get an opportunity to snap pictures.
  1. I went to the office three days this week, leaving my in-laws with the babies twice.  On Monday when I opened the door to greet them, I found George’s youngest cousin, Brandi ready to wrangle babies.  Like Kelsey, she returned for round two on Wednesday!  I know that Carol and George appreciated having a helper because the babies are just plain busy lately, even with two adults.

    Sadly, Brandi lives an hour away from us. Otherwise, I'd hire her for regular duty!

    Sadly, Brandi lives an hour away from us. Otherwise, I’d hire her for regular duty.

    1. Tuesday, my two college roommates helped me with the babies all day.  The wheels in my head began turning thinking about the rare opportunity of having two adults for an entire day.  They helped me accomplish a few missions I would not have been capable of tackling solo.  Despite the fact that there were three of us with the babies, we were exhausted by the end of the day.  I hope they’ll return for round two…
When Rylin's temper flared, Neha found a way to help her grin.

When Rylin’s temper flared, Neha found a way to help her grin.

After lunch, I read the babies a favorite book, Brown Bear, Brown bear. Sometimes I read it as is, other times I point out animal names and sounds, and sometimes I label body parts. Any way it's read the babies LOVE this book.

After lunch, I read the babies a favorite book, Brown Bear, Brown bear. Sometimes I read it as is, other times I point out animal names and sounds, and sometimes I label body parts. Any way it’s read the babies LOVE this book.

Kristen and Neha helped me work with the babies on signing "more" during snack time. Rylin and Mason are really getting it and the others are close.

Kristen and Neha helped me work with the babies on signing “more” during snack time. Rylin and Mason are really getting it and the others are close.

By the end of the day, the adults snuggled up in Boppy Pillows as the babies crawled around us. Mason and Sydney apparently took up massage therapy.

By the end of the day, the adults snuggled up in Boppy Pillows as the babies crawled around us. Mason and Sydney apparently took up massage therapy.

  1. Today, I took Mason to Cranial Technologies for his DOC band adjustment appointment.  This time however, I took Sydney along for the ride.  Sydney did extremely well and we enjoyed trying out a twin stroller handed down to us.  My friend, Jen, graciously stayed behind with Rylin and Harper so I could practice taking two babies out on my own.
Mason thought the snack cups were nifty while Sydney thought the foot rest was great.

Mason thought the snack cups were nifty while Sydney thought the foot rest was great.

I am officially working just two more days before I go on summer break myself.  I’m looking forward to having our usual helpers come over when I am home so we can go on new adventures that I cannot do alone.  What moments brightened your week?

Hugs,

Amber