They’re Finally Hitched!

Last spring George and I did the unthinkable. We sold our beloved Jeep and purchased a van in its place. I always said I would NEVER, EVER drive a van. Then God must have chuckled the day we discovered we were expecting quads and would consequently need a van. That being said, we actually really like our van. If you have to drive a van, this one is pretty nice. With the nifty seat warmer working it’s magic and the sound system going it’s rather easy to forget you are actually in a van. A few short weeks after buying the van, we made another purchase we never anticipated: a Runabout quad stroller. We stumbled across a fantastic deal and scarfed it up.

The only problem was that our new van wasn’t equipped with a trailer hitch, which is required by the stroller. Had we purchased the stroller first, a trailer hitch probably would have been in our negotiations with the dealer. We didn’t worry about it at the time knowing it would be months, even close to a year before we’d even use the stroller. We’ve been putting off adding a trailer hitch for months thinking it would be both time consuming and expensive. After a bit of research George learned it was a relatively simple DIY project with a kit from U Haul. Over spring break, George finally scrounged up enough spare time to install our trailer hitch so we could use the van and stroller for the first time! Check out our first family excursion with the Routan + Runabout:

I think the Routan and Runabout make a beautiful couple.  The babies seemed to enjoy the ride.

I think the Routan and Runabout make a beautiful couple. The babies seemed to enjoy the ride despite the dreary looking weather.

If you’ve been following our crazy journey for a while, you likely recall when we purchased the van, https://fourtoadore.com/2012/04/22/i-never-thought-i-would-say-this/ and then when we purchased our stroller https://fourtoadore.com/2012/04/30/lets-runabout/ That means you’ll also recall that the stroller loads on the van similar to a bicycle rack for transport of the stroller itself, not the quads. However, upon hearing that our stroller requires a trailer hitch, many people envisioned a stroller being pulled by the van with the hitch! I wrote about the first incident of that https://fourtoadore.com/2012/05/20/is-that-thing-safe/ shortly after it occurred because it was hilarious.

This is actually how the Runabout attaches to the trailer hitch.  We have plans to take the babies on outings such as the zoo, festivals, and more!

This is actually how the Runabout attaches to the trailer hitch. We have plans to take the babies on outing such as the zoo, festivals, and more!

However, if you are a new reader, I hope we GOTCHA!!!!! Happy April Fool’s Day.

Disclaimer: No babies were transported via the trailer hitch for this posting. Rather, the photo you see above was staged and the keys were not even in the van at the time of the photo.

Hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thusrday: Installment #9

Here are the little things we celebrated this week-

1. We now have three rolling babies (Rylin, Harper, and Mason), plus they all turn and scoot a bit.  This meant time for changes in our den arrangement.  First we sold all of our little baby equipment (three rock ‘n’ plays, two swings, three Bumbo chairs, and two bouncy seats) on Craigslist.  We caught babies trying to flip over while in these types of seats so it was time to say farewell.  With all the movement and exploration we noticed far too many baby tangle ups so our coffee table found refuge upstairs.  I really like how our den works now.  We have just two baby contraptions and an activity table so there’s much more open space for all.

Oh boy!  The babies are like heat seeking missles when they see a toy being used by another baby.  Harper is stretching out to nab Sydney's toy.

Oh boy! The babies are like heat seeking missiles when they see a toy being used by another baby. Harper and Sydney seem to be scuffling over that book.  As of now, they don’t mind having a toy snatched up, but it won’t be long before there are wails of protest.

For the first time in months there is nothing below the television besides baskets concealing baby toys.

For the first time in months there is nothing below the television besides baskets concealing baby toys. Ahh!

2. We summoned the babies to be Mini Monets once again for our spring artwork.

This is my favorite piece of baby art so far.  We used the babies' footprints to make robins for spring.

This is my favorite piece of baby art so far. We used the babies’ footprints to make robins for spring.

3. Even when we scrubbed it with rubbing alcohol, Mason’s DOC Band started smelling like a foul foot. I tried putting baby powder on his hair as suggested, but he just smelled like a stinky foot dusted in baby powder. My sister reminded me of an amazing product I bought in Vegas a few years ago.   It is coconut scented deodorant powder from Lush. They use organic and chemical free ingredients at Lush, which is baby friendly in my book.  Now his noggin smells like summery  coconut even after hours of wear!

Even when we scrubbed it with rubbing alcohol, Mason's DOC Band started smelling like a foot after day one. I tried putting baby powder on his hair, but he just smelled like a stinky foot dusted in baby powder.  My sister reminded me of this amazing product!  It is coconut scented deodorant powder from Lush.  Now his head smells like coconut even after hours of wear!

There are a few Lush stores internationally located, but if there is not one near you, check out http://www.Lush.com

4. Sydney is clearly our Little Evil Knievel with her stunt girl moves.

Sydney's latest trick is planking.  She should have a seriously developed core now!

Sydney’s latest trick is planking. She should have a seriously developed core now!  Sometime we catch her bear crawling like this, but of course she only goes backwards so it’s not efficient means of locomotion.

5. I found my latest snack craving this week when we seemed to have way too many pretzels in the pantry.  I paired them with peanut butter and Nutella.  I just love salty/ sweet snack combos!  George was less than impressed, but I think it is yum-o!

Sometimes I dip the pretzel in each scrumptious spread while other time I mix the spreads together first.  Either way I love it!

Sometimes I dip the pretzel in each scrumptious spread while other time I mix the spreads together first. Either way I love it!

6. During playtime I’ve been playing children’s music for the babies so they don’t hear only me talking all day.  And so I don’t hear myself talking all day!  Most of our children’s music was sung by the Fisher Price Little People.  The Little People have quite the repertoire of children’s sing-a-long tunes and they can carry a tune, but their voices started grating on me.  I visited the itunes store yesterday and purchased a bunch of folksy-indie children’s music that is much more appealing to me.  I am the newest fan of Frances England and Elizabeth Mitchell.   Seasoned parents, do you know of great children’s music not sung by Wee Sing or the Little People?  I accumulated a good bit, but I will soon tire of the 40 some odd songs I have now.

What little things highlighted your week?

hugs!

 

Amber

Ready to Rumble

Thursday Mason and I returned to Cranial Technologies for his DOC Band fitting to treat his Plagiocephaly (oblique head shape). When the therapist put it on him, he grinned and giggled the whole time.  She even commented on how well he acclimated to it.  His DOC Band needed some minor adjustments and we were on our way.  Mason seemed totally unphased the rest of the evening and did not have any major irritations when we did his skin checks. Since he only had it a few hours before bedtime he didn’t have to sleep in it on night one.

Mason carried on playing as usual even with his DOC Band.  However, the white looked frumpy and clinical to me.

Mason carried on playing as usual even with his DOC Band. However, the white looked frumpy and clinical to me.

He even enjoyed a Baby Einstein DVD with his sibs.

He even enjoyed a Baby Einstein DVD with his sibs.

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While Mason enjoyed his final night of slumber sans DOC Band, George got busy painting a mini masterpiece.  He found a website with samples of painted bands and used a pair of the boy’s camo pants as inspiration.  The end result was exactly as I envisioned.

The artist who painted our inspiration used shades of blue, but we chose classic camouflage colors instead.

The artist who painted our inspiration used shades of blue, but we chose classic camouflage colors instead.

Does he blend in with his surroundings now?

I think Mason’s new fangled accessory highlights his adorable face rather nicely.

I think he looks pretty dapper.

This is one dapper boy!

Friday Mason was content wearing his DOC Band during feedings and playtime, but naps were an entirely different story.  Poor Mason could not find a comfortable place and fussed the whole time.  He only napped a few times for 20-30 minutes at best.  I was concerned that his pleasant mood would soon deteriorate because he is a fantastic napper (he’ll take 90 to 120 minutes naps).  He proved me wrong and maintained a good attitude all day even without naps!

Since he couldn’t seem to sleep all day we were slightly concerned about making it through the night with Mason’s new accessory.  George and I braced ourselves for a rough night, but Mason slept like an angel!  I think he was utterly exhausted and finally figured out that he could sleep in the DOC Band after all.  Harper on the other hand woke up wailing at 10:00 pm for no apparent reason.  Thankfully, we were able to settle him and all babies slept through the night as usual.

Order is restored!  Mason is napping like himself again.

Order is restored! Mason is napping like himself again.

Hugs!

Amber

PS- In case you are new to our site,  I wrote about Mason’s Plagiocephaly here:  https://fourtoadore.com/2013/03/16/plagiosaurus/

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #8

I love when the Little Things Thursdays come back around each week.  Thursdays help me pause to reflect upon the past week and all of the wonderful things that transpired.  Even though the purpose is to delight in little things,  this week we seem have more BIG things to celebrate.  I hoped to write full posts on a few of them, but never managed to carve out the time to write them.  Hmmm, I wonder why….

1. March 20th was a momentous day in our family.  George and I celebrated our ninth wedding anniversary.  We had a hearty chuckle when George thought it was our eight instead.  I’m relatively certain that the hoopla of 2012 caused a mental lapse for George and a few more gray hairs.    Several weeks ago, Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus took a poll asking fellow quad mamas how much they felt having quads aged them.  I responded, “not at all”, which likely comes as a surprise (considering the strain of carrying them  and how demanding caring for them is now).  The truth is I do feel older, but the fact is that I am older.  Every day that passes I am one day older than before and I am okay with that.  George and I look so young in our wedding pictures, but we were young then, nine years younger to be exact.  In our nine years of marriage, we’ve had moments of sickness and health, richer and poorer with each experience helping us to grow together.  Through it all, there is no one I’d rather have at my side than George.

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George and I met at a pancake breakfast at church.  I surprised him with the ingredients for a hearty breakfast for dinner and we spent the evening cooking together.  Cooking as a team is something we really miss.

George and I met at a pancake breakfast at church. In honor of our anniversary I surprised him with the ingredients for a nostalgic breakfast for dinner and we spent time cooking it together.  He planned to bring take out home and let me take a luxurious bath.  Since I beat him to the punch with dinner, I got a rain check for tomorrow. 

 

On March 20th the babies also celebrated their eight month birthday.  I took another obligatory crib picture of them.  They are really starting to fill it out!  Harper is officially in nine month clothing and Rylin is in 6/9 month clothes.  Sydney and Mason insist on keeping their six month wardrobe to make sure that clothing storage is a challenge for me.

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2. Okay, this one is a little thing, but worthy of mention in our Big Things post.  Grandaddy did not style Sydney’s hair.  It was a tad chilly when we took an evening walk so she donned a bear hat.  She looked like this when I removed her hat!  Serious case of hat hair, I think.

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3. Do you notice anything different about our recent quad feed?  This is MAJOR progress at our house!

I would be remiss if I didn't mention the fact that this does not happen the whole feed all the time.  However, we are making huge gains in the fact that they are interested, willing, and able to hold their bottles independently.  I have not used our bottle buddies in the past week at all!

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the fact that this does not happen the entire feed all the time.  The way Rylin decided to look at her bottle is fairly common during a feed.  However, we are making huge gains in the fact that they are interested, willing, and able to hold their bottles independently. I have not used our bottle buddies in the past week at all!

What little or big things filled your week?

hugs!

Amber

Who wore green today?

Here is our March artwork.  I commissioned my friend, Jen, for this one.

Here is our March artwork. I commissioned my friend, Jen, for this one.  We agreed a four leaf clover was appropriate.

On this beautiful Saint Patrick’s Day we took the babies on a mini road trip to my parent’s house.  I say “road trip” because it’s an hour drive there and taking the babies anywhere besides a walk seems like a road trip.  We stuffed the van with a package of diapers, package of wipes. four pairs of pajamas, eight bibs, four booster seats, a swing, a travel crib (mom has two more), four bottles, two cans of formula, four jars of baby food….you get the idea.  It was everything but the kitchen sink and it practically looked like we were going out of town.  In everyone’s best interest, we waited to leave until after the babies’ morning nap.  I knew they probably wouldn’t get much shut-eye at Nisey and Grandpa’s so I thought at least one good nap was in order.  After their 11 am spoon feed (green beans) and bottle we corralled everyone into the van and hit the road in our green attire.  Thankfully, the babies made good use of their time in the van and took a decent nap.

Everyone wore green today in honor of Saint Patrick.  And of course we didn't want anyone being pinched.

Everyone wore green today in honor of Saint Patrick. And of course we didn’t want anyone being pinched.

A faux road trip seemed to be an occasion worthy of shoe wearing for everyone.

A faux road trip seemed to be an occasion worthy of shoe wearing for everyone.

Upon our arrival, the babies made note of their new surroundings.  Eight little eyes darted around the living room fully aware that we weren’t in Kansas anymore.  They clearly knew it was new territory.  Rylin being her pensive self really seemed to take it all in and pouted a little bit initially.  When everyone was settled, the big people  enjoyed a home cooked meal complete with cabbage and potatoes in honor of our Irish heritage.  The babies of course were served some delicious formula.  After lunch, George, my sister, and I headed to visit my Grandfather while the babies stayed behind.  Nisey and Grandpa reported that the babies took a short nap then devoured their spoon feeds despite being in a new place and using booster seats for the first time.  The babies also apparently met many of my parent’s neighbors while we were away.

Before we headed home, some of our extended family was able to drop by to meet the crew for the first time.   While the babies were a bit apprehensive about meeting so many new people they all acclimated very well.  Rylin really sized each person up, but was eventually won over by my uncle Clarke.  Sydney who reserves laughter for special times erupted in giggles when my uncle Mark played with her.  Harper does not know a stranger yet and enjoyed cuddle time with whomever held him.  And Mason, well, he flashed his dimples way too many times to count.  Instead of rushing home, we fed the babies their final bottle before leaving.  George and I feared there would be dire consequences of moving sleeping babies from the van to crib.  To our surprise, the babies handled it all in stride.  Mason didn’t stir a bit and the other three were awake but went to  bed without protest.  Whew!  It was a lot of work taking the babies out for the day, but we had a lot of fun and it was much easier than previous trips with them.   We’re all looking forward to getting out and exploring more this spring and summer.  My sister and I have grandiose plans for a field trip to the zoo and a shopping excursion with two babies (we’ll take the two who took a good morning nap!).

When Rylin finally warmed up to Clarke, she smiled at him and enjoyed this little game.

When Rylin finally warmed up to Clarke, she smiled at him and enjoyed this little game. 

Props to Uncle Mark who got Sydney to chuckle.

Props to Uncle Mark who got Sydney to chuckle.

My mom's sister, Linda, with Sydney enjoying a little Baby Einstein.

My Aunt Linda and Sydney enjoyed a little Baby Einstein and cuddle.

It's so much easier feeding four babies when there are more than four adults.  I don't think I fed a single baby after 11 am today.

It’s so much easier feeding four babies when there are more than four adults. I don’t think I fed a single baby after 11 am today.

Harper was enamored with his Aunt CiCi tonight.  He kept touching her face and grinning even while eating.

Harper was enamored with his Aunt CiCi tonight. He kept touching her face and grinning even while eating. 

Oh yeah, we celebrated my belated birthday.  My sister made this yummy s' mores cake found on Pinterest.

Oh yeah, we celebrated my belated birthday too. My sister made this yummy s’ mores cake found on Pinterest.  Oops, someone forgot birthday candles so they improvised with a tea light. 

This was cute.  Grandpa sang to the babies as they waited to go back to the van.

This was cute. Grandpa sang to the babies as they waited to go back to the van.

How did you spend St. Patty’s Day?  I hope you at least wore green and if not that you were pinched.  I know I made sure to pinch everyone who forgot and that was most everyone in our family except the wee ones I dressed.

Hugs!

 

Amber

Plagiosaurus

While the babies were in the NICU, both Physical and Occupational Therapists worked with them on feeding and positioning.  Repositioning is critical for premature babies because they have soft heads and spend a lot of time in bed sleeping.  At one point during our NICU stay, both Sydney and Mason began developing flattened heads.  With repositioning, they both improved.

Once the babies were home, they all began receiving Occupational Therapy through Early Childhood Intervention to help address developmental delays from prematurity.  While they have all responded well to therapy, Mason’s head continued to be a concern.  Soon after coming home, we noticed he favored his right side often turning only that way and sometimes dropping his chin towards the right.  He struggled to control his head and tummy time was a feat for him.  Early on, our Occupational Therapist, Laurie, taught us a stretching regimen and showed us how to reposition him and encourage him to look left (e.g. putting favorite toys on that side, moving his mobile).  Mason showed drastic improvements after only one therapy session.  Turning left wasn’t as difficult as it once was, but he continued to favor his right side.  Laurie ramped up Mason’s stretches and we saw some gains for him.

Back in November Mason could only hold his head up in short spurts during supported tummy time.

Back in November Mason could only hold his head up in short spurts during supported tummy time.  he is on the far left with his head dropped.

To our surprise, Mason’s tight neck muscles did not hamper his motor skill development.  He compensated and remains the only baby who skillfully  rolls over both ways, changes direction, and scoots a bit.  Additionally, he uses both hands together relatively well and explores his environment with gusto.  On the downside, since he does all of these things we cannot reposition him anymore and we still observe facial asymmetry.  Laurie urged us to have Mason evaluated for Plagioephaly, which means oblique shaped head. While it does not impact cognitive development,  Laurie explained that some research suggests that asymmetry can result in poor gait and balance due to uneven ears and eyes.  If left untreated, Plagiocephaly can cause problems with glasses sitting correctly and sports helmets fitting as well.  I was also really concerned because social psychology research indicates that people prefer to look at symmetrical faces and consider them most attractive.  It breaks my heart to think that Mason could later be viewed as less attractive if his parents didn’t want to explore treatment options.  He’s much to handsome for that!

With time and therapy, Mason has no trouble holding his head up.

With time and therapy, Mason has no trouble holding his head up.

Of course when I asked our pediatrician about it at our six month check up he scoffed at the idea touting that no one has a symmetrical head.  I’m sure he’s right, no one is perfectly symmetrical.  However, Mason’s asymmetry is noticeable and there could be repercussions in the future.  Despite Dr. Knapp’s lack of concern regarding Mason’s head shape, we chose to take him to Cranial Technologies for an evaluation, which was free.

We were glad we went with our intuition and opted for the evaluation because Mason was indeed diagnosed with Plagiocephaly.  They pointed out that the back of his head looks great (thanks to therapy), but the side is uneven pushing his right cheek, ear, and eye slightly forward.  Honestly, many people probably don’t notice, but his asymmetry was considered “severe” considering measurements from one side of his head to the other.  Since he falls within the severe range, treatment is covered by insurance. which is a huge blessing because it costs $3800.  Of course insurance required a pediatrician’s prescription, but Dr. Knapp agreed once he saw the evaluation results.  (Whew!)  We are also grateful that only one of the four babies requires treatment.  Babies who are premature, multiples, sleep on their backs, and in the NICU are at the greatest risk for developing Plagiocephaly and that describes all four of them.

This week digital images were taken of his head to create a custom fitted DOC Band.  When the initial images were taken for evaluation, Mason giggled the entire time and tracked the light they showed him.  Two weeks later it was a different story.  Mason grinned and flashed his huge dimples until I handed him off to a stranger.  He wailed and blubbered the entire time  even though I was three feet away talking to him.  I think he met the “stranger danger” milestone.

Starting next week, Mason will wear his DOC Band 23 hours every day.  We will take him back to Cranial Technologies for and adjustment every other week for the next two to three months.  I know I will loathe not being able to kiss his sweet head all day long, but in the scheme of it I know it won’t be that long.  I’m also glad we are doing this now while he is too small to remember and doesn’t have the dexterity to unfasten the straps on his band.  It might even be handy as he becomes mobile bumps into furniture.

These bands are a bit clinical and frumpy looking so George is planning to paint it to look like camouflage.  If Mason’s wearing this accessory all the time, it might as well be cute as he is.  I’m affectionately referring to Mason as my “Plagiosaurus”.

From the back, Mason's head looks similar to his siblings.  He once had an off center bald spot from favoring one side.  As he progressed with therapy the bald spot shifted to the center, but is gone since he tummy sleeps.

From the back, Mason’s head looks similar to his siblings. He once had an off center bald spot from favoring one side. As he progressed with therapy the bald spot shifted to the center, but is gone since he tummy sleeps.

Mason is a man on the move so capturing a bird's eye view of his head was tricky.  From this picture you can see where his right cheek and ear are further forward.

Mason is a man on the move so capturing a bird’s-eye view of his head was tricky. From this picture you can see where his right cheek and ear are further forward.

This is a bird's eye view of Sydney's head.  Of course she stayed still for the picture so it's a better angle, but you can notice she is more symmetrical.

This is a bird’s-eye view of Sydney’s head. Of course she stayed still for the picture so it’s a better angle, but you can notice she is more symmetrical.

It is subtle, but if you look carefully, Mason's right cheek appears fuller than the left.

It is subtle, but if you look carefully, Mason’s right cheek appears fuller than the left.

If you’d like to learn more about Plagiocephaly or Cranial Technologies please visit: http://www.cranialtech.com/

We are fortunate that Cranial Technologies has a satellite office within thirty minutes from our home as we learned that many patients travel from out of state for treatment!

Hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #7

Oh yes, it is Thursday again and time to recall the little things!

1.  On  Friday, Nisey and Terri cared for the babies as usual.  However,  my mom’s friend, Lilian also joined the troops.  I was proud to find out that Rylin developed “stranger danger”. Apparently she sized up Lilian and pouted to the point of tears.   I know it sounds nuts to want your baby to cry in the presence of a visitor, but it means she’s met a developmental milestone where she differentiates familiar and unfamiliar caregivers.  I was also pleased to learn that when she realized Nisey approved of Lilian, Rylin was okay with her too.  To top it off, Lilian brought the babies a huge box of Luvs!  It’s amazing how just as our diaper reserves were almost depleted, she restored them a bit.

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2. Mom and I had a fabulous time shopping at our local Just Between Friends consignment sale.  They are held in our area twice a year and offer everything from clothes to playground equipment.  The girls are outfitted up to about size 2T thanks to hand-me-downs from generous friends.  The boy’s closet, on the other hand,  is a bit more sparse.  Mom and I headed to the sale on half price day and scored a bounty of spring and summer clothes for a fraction of the original price.  I also found a  few books and toys as well as two pairs of Lucky Brand flats for myself (a benefit of having miniature feet is I can wear kid’s shoes!)  The girls got a few swimsuits and sunhats.  I was really grateful that Mom as with me because it was relatively chaotic and the line to check out  involved an hour wait!  On the upside, the line wound through the goods so we stumbled across a few bargains while waiting.

Just Between Friends is a nationwide franchise so check http://www.jbfsale.com to see if you have one in your area.  I’m planning to consign some of our big-ticket items at the next one!

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3. I took Mason to the doctor by himself on Monday and decided it was a worthy occasion for shoes.  He’s never worn shoes before since he doesn’t walk, but they are pretty cute.  He was enamored with is kicks.  If you look carefully you’ll notice they are sharks.

I also want to point out the fabulous seat he is using; I only wish I discovered it sooner.  It is a   Summer Infant Super Seat.  It is similar to a Bumbo allowing a baby to sit upright on the floor before they can sit independently.  However, it also converts into a booster seat that can attach to a dining chair for small infants or toddlers up to 40 lbs!  The best part for us is that the activity tray is removable so they stack for storage and travel.  We now have four of these seats.

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The Super Seat doesn't come in the same selection of colors as the Bumbo, but they do come in boy and girl color combinations.

The Super Seat doesn’t come in the same selection of colors as the Bumbo, but they do come in boy and girl color combinations at least.

4.  My Dad brought GiGi and GG Paw up for a visit on Saturday.  Sydney demonstrated a bit of stranger danger with GiGi, but soon realized she was okay and settled down.  The babies enjoyed showing off some of their new tricks and snuggled with GiGi a bit.

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5. This week is spring break so I’ve enjoyed having George at home with me.  We took advantage of our usual babysitters Wednesday (and will again on Friday) to go out on a date and run errands sans babies.  We started or morning of by getting our haircut and styled by our Mane Man, Matt.  We were both in dire need of a fresh style.  Afterwards we enjoyed some sushi before darting around town with our to-do list.

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Zushi Sushi is one of my favorite spots because they have a huge variety of vegetarian sushi and offer soy paper rather than traditional nori.  I enjoyed a Tropical Roll stuffed with asparagus, avocado, cream cheese, carrots, and sprouts then topped with mango.  George and I really want to expose the babies to sushi so they grow up appreciating different cultures and foods.  I thought it was neat that my sushi contains three foods they already enjoy!

Zushi Sushi is one of my favorite spots because they have a huge variety of vegetarian sushi and offer soy paper rather than traditional nori. I enjoyed a Tropical Roll stuffed with asparagus, avocado, cream cheese, carrots, and sprouts topped with mango. George and I really want to expose the babies to sushi so they grow up appreciating different cultures and foods. I thought it was neat that my sushi contains three foods they already enjoy!  I could almost puree the sushi I had for the babies.

What little things filled your week?

Hugs!

Amber

We Escaped!

Since the day I was put on bed rest it has been a challenge tackling not only household chores, but also running errands.  On a typical day I juggle simple household chores relatively well. Think REALLY basic stuff such as laundry, paying bills, and running the Swiffer.  The babies’ morning nap is when priority chores are accomplished, but I can’t exactly run to Kroger while the babies are sleeping.  On the two days when I go to work, I try to run quick errands on my way home.  I already feel as if we request entirely too much of our volunteers to ask them to stay any longer.  However, sometimes I literally need to grab baby oatmeal for the next few days or go to the chiropractor for an adjustment.  If I run an errand after work I only have about 30 minutes so that leaves a lot of errands undone.  Amazon has been a great help as we order a lot of what we need these days, but some things can’t be ordered.  Furthermore George and I enjoy running errands as a family.  We like to share opinions with each other and of course spend time together rather than apart.  As the babies are getting bigger and germs are less of a concern, we’ve devised a way to at least run some errands as a family.  This of course involves a grand scheme to make it all work.  We begin by plotting out what needs to be done, prioritizing errands, considering if we have  errands where one of us can run in while the other circles the block, and then timing our adventure around feeds and naps. 

Today we survived not one, but THREE errands!  After the babies’ second feed, we furiously loaded them into the van and headed to Babies R Us. There I returned extra items and picked up a new package of bibs while George cruised the parking lot.  Upon my return to the van, George informed me that I made a fatal error.  I left my cell phone in the van so when he called to “Abort Mission” due to screaming babies I had no idea.  Oh well, errand done! 

Next, we headed to Costco to load up on produce for ourselves and baby purees.  That is when the real fun began.  In order to get everyone into Costco, we each wore a baby in a front facing carrier and pushed another baby in their car seat in a Coscto cart.  Fellow quad mama, Krista, suggested the whole wear a baby idea to help us fly under the radar.  According to Krista, if you don’t bring the Runabout people are so busy they hardly notice you are there.  Well, that may work in California, but apparently nothing gets by a Texan.  People would notice George and go nuts over his “twins” then see me trailing behind with “another one” and go batty over the triplets before they realized there were actually four babies.  It was actually pretty funny.  We just smiled and nodded a lot.  People were always exceptionally nice to us and mostly just gasped in amazement.  Despite the scene we must have caused, we darted through Costco, grabbed the essentials and escaped in about 40 minutes.  On our way home we dropped by the pediatrician’s office to pick up a few formula samples.  Albeit a brief nap, the babies slept well in the 30 minute ride back home.  Even after running three errands, we managed to get home 25 minutes before the next feed.  I’m really looking forward to a time when the babies can sit up in the Costco carts so we aren’t wearing anyone.  Of course that will inevitably bring new challenges our way.

If you were shopping our our neighborhodd Costco today, you would have observed this scene.

If you were shopping our our neighborhood Costco today, you would have observed this scene. 

Here's the shopping aftermath!  As we left, the woman at customer service inquired about the boy/ girl ratio.  When we told her it was 2 boys, 2 girls she replied, "That's perfect!  I'm jealous".  I thought that was a cute, candid remark.

Here’s the shopping aftermath! As we left, the woman at customer service inquired about the boy/ girl ratio. When we told her it was 2 boys, 2 girls she replied, “That’s perfect! I’m jealous”. I thought that was a cute, candid remark.

I put Harper in the Baby Bjorn today because I think he may be running out of opportunities.  He currently weighs a whopping 18 pounds and I don't know how much longer my back can support him!

I put Harper in the Baby Bjorn today because I think he may be running out of opportunities. He currently weighs a whopping 18 pounds and I don’t know how much longer my back can support him!

After shopping, we loaded all babies then the groceries into the van.  I always felt bad that the boys have to sit in the back, but I think they have a much better view than the girls.

After shopping, we loaded all babies then the groceries into the van. I always felt bad that the boys have to sit in the back, but I think they have a much better view than the girls.

The babies finished snoozing as we unloaded the van at home.

The babies finished snoozing as we unloaded the van at home.

Hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #6

Sha-blam!  I am on top of things today and have our Little Things Thursday post ready.  Let’s hope the rest of my day is similarly productive.

1. Sunday evening George stayed home with the crew while I met up with three special friends.  The four of us helped each other weather some difficult times in order to see some beautiful rainbows.  These beautiful, strong women will be forever in my heart.   It was a bittersweet celebration of friendship as Courtney is relocating to the east coast for a new opportunity for her family.   All four of us are thankful for the technology age because she’ll never seem quite so far away.  And on the upside, I could take an east coast vacay someday to visit her.

Tarra, Katie, Courtney, and I at Mi Cocina for a bit of Tex Mex and girl time.

Tarra, Katie, Courtney, and I at Mi Cocina for a bit of Tex Mex and girl time.  I hope Courtney enjoyed her scrumptious meal, I don’t think she’ll find stellar Tex Mex on the east coast!

I timed my excursion so that I could help George spoon feed at five and then scamper back in time for the final bottle and bedtime.  When I looked down at my phone for a time check, I realized it was dangerously close to bedtime so I darted home.  When I opened the door, it was eerily quiet in the house.  Apparently the babies got hungry a bit early so George fed all four and tucked them in solo.  I was rather impressed with his Daddy skills.   I may need to get out more often!

2. The weather on Monday was delightful!  We had sunshine and temps in the low 80’s.  I seized the opportunity to take the babies outside for tummy time.  I spread a quilt where a patch of shade from the house collected and spread toys on it.  The babies marveled at the novel sounds, sights and smells of the great outdoors.  It was relaxing for all five us and I’m pretty sure we could have napped out there.  I can’t wait for another chance to do it again.  Better yet, the babies got outdoor swings for Christmas that will host many an outdoor adventure.

Mason craned his neck to observe a low flying plane.

Mason craned his neck to observe a low flying plane.

3. The babies received their fifth and final round of Synagais (medication to help prevent RSV).  This means that lock down is finally coming to a close!  It is sort of an odd feeling knowing we won’t have to be quite so stringent with preemie precautions.  I realize the babies cannot live in a germ free bubble for their entire lives and need to experience illness to build immunity, but I’m not quite ready to embrace the freedom either.  It’s not as if toting around for babies will be easy so I don’t think we’ll be exactly gallivanting around town frequently, but at least we can.  It probably mostly means that visitors will not be required to get the TDap and flu shots anymore.  We will continue to request shoes to be removed, thorough hand washing, and smoke free clothing.  I figure those things are just good health practices for any family.

I am eternally grateful for the help of some close friends who help me schelep the babies to the doctor and/ or care for them while I work.  Terri volunteered to help with the last two rounds of Synagasis and proved herself an excellent baby soother and distracter.

I am eternally grateful for the help of some close friends who help me schlep the babies to the doctor and/ or care for them while I work. Terri volunteered to help with the last two rounds of Synagasis and proved herself an excellent baby soother and distracter.

4.  Yesterday my in-laws kept the crew while we worked.   I think they had quite a lot of fun.  When I came home, I noticed Rylin’s hair was sticking up all over.  I asked her if  it was from the wind when they took a walk, but discovered that Grandaddy took up baby hair styling.  Apparently a drop of water doubles as baby styling product.  Hilarious!

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What little things filled your week?

Hugs!

Amber

PS- Stay tuned to find out about our Plagiosaurus.  Did we get a pet dinosaur???

Multitasking Mania!

As I was washing bottles last week, an episode of Ellen was playing on the DVR.  Amen for the DVR!  We rarely watch TV and when we do it is always something in the DVR.  If we didn’t have a DVR we’d probably succumb to watching Judge Judy and Hoarding: Buried Alive.  Anyways, Ellen did a bit about multitasking and it struck a chord with me.  She moaned about how awful it was that people multitask all the time,  especially while watching her show.  Then she demonstrated vacuuming while pushing a baby in a walker simultaneously.  LOVED it!  As I reeled through a typical day, I thought of all the scenarios where I multitask.  Some out of pure necessity, others need to stop immediately.  As far as wrangling babies, with four multitasking is often a must.  And sorry, Ellen, but I can only enjoy your show while doing various chores such as laundry folding and bottle washing.  At least I tune in sometimes!  However, I am making a vow to be present for my children when they are not sleeping.  I will stop doing things such as oh texting while sitting on the quilt with them or perusing an email or two.  Those things can wait!  That’s  what naps are for.

Most days, it is me and the babies at home.  I try to capture what we do  by snapping pictures of them, but since I’m alone, no one captures what I do.  Nisey and Grandpa stopped by on Saturday for a visit and captured some of multitasking mania.  Looking back at some of it, I just had to smile.  It’s quad life, what can I say?

Yes, this picture was sort of staged.  However, when alone I often look like this.  I've got Harper practicing sitting, Rylin is doing modified tummy time, Sydney is practicing her standing, and Mason is pushing up on his arms.  I also burp babies by putting one on each thigh and holding one.

Yes, this picture was sort of staged. However, when alone I often look like this. I’ve got Harper practicing sitting, Rylin is doing modified tummy time, Sydney is practicing her standing, and Mason is pushing up on his arms. I also burp babies by putting one on each thigh and holding one.

Grandpa stepped in so Sydney could go upside down.

Grandpa stepped in so Sydney could go upside down.

During tummy time, the babies help me work out my biceps.  I start with Harper and do about 10 reps, then switch to a lighter baby for another 10-15.  They also work their abs as they flex to keep their limbs out straight.

During tummy time, the babies help me work out my biceps. I start with Harper and do about 10 reps, then switch to a lighter baby for another 10-15. They also work their abs as they flex to keep their limbs out straight.

Okay, not multitasking here, but I've got to show how much they LOVE going upside down now!

Okay, I’m probably not multitasking here, but I’ve got to show how much they LOVE going upside down now!  I may be singing or chattering to them so maybe a bit of multitasking.

Even with extra feeders, someone is still multitasking by feeding two babies!

Even with extra feeders, someone is still multitasking by feeding two babies!

Dad snapped this picture of me spoon feeding and bottle feeding at the same time.  I had no idea I was even doing it!

Dad snapped this picture of me spoon feeding  Mason while bottle feeding Rylin.. I had no idea I was even doing it!

Even Nisey is juggling all four babies in her lap.  Clearly she ran out of room!

Even Nisey is juggling all four babies in her lap. Clearly she ran out of room!

Grandpa was helping entertain both Sydney and Stella at the same time.  They really enjoyed gazing at each other through the glass.

Grandpa was helping entertain both Sydney and Stella at the same time. They really enjoyed gazing at each other through the glass.

After changing diapers, George strolled into the living room like this proclaiming, "I've got three of them!"

After changing diapers, George strolled into the living room like this proclaiming, “I’ve got three of them!”  I guess he just didn’t have room to carry a fourth.

How do you multitask?  Any multitasking habits you’d like to break?  If you text and drive, please stop that one ASAP.

hugs!

Amber