Pray, Pray, Pray!

We had our weekly visit with Dr. Tabor today. That meant I fixed my hair, wore a “cute outfit”, and put on more make up than I have been. I have to admit, seeing the sunshine during the car ride was nice. Sometimes it is the simple things…

My vitals were all good and there were no signs of dilation. Also, my contractions have become fewer and further between, which is also good. George noticed that I always had contractions in the evening after taking my calcium supplement so I started taking it earlier in the day and spreading out the dosage. We mentioned this to Dr. Tabor who said we might be onto something since they use magnesium as a calcium blocker to stop premature contractions. Good observation, George!

After our last appointment, we knew we’d have to keep a close eye on tiny Sydney, but we didn’t know how much. Today she didn’t get the best report card. Her amniotic fluid levels are slightly low, which is causing some pressure on her umbilical cord and a lower heart rate than her siblings. What bothers me is that there isn’t really a treatment for this, just careful watching (and praying). I read that hydration can help so I will force some more fluids down even though I already drink a ton of water (George is excellent about keeping track of my water consumption and reprimanding me if I get behind). Extra fluids can’t hurt.

Dr. Tabor will continue to watch Sydney very closely to make sure conditions do not decline. If they do, all of the babies will have to be delivered much earlier than we would like. Of course with quads we have always known they would be premature, but ideally they would be delivered at 30-34 weeks. We are at 24 weeks now, which is the first point of viability. Babies born at 24 weeks have about a 50% chance of survival and the NICU could help their odds. While viability is a milestone, we do NOT want our babies arriving now. At 26 weeks, the survival rate jumps up to 80%, which is better but not great. However, babies born after 28 weeks have a 95% survival rate. Dr. Tabor said he would feel comfortable if we could make it to 28 weeks at least. This is all very scary still.

I am doing my best not to worry too much and remember the positives:

1. Rylin, Mason, and Harper are all doing well

2. my vitals continue to be good

3. while Sydney’s heart rate is lower than her siblings, it is still 140 bpm and that is within the normal range (the other three are at about 150 bpm)

4. Dr. Tabor said that Sydney is very active, which is a great sign

5. Dr. Tabor said he is not terribly concerned, he is just watching carefully. I know that if he were very concerned he would have admitted me today rather than making an appointment for next week. I trust him and know that he knows what is best for the babies.

Since prayer is one of the only treatments we have, please pray that Sydney’s conditions are stable and we do not need to deliver prior to 28 weeks. Also, pray that I stay calm! I do not need to work myself up about this. This may mean I will be taking LOTS more baths!



24 weeks, 2 days

16 thoughts on “Pray, Pray, Pray!

  1. Amber, I will be praying for you and your little ones and sending good thoughts your way. Take care of yourself πŸ™‚


  2. Prayers for little Sydney…. Grow baby girl! Keep up the good work. You are doing everything you can to keep those little munchkins safe. Each day is a step closer to that magical 28 weeks.


  3. I will start a little prayer list for all of my infertility blogger friends…I do have you all in my thoughts, but I want to step it up now, and Sydney will be on the top! Count with my prayers.


  4. Prayers going up now!! You are being a great momma to those kiddos already and doing everything you can. I am SO glad you have reached 24 weeks and I remember just a few weeks ago being there myself. It’s such a relief to get past viability but I know the feeling of wanting to get to at least 28. That was my goal. You’re right, drinking tons of fluid can help. The gallons of water I put away every day helped keeping my quads’ amniotic fluid levels steady when I was taking contraction meds that can cause them to drop low. You hang in there, take it day by day and keep that wonderful attitude. God is in control!


    • As always, thanks for the encouragement. It means a lot! It is good to know that drinking water helped keep your fluids in check.


  5. Praying for little Sydney and you! 24 weeks is so exciting. That’s my favorite week! πŸ˜‰ I know everything is going to turn out great. Keep thinking positive and drinking that water!


  6. Thinking of you as always, I don’t comment all the time but I want you to know I’ve been a loyal follower. Sydney, stay strong, grow big and keep active, that being said, tell everyone else to do the same =) Fluids, push push push and when you feel like you’re gonna ooze out fluids, drink some more πŸ˜‰ I drank so much water I could have floated (kidding, but it felt that way..)


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