Toddler Tip #457: Shake it up, Baby

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I'm sharing.

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. Sometimes I think we are taking the “crash course” in parenting.  They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I’m sharing.

Not surprisingly, the quads are rapidly becoming picky, toddler eaters.   For the most part they are decent eaters, but lately it’s been a challenge to convince them to eat fresh fruits and veggies.  They even shake their heads and say, “no” when they don’t want to try something.  Also, I often catch them putting undesirable food on the plates of their siblings as they snatch their favored morsels.

Last week, I excitedly borrowed some frugal meal tips from my friend, Becky.  One of her takeaway items was –“Applesaucy Drink”, served in Toss and Take Cups.  It seemed to be a great way to get them to eat fruit, while also promoting oral motor skills (something Sydney and Mason need work on).  I attempted it with the quads the very next day, and they DEVOURED this drink.  The only problem was they the boys pulverized the straws in the process.  Hmmm.  Maybe not a keeper yet.  We shall revisit.   The quads have been using silicone straw cups well for several months, but I suspected they would easily clog with applesauce so I had to think of something else.

Bananas, once the favorite fruit at our house are now a no-go.  Yet, I wasn’t willing to give up on getting the quads to eat them.  After all, bananas are the most inexpensive fruit and easiest to serve and keep.  Using the Magic Bullet, I created a banana milkshake that went through their straws seamlessly.  It was slurped down by all four in a matter of minutes.   I’m not sure anyone bothered to pause for a breath.   Upon finishing his drink, Mason let out a gigantic belch.  This week, I also tried making shakes with frozen berries, but it didn’t go as well.  I think fresh strawberries or mangoes may work so I’ll try them soon.

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The Magic Bullet does a fabulous job of making banana milk shakes.  Usually, I just blend banana and milk, but I've also added Carnation Instant Breakfast for extra calories on days they don't eat well.

Baby Banana Milk Shake- 1 cup whole milk + 1 banana

I’ve also added a Carnation Instant Breakfast on days when they didn’t eat well, and I wanted to add calories for the day.  They really lap those chocolately banana shakes up.

You may notice we use Braum’s milk.  That’s because they do not use growth hormone and sell a gallon of milk for about half the price of grocery store organic.  George goes to Braum’s to buy 2-3 gallons of milk twice per week, and he’s now a “regular”.  When they see him, they bag whole milk and hand him an ice cream cone!

For months, I’ve been also successfully using Becky’s idea of “Sneaky Mac ‘n’ Cheese”.  It’s a huge hit at our house.  After sampling part of the quad’s lunch, a friend’s daughter even requested it to be served at her house. I’m fully aware that Becky and I aren’t the first to sneak fresh produce into our children’s mouths.  In fact, there are several cookbooks based upon the principle.  However as quad moms, we are looking for SUPER SIMPLE.  What are your favorite sneaky ways to serve fruits and veggies?

Hugs!

Amber

Becoming a PTSAHM

Most people are baffled when they realize I am a part time working mom of quadruplets.  I have absolutely no doubt that if we had only one baby (or even one baby at a time) that I would be a full time working mother, and it would be perfectly fine.  For seven years, I practiced school psychology in an urban school system.  Yes, the job was often taxing and usually thankless, but it was part of my identity.  I always hoped to be a model of female independence for my children by continuing to practice.

Having quadruplets put a kink in the whole powerful, working mom gig.  Even with a post graduate education, working in the public school system is not lucrative.  At all. The cost of full time childcare would easily exceed my income, which forced us to consider the options.  A few of my colleagues were able to work out part time positions so I approached my then boss about becoming part time as well.  At the time, our district and my boss put the kibosh on part time employees because it’s a complex process.  Yet, it was the only option for me.  Either I transitioned to part time employment or I quit working to be a full time stay at home mom.  When I announced our pregnancy news to my boss and proposed working part time, I recall his gobsmacked expression.  He joked that I “pulled the quad card.”  I guess I did.  Perhaps if I was only expecting one baby my proposition would have been quickly and harshly denied.  It took several months for my part time position to be approved by the district, but it was just before the quads were delivered. I am forever thankful for it.

Working in the school system affords me school holidays, including a two week winter break.  I savor family time, but it is also a reminder why I am a Part Time Stay at Home Mom (PTSAHM).  Raising quadruplets is an immense task and being home with them 24/7 can really get to a person.  During my two week “break”, I found myself becoming increasingly impatient with both the quads and George.  It seemed that they bickered almost constantly.  I heard frustrated squeals because I was on the other side of the gate, someone took a toy, someone was pushed, someone had a coveted toy, there were no more snacks…you name it, there was plenty cause for turmoil.  After two glorious weeks, we had enough togetherness; I was plenty ready to go back to work.  If you’re not convinced that anyone would want to go to work and leave their children, take a look at this-

Breaks from work make the benefits of working part time glaringly obvious to me.  I earnestly believe I am better as a wife/ mother AND as an employee from working part time.  I get the best of both worlds.  I have opportunities to raise my children and witness their growing up years, yet I also keep up with the professional world.  Two days per week, I spend time having adult conversations, dressing in something besides yoga pants, and practicing the craft I spent years in school learning.

I also  see how I need to miss both home and work so I yearn to return to each of them.  When I’ve been at home for days on end, I’m ready to tackle the office.  While I am away, the quads benefit too. They are with fresh faces that teach them new things and present new experiences.  They learn to obey and respect adults besides their parents as well as new skill such as imitating monkeys or naming colors.  Likewise, at the end of a long workday, I can’t wait to see the four little people who will greet me shreiking “Mommy”, sticky fingers, and open mouthed grins.  While being a PTSAHM was probably not something I would have done on my own accord, I am so happy I became a PTSAHM.

Sometimes it feels as if our home is filled with bickering and screams, but there are also plenty of sweet, quiet moments to savor.

Watching the babies explore things for the first time is atop my list of favorite times.  They received these chalkboard mats from Santa and LOVED them.  Uh, Mason also wore a bit of his chalk.

Watching the babies explore things for the first time is atop my list of favorite times. They received these chalkboard mats from Santa and LOVED them.

Sisters hugging, a messy boy, and a sleeping boy all made my day.

Sisters hugging, a messy boy, and a sleeping boy all made my day, and reminded me why I love my days at home.

I absolutely respect mothers who work full time as well as those who stay at home full time.  No matter how you approach it, motherhood is an immensely challenging task.  However, if you find yourself dissatisfied with your scene (full time working or full time home), you may want to consider the possibilities of part time employment, and you may be surprised at the outcome.

hugs!

Amber

Toddler Tips #51: Stubborn Baby Shoes Solved

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I'm sharing.

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parent of little ones so I’m sharing.

Before the quads could walk, I rarely bothered putting shoes on them.  I figured that shoes at that age were primarily for admiration.  Once they began walking, we did start going out more often, but the weather was warm then.  I had no problems whatsoever putting sandals on their tiny feet.

The game changed with cooler weather and different shoes like boots and tennis shoes.  My favorite baby shoes are the magenta Converse given to us by my cousin, Jennifer.  However, cramming baby feet into them is an all out Olympic sport.  I typically unlace them to the first row of eyes and try to cajole their feet inside.  It’s absolutely frustrating.  I know what you’re probably thinking…don’t put high top shoes on a baby because it’s not practical.  BUT- I LOVE these shoes and I like enjoying things gifted to us.  I knew there had to be a better way, and joked about getting a baby shoe horn.  I didn’t expect they actually existed, but they do!  Day after day, I forgot to search Amazon for one (Amazon is almost the sole provider of stuff in our house these days).  There isn’t technically a “baby” shoe horn, but I did find a small one and we tried it today.  It worked like a charm!  It took a little convincing to get it to work, but it was a vast improvement over the other times Rylin wore these shoes.   I think I’ll add “small shoe horn” to my list of baby gear suggestions.

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hugs!

Amber

2013 in review

Every year, The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepare an annual blog report, which I find very interesting.

Here’s this year’s report:

The Louvre Museum has 8.5 million visitors per year. This blog was viewed about 160,000 times in 2013. If it were an exhibit at the Louvre Museum, it would take about 7 days for that many people to see it.

In 2013, there were 134 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 234 posts.

The busiest day of the year was July 7th with 1,561 views. The most popular post that day was What TO Say to Multiples. That one apparently stirred up some action!

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Attractions in 2013

24-28 weeks

These are the posts that got the most views in 2013.

How did they find you?

Some visitors came searching, mostly for four to adore, fourtoadore, 4 more to adore, quintuplets belly, and beta base.

Where did they come from?

133 countries in all!

Most visitors came from The United States. Canada & Australia were not far behind.

Who were they?

Your most commented on post in 2013 was What TO Say to Multiples

These were your 5 most active commenters:

  •  Amber 53 comments
  •  Becky 39 comments
  • Jack Wilcox 28 comments
  • Krista 25 comments
  •  Jane 23 comments

Pretty neat, huh?  Thank you for sharing this wild ride with us and don’t forget to stop by in 2014!

I regularly check up on our stats with the WordPress app to see where our visitors are from and what terms are used in search engines.  I’m often amazed at how much traffic we generate, and even with our stats I’m not sure exactly where our readers are located.  For example, whether you live in Fargo, North Dakota or Tampa, Florida it shows up at “United States”.  If you have a few seconds to spare, I’d love to know:

1. Where are you from? (Perhaps you are from a faraway land, or maybe just around the corner.  Either way, I’d love to know!)

2. How did you find us? (Did you search for something on Google? Are you a friend of a friend or a relative twice removed?)

hugs!

Amber

P.S. Amber & Krista, Thank you for sharing some blog love with me!  You two are my among my top referrers and commenters.

Four Christmases

The Christmas season has always been one of my favorite times of year, largely because it’s the time when we carve out time to spend with our extended family.  With the exception of last year (baby lock down), George and I have paraded from one gathering to another, often within a day’s time in order to make several Christmases happen.  George and I both recall a painful year when we stopped by THREE homes in a single day!  While we enjoy all of our family togetherness, that was a bit much.  Thankfully, our family has become more flexible with celebration dates and we spread our four Christmases over a week’s time.  It was far more relaxing that way and we never felt rushed to leave one home to arrive at the next.  Not to mention the fact, the notion of toting quadruplet toddlers to more than one place in a day is rather daunting.

#1 Saturday, December 21st

We kicked off our Four Christmas Extravaganza at our house with my parents, sister, and her boyfriend.  Typically, we do this at my parent’s house.  However, we changed venue so the adults could enjoy time together sans quads after 8:00 pm.  Our plan worked seamlessly.  When the quads were awake, we enjoyed non-stop gift opening-snack munching action.  Sydney maintained her reputation for being a pepper belly when she begged for spicy queso and gobbled it up repeatedly.  The other three seemed to be bottomless pits for all things sweet.  Once the clock struck eight, the quaddlers drifted off to sleep as the rest of us leisurely opened gifts.

Grandpa made the grave mistake of opening a snack in the den where the quads could see him.  He attracted four beggars in seconds.

Grandpa made the grave mistake of opening a snack in the den where the quads could see him. He attracted four beggars in seconds.  If you look carefully, you may notice Lily on the far right.  The dogs weren’t going to miss an opportunity for snacks.

The quads found the value of teamwork when opening a train set from Aunt CiCi.  The wrapping paper and ribbon proved to be the most entertaining part of the gift.

The quads found the value of teamwork when opening a train set from Aunt CiCi. The wrapping paper and ribbon proved to be the most entertaining part of the gift.  They became experts and paper ripping, but rarely paid attention to the treasure beneath.  I told everyone they would have been pleased with empty boxes, that’s toddlers for you!

Of the many snapshots of our whole family, I thought this one was the best.  I am seemingly ignoring the chaos behind and around me to make sure my smile was just right.

Of the many snapshots of our whole family, I thought this one was the best.  Mom, Cici, and I are all seemingly ignoring the quad chaos to make sure we looked just right.

#2 Christmas Eve

On Christmas Eve, George’s family joined us at our house.  This time, we digressed from the usual Christmas dinner fare (e.g. ham, green bean casserole, rolls…) and served breakfast for dinner.  George made Belgium waffles, bacon, and scrambled eggs while I served up fresh fruit with marshmallow dip and hash brown casserole.  It may become our new family tradition because there were NO leftovers.   This was a meal even the quadlets devoured.

We unearthed our tripod from the back of our closet in order to take a group photo.  My camera took exactly one photo before the battery died.  At least we got this one!

We unearthed our tripod from the back of our closet in order to take a group photo. My camera took exactly one photo before the battery died. At least we got this one!

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After my camera battery died, I snapped a couple of photos from my phone before it’s battery life also ended. Great planning on my part.

#3 Christmas Day

On Christmas Day, we traveled to my parent’s house to be with my Dad’s family.  The quadruplets seemed to steal the show and enjoyed spending time with their older cousins, especially the twins and their older sister.  I was pleased the quads had a second opportunity to wear their Christmas outfits from Nisey and Grandpa.

Upon our arrival, the quads enjoyed a bit of Shrek while we unloaded the van.  Their love seat time lasted approximately two minutes. GG got a snuggle with Mason while GG Paw had Harper.

Upon our arrival, the quads enjoyed a bit of Shrek while we unloaded the van. Their love seat time lasted approximately two minutes.
GG got a snuggle with Mason while GG Paw had Harper.

The older twin boys proved to be great at entertaining our quad boys while big cousin, Kenzie enjoyed time with the girls.

The older twin boys proved to be great at entertaining our quad boys while big cousin, Kenzie enjoyed time with the girls.

We got a little creative with the quads mealtime arrangement and made good use of our old Super Seat trays.  The babies found these old toys to be exciting again.

We got a little creative with the quads mealtime arrangement and made good use of our old Super Seat trays. The babies found these old toys to be exciting again.

#4 December 28th

We rounded up our Four Christmas Extravaganza at my Uncle Dale and Aunt Terri’s house with my mom’s family.  There, we maintained our family tradition of a Tex Mex meal followed gift opening mayhem and a smorgasbord of family favorite desserts.  I think we have a new favorite sweet treat that I’ll make next year- Chocolate Mint Bark.  If you like Thin Mints, this is for you!

All of the cousins had a blast playing in the unseasonably warm weather outdoors just before dinner.  Seth and Ryan's batting cage was ideal for corralling quadruplets!

All of the cousins had a blast playing in the unseasonably warm weather outdoors just before dinner. Seth and Ryan’s batting cage was ideal for corralling quadruplets!

My uncle, Dale, thought it would be a nice change to have our entire 27 person clan eating Christmas dinner at one table.  He and my Aunt Terri made his vision come to fruition in their garage with several banquet tables and many, many chairs.  There was even space for the quads to join us.

Uncle thought it would be a nice change to have our entire 27 person clan eating Christmas dinner at one table. He and my Aunt Terri made his vision come to fruition in their garage with several banquet tables and many, many chairs. There was even space for the quads to join us.

Unbelievably, Harper was caught snuggling Uncle Dale!   Sydney begged for guacamole and queso from Grandma, and big cousin Taylor gave each of the quads some quality individual time.

Unbelievably, Harper was caught snuggling Uncle Dale!  Seriously, Harper is generally as snugly as a crocodile.
Sydney begged for guacamole and queso from Grandma, and big cousin Taylor gave each of the quads some quality individual time.

Clearly, if you want to be in a photo, it's wise to grab a baby!

Clearly, if you want to be in a photo, it’s wise to grab a baby!

I must admit, celebrating Four Christmases is absolutely exhausting, and I believe we may still be in recovery.  However, we feel fortunate to have so many relatives to visit.  Time with them is precious and fleeting.  How did you spend the holidays this year?

Hugs!

Amber

Cookies for Santa

Last year, the when the babies were newborns, they had a surprise visit from Santa.  We scored some precious pictures of Santa snuggling sleeping babies that we will treasure forever.  This year, the babies are far more aware of Santa.  They point him out in pictures and say “ho ho ho” whenever they spy him.  That meant we needed to make sure they got to see him in person again.  Yet, I was hesitant to wait in a long line with four toddlers to see the big guy and maybe get a picture.  Plus, I’m still a bit nervous about germ exposure this time of year.  Our dear friends, made sure seeing Santa would not be an ordeal and arranged for him to make another home visit, but this time I was prepared and had cookies for Santa awaiting his arrival.

During Icemagedon, I felt a bit crafty and found tutorials for making decorated plates using Sharpie markers and Dollar Tree plates.  I combined one tutorial explaining how to do the lettering, and another explaining how to cure Sharpie onto a plate.  Then I used acrylic craft paint to create lights with the babies’ thumbprints.  I was very pleased with the result, and found it perfect for Santa’s visit.  I also made Santa our favorite sugar cookie recipe, which was a crowd pleaser.  In fact, a week later, the babies still point to the spot where the cookies were and sign, “more, please”.

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After baking my piece, I was afraid the thumbprints would wash off so I added a top coat of Mod Podge as a sealant. I do NOT recommend doing this. At the end of the evening, one of our friends washed it in warm water, which melted the Mod Podge and caused peeling. The next day in an effort to “fix” it, I peeled the majority of the remaining Mod Podge off and re did the thumbprints. It is now a “surface wash with damp cloth” piece.  I’m sure you could make a similar piece at a ceramics shop that’s dishwasher safe, but this was made with found materials and cost me zilch!

Before Santa arrived, I showed the babies pictures from last year and talked to them about Santa more than usual, but I still wasn’t sure how they’d react.   Santa is notorious for startling toddlers.  Thankfully, they greeted Santa just like every other visitor to our home, with big grins.

Keeping with last year’s tradition, we snapped individual pictures of each baby with Santa.

Rylin was the only one hesitant to sit on Santa's lap.  A cookie did the trick.

Rylin was the only one hesitant to sit on Santa’s lap. A cookie did the trick.

Harper

Harper

Sydney

Sydney

Mason

Mason

Santa needed a little help holding all four babies so George and I joined him.

Santa needed a little help holding all four babies so George and I joined him.

Since we were at home, the babies enjoyed playing with Santa after our obligatory pictures were snapped.

Santa couldn't help but pinch Mason's adorable cheeks.

Santa couldn’t help but pinch Mason’s adorable cheeks.

Rylin eventually warmed up to Santa just like all other visitors.

Rylin eventually warmed up to Santa just like all other visitors.

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As Christmas approaches, take time to enjoy your family and friends and don’t let it become a time of stress.  Merry Christmas!

hugs!

 

Amber

When the Cat’s Away…

About a month ago Dropcam contacted me about their “Life’s Mysteries” campaign.  They invited bloggers to share stories of times when something went awry,  but no one’s certain exactly what happened.   With four toddlers in our house, missed moments occur several times per day.  We have enough of them that I compile pictures for a semi regular series called “Shawver Shenanigans”.  If you’ve been keeping up with us for a while, you may recall the great corn starch incident.  It was a doozie!  I think there are still traces of cornstarch in our kitchen, and that’s been months.  Last week, we had a similar doozie during Icemagedon.  In an effort to entertain four busy toddlers, I introduced many new activities, and opened up typically off-limits areas of the house since novelty is always entertaining.

On this particular day, I set up our Tinkerbell PlayHut and a few tunnels in our dining room/ foyer.  It was going fabulously until I left the room to change Rylin’s diaper, leaving three toddlers unsupervised.  I thought I did a great job baby proofing this area.  I was proven wrong.  Upon my return, I realized the trio discovered a box of Sprite cans hidden underneath our hutch, and naturally began exploring them.

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Sydney had the empty box.

Suspect #2

Harper gnawed on a can.

Suspect #4

Mason pranced around with his loot.

Rylin did not wait for an invitation to play along.  She gleefully snatched a can for herself. Judging by the pictures, it looks like she found a new best pal.

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When my Dad called to chat, I figured Sprite cans were safe enough so I let everyone continue playing.  That was, until I heard a distinctive sound- the one of a shaken carbonated beverage exploding.  Apparently someone dropped, or threw their can.  Naturally, this lead to a puncture on the can and an eruption of Sprite under our dining table.  I ferociously grabbed the dented can, but it was too late.  We already had a flood and eight little feet traipsing through it, tracking icky sticky all over the floor.

Here's the evidence collected: three Sprite cans with various signs of damage two sets of wet, sticky foot prints, one on either side of the dining table

Here’s the evidence collected:
three Sprite cans with various signs of damage
two sets of wet, sticky foot prints, one on either side of the dining table

Do you spy the wet foot prints trailing Mason?

Do you spy the wet foot prints trailing Mason?

Rylin thought the splatter fest was great fun.

Rylin thought the splatter fest was great fun.

Mason was crushed when his Sprite can shenanigans came to a screeching halt.

Mason was crushed when his Sprite can shenanigans came to a screeching halt.  He seemingly caught the brunt of the spray and was soaked.

I don’t believe we will explore soda cans for quite sometime, but I assure you that this is not the final Shawver Shenanigan.  There are many, many more to come.  In this episode of Shawver Shenanigans, we had not one but two incidents 1. exploration of forbidden Sprite cans 2. a Sprite explosion.  Give the pictorial evidence, who do you suspect caused each of these incidents?

Hugs!

Amber

P.S. I was in no way compensated by Dropcam for the writing of this post. I simply enjoy writing and a good challenge so I had fun in recanting our latest incident.  I hope you enjoyed reading.

We May Starve

It’s no surprise, Texans do not bode well during winter storms. As soon as a meteorologist says there’s a possibility of a winter storm, we make a mad dash to the local supermarket to stock up on supplies.  When I say “supplies”, I really mean hibernation food.  Store shelves are quickly void of carbohydrates, junk food,  hot chocolate, and marshmallows.  We truly fear starvation during the day, or two we are “snowed in”.  I am certain that people dwelling in cold climates where snow is typical get a good laugh out of watching us panic over a few icy days, but we just can’t help it.  Our towns literally shut down because the DMV is ill prepared to treat roads, and it’s generally ice not snow so roads are impassable for the most part.  In a typical year, we have one or two wintry storms.

The first day of snow ice we are all giddy and full of excitement.  Children and their parents zestfully play in the white stuff, even if it’s ice.  We make pathetic snowmen if we can, sit by the fire, watch movies, and sip hot beverages.  By the second day, our excitement wanes, but we tolerate the storm.  Once a third day rolls around, cabin fever sets in and we start venturing out in any way possible.  We creep to our local doughnut shops, or anywhere we can travel safely.  Today was day three of what our meteorologists are calling “Icemagedon” and goodness did cabin fever strike here!  Unlike everyone else in the greater metro area, we did not go shopping just before the storm.  Our freezer and pantry contain plenty of food (George is a closet doomsday prepper) , but there are few desirable options and no “hibernation food”.  That meant we had to trek to our local supermarket to find out what remained for us.  We had no plans of taking the quads out in our van, but our Runabout proved handy for off-roading on ice.  We bundled the quads in their “Texas snow suits” with extra fleece blankies and George wore cleats to push it up hill.  We managed to get to the store within about 15 minutes so no one froze.  Apparently our neighbors had the same idea because it was packed!  The parking lot was full.

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Before entering the store, George and I planned to pick up a few Redbox movies, and we even reserved our choices.  Just after we pushed the Runabout under the awning covering the kiosk, we heard a loud rumble.  Apparently the ice began to melt, creating an avalanche.  It was a close call, people!  Needless to say, we abandoned our movie plans in order to get to safety.

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Rylin began her afternoon nap a little prematurely.  Cabin fever is exhausting!

Rylin began her afternoon nap a little prematurely. Cabin fever is exhausting!

Our list wasn’t terribly long, and we scored everything on it except bread.  There was not a single loaf of bread, bananas, or berries.  Apparently those delivery trucks didn’t make it in the storm.  Otherwise, we managed to collect our needed items to make chili, rice crispy treats, fried apples, and hashbrown casserole.  The quads garnered more attention than usual in their attire, and because everyone was nursing a case of cabin fever.  It was as if all of the shoppers had not seen another human being in years.   Our trip home went smoothly, and the quads are currently giving us a wonderful early Christmas gift- a good, long nap from ALL four.

What is your favorite way to treat cabin fever?

hugs,

Amber

Imaginations Ignited

Much like with the quad’s wardrobe, we are fortunate enough to also receive many hand me down toys.  I stash toys away for a few weeks at a time, and rotate them to keep things fresh.  When I notice fussiness and cranky babies, I know it’s time for a rotation.  Around our house, novelty is king!  It always warms my heart to see the quads discover something new to explore.

Of their toys, I’m most fond of those that encourage imaginative play.  It’s wonderful seeing the quads figure out how to really use toys and mimic adult behaviors.  For instance, they are all about their kitchen set right now.  They don’t really understand how to cook with it, but they often feed me or their stuffed animals and dolls plastic spaghetti and vegetables.  Mason and Harper are often seen stirring imaginary concoctions in tiny tea cups, or sipping their beverages.

Seriously, Mason's favorite toys are spoons.  He often clutches one in each hand, and on occasion I find them in his crib.

Seriously, Mason’s favorite toys are spoons. He often clutches one in each hand, and on occasion I find them in his crib.

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It cracks me up how they all do the "walk and talk" with their phones, and the classic speaker phone option.

Another favored toy is the telephone.  Naturally, the babies see us chatting on our cell phones, and they emulate this behavior artfully.   On a few occasions, George made the grave error of letting them play with his actual phone.  It’s impressive how they instinctively swipe and tap, but really smart phones are not good in little hands.  The baby sign for phone is to hold your hand to your ear, which they do when they spy a phone.

They have quite an array of toy phones.  So many in fact that I was tickled at comparing the evolution of them.  Our toy phone collection boasts a rotary dial phone all the way to a smart phone.  And you know what- they recognize each of these toys as phones and use them appropriately.  However, they seem to prefer the smart phone.  I believe they recognize it as being most similar to the ones we use, and they often bicker over who gets it.

This is quite the collection of toy phones.

Here’s our entire collection of telephones. 

It is rather incredible just how much technology has evolved within my life span.  When we Face Time with my sister, it reminds me of watching episodes of The Jetsons as a child.  I often wonder what the future of technology will bring for the quads.  By the time they are adults will these toy phones even be recognizable as phones?

For the most part, the quads mastered the "walk and talk" as well as the "speaker phone".

For the most part, the quads mastered the “walk and talk” as well as the “speaker phone”.

hugs,

Amber

Christmas Traditions, Old & New

Each year, the week of Thanksgiving, George and I put our Christmas tree up as our favorite Christmas movies play in the background.  This year the quads were too small to help, so we worked under the cover of darkness.  The next day, they had a special screening of Baby Einstein’s Baby Santas, however.  I imagine Christmas tree decorating as being a fun family activity for years to come, especially when our “kid tree” fills with more family creations and treasures.

My mom found this beautiful wide mesh ribbon for our tree and mantle.  It did such a lovely job of filling our tree.  In fact, we used about 50% fewer ornaments than usual (nice time saver around here!).  We typically decorate our mantle with garland laced in shimmery ribbon and white lights.  However, we knew that would be a danger this year.  Eight little hands would undoubtedly unplug the lights and yank the garland.

George and I spent the last year debating about how to enjoy a Christmas tree in the den, while keeping it safe for toddlers.  We ended up placing it atop our round coffee table so it's too high for them to tip.  The lowest branches are void of ornaments and all other low hanging ornaments are plastic, shatter proof and hook free.  Each of the quads has grasped a branch, but they really don't bother it much.

George and I spent the last year debating about how to enjoy a Christmas tree in the den, while keeping it safe for toddlers. We ended up placing it atop our round coffee table so it’s too high for them to tip. What’s really neat is that I remember my grandmother putting her tree on this same table so actually it’s an old family tradition.  The lowest branches are void of ornaments and all other low hanging ornaments are plastic, shatter proof, and hook free. Each of the quads has grasped a branch and grabbed a few ornaments, but they really don’t bother it much especially as the novelty wears away.

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I never would have imagined having this many stockings adorning our mantle, but it’s a beautiful sight. One bitter cold evening this week, George bravely built a fire and the quads obediently stayed away from the “hot”. They all know the baby sign for “hot” and heed our warnings.

In order to hang so many stockings, and "quad proof" them, we used a curtain rod and three industrial clamps.  The quads have done well with using their eyes to see and not touching, but the rod is really strong if they ever pull one.

In order to hang so many stockings, and “quad proof” them, we used a curtain rod and three industrial clamps. The quads have done well with using their eyes to see and not touching, but the rod is really strong if they ever pull one.

Once our den is transformed into a cozy Christmas scape, it’s time for cookies and popcorn.  The first Christmas we spent in our house, our neighbors generously delivered the most delicious sugar cookies we ever tasted.   At first they taunted us saying it was a “secret family recipe”, but in time they shared it with us and it’s now a family favorite here.

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I think the secret to this recipe is the heavy cream, it adds a nice richness to the flavor and it softens the texture.  This recipe yields four dozen, but I took my sweet time snapping a picture of them, and only six mini cookies remained three days after we baked them.  Also, the frosting never made it onto this batch of cookies because they were devoured too soon!

As a child, my grandmother mailed us an Advent calendar filled with chocolates, marking down the days until Christmas Day.   I remember anxiously waiting for its arrival, and then trying to figure out whether my sister or I would get to eat the first morsel (each day had one chocolate inside so we took turns).  Chocolate filled Advent calendars are rare these days, but every now and then I spy one while shopping and remember the joy they brought to our family long ago.  Several years ago, I found a beautiful mirrored Advent calendar at Target.  It has large openings covered with miniature doors for each day.  Prior to having our own children, George and I filled it for each other.  Sometimes we put little chocolates inside, and sometimes little notes to each other.  This year, we filled it with M & M’s for the quads to enjoy.  As they get older and better understand the concept, we will probably add small gifts or notes to the boxes.

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This year was our first year to adopt an Elf on the Shelf.  While the tradition has become extremely popular in the last few years, George wanted to partake in that tradition long before we even had thoughts of children on our minds.  We met our first Elf on the Shelf at my cousin’s house.  We noticed him dangling from their chandelier as we enjoyed dinner together.   She explained that it was their family’s Elf sent from Santa to monitor the children’s behavior and report back to Santa.  Every Christmas thereafter, George would mention adopting an Elf on the Shelf, and this year was prime time for it.  Since adopting our Elf, we read the story to the quads and Rylin named him, “Bop”, which they all say.  Although the Elf on the Shelf isn’t supposed to report to your home until December 1st, ours arrived a little early and has been keeping the quads in check.  Every morning we ask them were Bop is and they set out looking.  He stays in plain sight so it doesn’t usually take them long to spot him and begin pointing ferociously at him.

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Last year, when Santa stopped by for a surprise visit, I HAD to make sure the babies were dressed in cozy Christmas pajamas so a new family tradition was born.   I found these a little early, and have been dressing the quads in them a few weeks already to get as much wear as possible.  If they don’t outgrow them, they may wear them until Valentine’s Day!

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Sydney is the best snuggle bunny!  I sometimes wish I could snuggle her all day long.

Sydney is the best snuggle bunny! I sometimes wish I could snuggle her all day long.

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Perhaps the most important Christmas tradition of all is the nativity scene.  After all, it is the point of Christmas in the first place.  Our nativity is the same Fontanini one my family used as a child.  My mother passed it down to me when I went off to college and lived in my first apartment.  There is actually a really great story behind this nativity, but that’s a whole new post!

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What traditions does your family hold close to it’s heart?

Hugs,

Amber