Four Christmases

The Christmas season has always been one of my favorite times of year, largely because it’s the time when we carve out time to spend with our extended family.  With the exception of last year (baby lock down), George and I have paraded from one gathering to another, often within a day’s time in order to make several Christmases happen.  George and I both recall a painful year when we stopped by THREE homes in a single day!  While we enjoy all of our family togetherness, that was a bit much.  Thankfully, our family has become more flexible with celebration dates and we spread our four Christmases over a week’s time.  It was far more relaxing that way and we never felt rushed to leave one home to arrive at the next.  Not to mention the fact, the notion of toting quadruplet toddlers to more than one place in a day is rather daunting.

#1 Saturday, December 21st

We kicked off our Four Christmas Extravaganza at our house with my parents, sister, and her boyfriend.  Typically, we do this at my parent’s house.  However, we changed venue so the adults could enjoy time together sans quads after 8:00 pm.  Our plan worked seamlessly.  When the quads were awake, we enjoyed non-stop gift opening-snack munching action.  Sydney maintained her reputation for being a pepper belly when she begged for spicy queso and gobbled it up repeatedly.  The other three seemed to be bottomless pits for all things sweet.  Once the clock struck eight, the quaddlers drifted off to sleep as the rest of us leisurely opened gifts.

Grandpa made the grave mistake of opening a snack in the den where the quads could see him.  He attracted four beggars in seconds.

Grandpa made the grave mistake of opening a snack in the den where the quads could see him. He attracted four beggars in seconds.  If you look carefully, you may notice Lily on the far right.  The dogs weren’t going to miss an opportunity for snacks.

The quads found the value of teamwork when opening a train set from Aunt CiCi.  The wrapping paper and ribbon proved to be the most entertaining part of the gift.

The quads found the value of teamwork when opening a train set from Aunt CiCi. The wrapping paper and ribbon proved to be the most entertaining part of the gift.  They became experts and paper ripping, but rarely paid attention to the treasure beneath.  I told everyone they would have been pleased with empty boxes, that’s toddlers for you!

Of the many snapshots of our whole family, I thought this one was the best.  I am seemingly ignoring the chaos behind and around me to make sure my smile was just right.

Of the many snapshots of our whole family, I thought this one was the best.  Mom, Cici, and I are all seemingly ignoring the quad chaos to make sure we looked just right.

#2 Christmas Eve

On Christmas Eve, George’s family joined us at our house.  This time, we digressed from the usual Christmas dinner fare (e.g. ham, green bean casserole, rolls…) and served breakfast for dinner.  George made Belgium waffles, bacon, and scrambled eggs while I served up fresh fruit with marshmallow dip and hash brown casserole.  It may become our new family tradition because there were NO leftovers.   This was a meal even the quadlets devoured.

We unearthed our tripod from the back of our closet in order to take a group photo.  My camera took exactly one photo before the battery died.  At least we got this one!

We unearthed our tripod from the back of our closet in order to take a group photo. My camera took exactly one photo before the battery died. At least we got this one!

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After my camera battery died, I snapped a couple of photos from my phone before it’s battery life also ended. Great planning on my part.

#3 Christmas Day

On Christmas Day, we traveled to my parent’s house to be with my Dad’s family.  The quadruplets seemed to steal the show and enjoyed spending time with their older cousins, especially the twins and their older sister.  I was pleased the quads had a second opportunity to wear their Christmas outfits from Nisey and Grandpa.

Upon our arrival, the quads enjoyed a bit of Shrek while we unloaded the van.  Their love seat time lasted approximately two minutes. GG got a snuggle with Mason while GG Paw had Harper.

Upon our arrival, the quads enjoyed a bit of Shrek while we unloaded the van. Their love seat time lasted approximately two minutes.
GG got a snuggle with Mason while GG Paw had Harper.

The older twin boys proved to be great at entertaining our quad boys while big cousin, Kenzie enjoyed time with the girls.

The older twin boys proved to be great at entertaining our quad boys while big cousin, Kenzie enjoyed time with the girls.

We got a little creative with the quads mealtime arrangement and made good use of our old Super Seat trays.  The babies found these old toys to be exciting again.

We got a little creative with the quads mealtime arrangement and made good use of our old Super Seat trays. The babies found these old toys to be exciting again.

#4 December 28th

We rounded up our Four Christmas Extravaganza at my Uncle Dale and Aunt Terri’s house with my mom’s family.  There, we maintained our family tradition of a Tex Mex meal followed gift opening mayhem and a smorgasbord of family favorite desserts.  I think we have a new favorite sweet treat that I’ll make next year- Chocolate Mint Bark.  If you like Thin Mints, this is for you!

All of the cousins had a blast playing in the unseasonably warm weather outdoors just before dinner.  Seth and Ryan's batting cage was ideal for corralling quadruplets!

All of the cousins had a blast playing in the unseasonably warm weather outdoors just before dinner. Seth and Ryan’s batting cage was ideal for corralling quadruplets!

My uncle, Dale, thought it would be a nice change to have our entire 27 person clan eating Christmas dinner at one table.  He and my Aunt Terri made his vision come to fruition in their garage with several banquet tables and many, many chairs.  There was even space for the quads to join us.

Uncle thought it would be a nice change to have our entire 27 person clan eating Christmas dinner at one table. He and my Aunt Terri made his vision come to fruition in their garage with several banquet tables and many, many chairs. There was even space for the quads to join us.

Unbelievably, Harper was caught snuggling Uncle Dale!   Sydney begged for guacamole and queso from Grandma, and big cousin Taylor gave each of the quads some quality individual time.

Unbelievably, Harper was caught snuggling Uncle Dale!  Seriously, Harper is generally as snugly as a crocodile.
Sydney begged for guacamole and queso from Grandma, and big cousin Taylor gave each of the quads some quality individual time.

Clearly, if you want to be in a photo, it's wise to grab a baby!

Clearly, if you want to be in a photo, it’s wise to grab a baby!

I must admit, celebrating Four Christmases is absolutely exhausting, and I believe we may still be in recovery.  However, we feel fortunate to have so many relatives to visit.  Time with them is precious and fleeting.  How did you spend the holidays this year?

Hugs!

Amber

Cookies for Santa

Last year, the when the babies were newborns, they had a surprise visit from Santa.  We scored some precious pictures of Santa snuggling sleeping babies that we will treasure forever.  This year, the babies are far more aware of Santa.  They point him out in pictures and say “ho ho ho” whenever they spy him.  That meant we needed to make sure they got to see him in person again.  Yet, I was hesitant to wait in a long line with four toddlers to see the big guy and maybe get a picture.  Plus, I’m still a bit nervous about germ exposure this time of year.  Our dear friends, made sure seeing Santa would not be an ordeal and arranged for him to make another home visit, but this time I was prepared and had cookies for Santa awaiting his arrival.

During Icemagedon, I felt a bit crafty and found tutorials for making decorated plates using Sharpie markers and Dollar Tree plates.  I combined one tutorial explaining how to do the lettering, and another explaining how to cure Sharpie onto a plate.  Then I used acrylic craft paint to create lights with the babies’ thumbprints.  I was very pleased with the result, and found it perfect for Santa’s visit.  I also made Santa our favorite sugar cookie recipe, which was a crowd pleaser.  In fact, a week later, the babies still point to the spot where the cookies were and sign, “more, please”.

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After baking my piece, I was afraid the thumbprints would wash off so I added a top coat of Mod Podge as a sealant. I do NOT recommend doing this. At the end of the evening, one of our friends washed it in warm water, which melted the Mod Podge and caused peeling. The next day in an effort to “fix” it, I peeled the majority of the remaining Mod Podge off and re did the thumbprints. It is now a “surface wash with damp cloth” piece.  I’m sure you could make a similar piece at a ceramics shop that’s dishwasher safe, but this was made with found materials and cost me zilch!

Before Santa arrived, I showed the babies pictures from last year and talked to them about Santa more than usual, but I still wasn’t sure how they’d react.   Santa is notorious for startling toddlers.  Thankfully, they greeted Santa just like every other visitor to our home, with big grins.

Keeping with last year’s tradition, we snapped individual pictures of each baby with Santa.

Rylin was the only one hesitant to sit on Santa's lap.  A cookie did the trick.

Rylin was the only one hesitant to sit on Santa’s lap. A cookie did the trick.

Harper

Harper

Sydney

Sydney

Mason

Mason

Santa needed a little help holding all four babies so George and I joined him.

Santa needed a little help holding all four babies so George and I joined him.

Since we were at home, the babies enjoyed playing with Santa after our obligatory pictures were snapped.

Santa couldn't help but pinch Mason's adorable cheeks.

Santa couldn’t help but pinch Mason’s adorable cheeks.

Rylin eventually warmed up to Santa just like all other visitors.

Rylin eventually warmed up to Santa just like all other visitors.

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As Christmas approaches, take time to enjoy your family and friends and don’t let it become a time of stress.  Merry Christmas!

hugs!

 

Amber

When the Cat’s Away…

About a month ago Dropcam contacted me about their “Life’s Mysteries” campaign.  They invited bloggers to share stories of times when something went awry,  but no one’s certain exactly what happened.   With four toddlers in our house, missed moments occur several times per day.  We have enough of them that I compile pictures for a semi regular series called “Shawver Shenanigans”.  If you’ve been keeping up with us for a while, you may recall the great corn starch incident.  It was a doozie!  I think there are still traces of cornstarch in our kitchen, and that’s been months.  Last week, we had a similar doozie during Icemagedon.  In an effort to entertain four busy toddlers, I introduced many new activities, and opened up typically off-limits areas of the house since novelty is always entertaining.

On this particular day, I set up our Tinkerbell PlayHut and a few tunnels in our dining room/ foyer.  It was going fabulously until I left the room to change Rylin’s diaper, leaving three toddlers unsupervised.  I thought I did a great job baby proofing this area.  I was proven wrong.  Upon my return, I realized the trio discovered a box of Sprite cans hidden underneath our hutch, and naturally began exploring them.

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Sydney had the empty box.

Suspect #2

Harper gnawed on a can.

Suspect #4

Mason pranced around with his loot.

Rylin did not wait for an invitation to play along.  She gleefully snatched a can for herself. Judging by the pictures, it looks like she found a new best pal.

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When my Dad called to chat, I figured Sprite cans were safe enough so I let everyone continue playing.  That was, until I heard a distinctive sound- the one of a shaken carbonated beverage exploding.  Apparently someone dropped, or threw their can.  Naturally, this lead to a puncture on the can and an eruption of Sprite under our dining table.  I ferociously grabbed the dented can, but it was too late.  We already had a flood and eight little feet traipsing through it, tracking icky sticky all over the floor.

Here's the evidence collected: three Sprite cans with various signs of damage two sets of wet, sticky foot prints, one on either side of the dining table

Here’s the evidence collected:
three Sprite cans with various signs of damage
two sets of wet, sticky foot prints, one on either side of the dining table

Do you spy the wet foot prints trailing Mason?

Do you spy the wet foot prints trailing Mason?

Rylin thought the splatter fest was great fun.

Rylin thought the splatter fest was great fun.

Mason was crushed when his Sprite can shenanigans came to a screeching halt.

Mason was crushed when his Sprite can shenanigans came to a screeching halt.  He seemingly caught the brunt of the spray and was soaked.

I don’t believe we will explore soda cans for quite sometime, but I assure you that this is not the final Shawver Shenanigan.  There are many, many more to come.  In this episode of Shawver Shenanigans, we had not one but two incidents 1. exploration of forbidden Sprite cans 2. a Sprite explosion.  Give the pictorial evidence, who do you suspect caused each of these incidents?

Hugs!

Amber

P.S. I was in no way compensated by Dropcam for the writing of this post. I simply enjoy writing and a good challenge so I had fun in recanting our latest incident.  I hope you enjoyed reading.

We May Starve

It’s no surprise, Texans do not bode well during winter storms. As soon as a meteorologist says there’s a possibility of a winter storm, we make a mad dash to the local supermarket to stock up on supplies.  When I say “supplies”, I really mean hibernation food.  Store shelves are quickly void of carbohydrates, junk food,  hot chocolate, and marshmallows.  We truly fear starvation during the day, or two we are “snowed in”.  I am certain that people dwelling in cold climates where snow is typical get a good laugh out of watching us panic over a few icy days, but we just can’t help it.  Our towns literally shut down because the DMV is ill prepared to treat roads, and it’s generally ice not snow so roads are impassable for the most part.  In a typical year, we have one or two wintry storms.

The first day of snow ice we are all giddy and full of excitement.  Children and their parents zestfully play in the white stuff, even if it’s ice.  We make pathetic snowmen if we can, sit by the fire, watch movies, and sip hot beverages.  By the second day, our excitement wanes, but we tolerate the storm.  Once a third day rolls around, cabin fever sets in and we start venturing out in any way possible.  We creep to our local doughnut shops, or anywhere we can travel safely.  Today was day three of what our meteorologists are calling “Icemagedon” and goodness did cabin fever strike here!  Unlike everyone else in the greater metro area, we did not go shopping just before the storm.  Our freezer and pantry contain plenty of food (George is a closet doomsday prepper) , but there are few desirable options and no “hibernation food”.  That meant we had to trek to our local supermarket to find out what remained for us.  We had no plans of taking the quads out in our van, but our Runabout proved handy for off-roading on ice.  We bundled the quads in their “Texas snow suits” with extra fleece blankies and George wore cleats to push it up hill.  We managed to get to the store within about 15 minutes so no one froze.  Apparently our neighbors had the same idea because it was packed!  The parking lot was full.

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Before entering the store, George and I planned to pick up a few Redbox movies, and we even reserved our choices.  Just after we pushed the Runabout under the awning covering the kiosk, we heard a loud rumble.  Apparently the ice began to melt, creating an avalanche.  It was a close call, people!  Needless to say, we abandoned our movie plans in order to get to safety.

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Rylin began her afternoon nap a little prematurely.  Cabin fever is exhausting!

Rylin began her afternoon nap a little prematurely. Cabin fever is exhausting!

Our list wasn’t terribly long, and we scored everything on it except bread.  There was not a single loaf of bread, bananas, or berries.  Apparently those delivery trucks didn’t make it in the storm.  Otherwise, we managed to collect our needed items to make chili, rice crispy treats, fried apples, and hashbrown casserole.  The quads garnered more attention than usual in their attire, and because everyone was nursing a case of cabin fever.  It was as if all of the shoppers had not seen another human being in years.   Our trip home went smoothly, and the quads are currently giving us a wonderful early Christmas gift- a good, long nap from ALL four.

What is your favorite way to treat cabin fever?

hugs,

Amber

Imaginations Ignited

Much like with the quad’s wardrobe, we are fortunate enough to also receive many hand me down toys.  I stash toys away for a few weeks at a time, and rotate them to keep things fresh.  When I notice fussiness and cranky babies, I know it’s time for a rotation.  Around our house, novelty is king!  It always warms my heart to see the quads discover something new to explore.

Of their toys, I’m most fond of those that encourage imaginative play.  It’s wonderful seeing the quads figure out how to really use toys and mimic adult behaviors.  For instance, they are all about their kitchen set right now.  They don’t really understand how to cook with it, but they often feed me or their stuffed animals and dolls plastic spaghetti and vegetables.  Mason and Harper are often seen stirring imaginary concoctions in tiny tea cups, or sipping their beverages.

Seriously, Mason's favorite toys are spoons.  He often clutches one in each hand, and on occasion I find them in his crib.

Seriously, Mason’s favorite toys are spoons. He often clutches one in each hand, and on occasion I find them in his crib.

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It cracks me up how they all do the "walk and talk" with their phones, and the classic speaker phone option.

Another favored toy is the telephone.  Naturally, the babies see us chatting on our cell phones, and they emulate this behavior artfully.   On a few occasions, George made the grave error of letting them play with his actual phone.  It’s impressive how they instinctively swipe and tap, but really smart phones are not good in little hands.  The baby sign for phone is to hold your hand to your ear, which they do when they spy a phone.

They have quite an array of toy phones.  So many in fact that I was tickled at comparing the evolution of them.  Our toy phone collection boasts a rotary dial phone all the way to a smart phone.  And you know what- they recognize each of these toys as phones and use them appropriately.  However, they seem to prefer the smart phone.  I believe they recognize it as being most similar to the ones we use, and they often bicker over who gets it.

This is quite the collection of toy phones.

Here’s our entire collection of telephones. 

It is rather incredible just how much technology has evolved within my life span.  When we Face Time with my sister, it reminds me of watching episodes of The Jetsons as a child.  I often wonder what the future of technology will bring for the quads.  By the time they are adults will these toy phones even be recognizable as phones?

For the most part, the quads mastered the "walk and talk" as well as the "speaker phone".

For the most part, the quads mastered the “walk and talk” as well as the “speaker phone”.

hugs,

Amber

Christmas Traditions, Old & New

Each year, the week of Thanksgiving, George and I put our Christmas tree up as our favorite Christmas movies play in the background.  This year the quads were too small to help, so we worked under the cover of darkness.  The next day, they had a special screening of Baby Einstein’s Baby Santas, however.  I imagine Christmas tree decorating as being a fun family activity for years to come, especially when our “kid tree” fills with more family creations and treasures.

My mom found this beautiful wide mesh ribbon for our tree and mantle.  It did such a lovely job of filling our tree.  In fact, we used about 50% fewer ornaments than usual (nice time saver around here!).  We typically decorate our mantle with garland laced in shimmery ribbon and white lights.  However, we knew that would be a danger this year.  Eight little hands would undoubtedly unplug the lights and yank the garland.

George and I spent the last year debating about how to enjoy a Christmas tree in the den, while keeping it safe for toddlers.  We ended up placing it atop our round coffee table so it's too high for them to tip.  The lowest branches are void of ornaments and all other low hanging ornaments are plastic, shatter proof and hook free.  Each of the quads has grasped a branch, but they really don't bother it much.

George and I spent the last year debating about how to enjoy a Christmas tree in the den, while keeping it safe for toddlers. We ended up placing it atop our round coffee table so it’s too high for them to tip. What’s really neat is that I remember my grandmother putting her tree on this same table so actually it’s an old family tradition.  The lowest branches are void of ornaments and all other low hanging ornaments are plastic, shatter proof, and hook free. Each of the quads has grasped a branch and grabbed a few ornaments, but they really don’t bother it much especially as the novelty wears away.

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I never would have imagined having this many stockings adorning our mantle, but it’s a beautiful sight. One bitter cold evening this week, George bravely built a fire and the quads obediently stayed away from the “hot”. They all know the baby sign for “hot” and heed our warnings.

In order to hang so many stockings, and "quad proof" them, we used a curtain rod and three industrial clamps.  The quads have done well with using their eyes to see and not touching, but the rod is really strong if they ever pull one.

In order to hang so many stockings, and “quad proof” them, we used a curtain rod and three industrial clamps. The quads have done well with using their eyes to see and not touching, but the rod is really strong if they ever pull one.

Once our den is transformed into a cozy Christmas scape, it’s time for cookies and popcorn.  The first Christmas we spent in our house, our neighbors generously delivered the most delicious sugar cookies we ever tasted.   At first they taunted us saying it was a “secret family recipe”, but in time they shared it with us and it’s now a family favorite here.

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I think the secret to this recipe is the heavy cream, it adds a nice richness to the flavor and it softens the texture.  This recipe yields four dozen, but I took my sweet time snapping a picture of them, and only six mini cookies remained three days after we baked them.  Also, the frosting never made it onto this batch of cookies because they were devoured too soon!

As a child, my grandmother mailed us an Advent calendar filled with chocolates, marking down the days until Christmas Day.   I remember anxiously waiting for its arrival, and then trying to figure out whether my sister or I would get to eat the first morsel (each day had one chocolate inside so we took turns).  Chocolate filled Advent calendars are rare these days, but every now and then I spy one while shopping and remember the joy they brought to our family long ago.  Several years ago, I found a beautiful mirrored Advent calendar at Target.  It has large openings covered with miniature doors for each day.  Prior to having our own children, George and I filled it for each other.  Sometimes we put little chocolates inside, and sometimes little notes to each other.  This year, we filled it with M & M’s for the quads to enjoy.  As they get older and better understand the concept, we will probably add small gifts or notes to the boxes.

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This year was our first year to adopt an Elf on the Shelf.  While the tradition has become extremely popular in the last few years, George wanted to partake in that tradition long before we even had thoughts of children on our minds.  We met our first Elf on the Shelf at my cousin’s house.  We noticed him dangling from their chandelier as we enjoyed dinner together.   She explained that it was their family’s Elf sent from Santa to monitor the children’s behavior and report back to Santa.  Every Christmas thereafter, George would mention adopting an Elf on the Shelf, and this year was prime time for it.  Since adopting our Elf, we read the story to the quads and Rylin named him, “Bop”, which they all say.  Although the Elf on the Shelf isn’t supposed to report to your home until December 1st, ours arrived a little early and has been keeping the quads in check.  Every morning we ask them were Bop is and they set out looking.  He stays in plain sight so it doesn’t usually take them long to spot him and begin pointing ferociously at him.

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Last year, when Santa stopped by for a surprise visit, I HAD to make sure the babies were dressed in cozy Christmas pajamas so a new family tradition was born.   I found these a little early, and have been dressing the quads in them a few weeks already to get as much wear as possible.  If they don’t outgrow them, they may wear them until Valentine’s Day!

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Sydney is the best snuggle bunny!  I sometimes wish I could snuggle her all day long.

Sydney is the best snuggle bunny! I sometimes wish I could snuggle her all day long.

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Perhaps the most important Christmas tradition of all is the nativity scene.  After all, it is the point of Christmas in the first place.  Our nativity is the same Fontanini one my family used as a child.  My mother passed it down to me when I went off to college and lived in my first apartment.  There is actually a really great story behind this nativity, but that’s a whole new post!

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What traditions does your family hold close to it’s heart?

Hugs,

Amber

Toddler Tips #14: Board Book Rehab

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day to day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I'm sharing.

With each passing day, I find myself trying to solve some new challenge with raising four toddlers, aka “quaddlers”. They are a cunning lot who inspires a little ingenuity on my part (and George’s) just to manage day-to-day life. While my ideas are born from being surrounded by four toddlers, I think many of them could be helpful to any parents of little ones so I’m sharing.

Because I want the quads to develop a love of reading, I leave book baskets within their reach within in every room where they congregate.  I even keep a basket of them in the kitchen so they can peruse them before and after meals.  Our “basket books” are primarily ones I picked up at garage sales and Half Price Books, or were handed down.  We have our special books located on high bookshelves and we take them down only when an adult can sit and read them, most often at bedtime.

When we finish a meal, I’ll often hear Rylin’s raspy voice whisper, “book” as she signs “please”.  They will sometimes sit for up to 30 minutes flipping through pages of books, examining the pictures, and sometimes even asking us to label things.  It warms my heart to see this.

Photographer, Christina Childress, captured this group shot during their one year photo session.

Photographer, Christina Childress, captured this group shot during their one year photo session.  This is one of my favorite photos of the quads.

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However, sometimes I’m convinced that our children are part Billy Goat.  They love gnawing the edges of books almost as much as they enjoy looking at them.  It doesn’t matter how closely we supervise them or how often we redirect this behavior, they are toddlers and they simply chew voraciously.  At first it wasn’t really a problem aside from making books a little less attractive.  After a while, their books were so tattered they’d chomp of bits of them, posing a choking hazard among other things.  The first few times this happened, I chucked the worst books into the garbage.   Then, our collection of board books began to dwindle forcing me to look for replacements.   I didn’t want to spend money on more books I knew they’d find delectable so instead began a repair process.

Here are a few of the books with chewed spines.

Here are a few of the books with chewed spines.

To fix them, I gathered our collection of Duct tape and a pair of scissors.

To fix them, I gathered our collection of Duct tape and a pair of scissors.

Voila!  These books were put back into rotation.  Since the repair, they have chewed the edges a little bit, but they cannot get through the Duct tape and don't seem as interested in Duct tape as cardboard.

Voila! These books were put back into rotation. Since the repair, they have chewed the edges a little bit, but they cannot get through the Duct tape and don’t seem as interested in Duct tape as cardboard.

My desire to repair books began when they nearly finished off our copy of “Yummy Yucky”, which is a family favorite here.  What is your favorite children’s book?

Hugs!

Amber

Teaching Toddlers Thankfulness

George and I have been working more on teaching our children virtues recently.  As they communicate better and interact with each other more, being kind, patient, generous, and gracious are increasingly important.  My heart melted when Mason showed a generous heart at dinner, sharing his milk with Harper.

I really hadn’t considered how to teach them thankfulness until I read a post written by my cousin at Confessions of a Pastor’s Family.  Showing gratitude is important year round, but this time of year is a nice time to spend a little more time devoted to it.  I loved how her family worked together to create a “Thankful Tree” where each family member wrote some of the things they are thankful for on the leaves.  While the quads aren’t old enough to verbalize what exactly they appreciate, I combined our usual baby art with thankfulness.  I love creating art using their hands and feet because it preserves their size at various stages of life.  This year, we did the cliché hand and foot turkey.  On each of the little fingers, I wrote things I believe they are thankful for (e.g. Wubbanubs, Elmo, shape sorters) as well as things we are thankful for as a family (e.g. our doctors, family, friends).  In the future, I think it will be fun to see what they liked as babies and how they evolve into appreciating other things.

I realized after I snapped this pictures, I was short one item for Harper so I added "baby gates".  I have now idea how we'd function without them!

I realized after I snapped this pictures, I was short one item for Mason’s pinkie so I added “baby gates”. I have now idea how we’d function without them!

Our turkeys are hanging in the art gallery frame in our playroom.  I think they may live their beyond Thanksgiving as a reminder of the very blessings in our life- great and small.

Our turkeys are hanging in the art gallery frame in our playroom. I think they may live their beyond Thanksgiving as a reminder of the very blessings in our life- great and small.

While I had fun reflecting upon what our family is thankful for, that didn’t really teach the quads much this year.  I took note from Jennifer and added the sign, “thank you” to our repertoire.  They already mastered basic requests and “please” so “thank you” was a logical next step.  They haven’t mastered, “thank you”, but they certainly understand the concept.  I also pulled a small collection of books about being thankful from our library, reading them daily.   Since the babies were in the NICU, I have always prayed with them.  I’m not typically a “pray aloud” person, but in order to teach babies and children prayer, you really have to pray aloud.  Each night as I tuck each one into bed, I pray over them thanking Jesus for our day and our blessings, then I extend our prayer to others.  Even though I’ve been praying with the babies their entire life, we are just beginning a mealtime prayer.  I have always liked the one Jennifer’s family says so we are adopting her version as a mealtime prayer.  It is very close to the one my father’s family says, but is a little more child-friendly.

Come Lord Jesus be our guest.

Let this food to us be blessed.

Make us mindful for the needs of others, we ask in your name.

Amen.

Jennifer suggested a few books about thankfulness, but I found these right on our own bookshelf.  The babies favorite is, Thank God for Puppies!

Jennifer suggested a few books about thankfulness, but I found these right on our own bookshelf. The babies favorite is, “Thank You, God, for Puppies!”

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Family is always something we are thankful for, especially when raising quadruplets.  We celebrated Thanksgiving with George's extended family Sunday.  His 90 year old great aunts really seemed to enjoy meeting the newest multiples in the family.  We missed family gatherings last year due to lock down and it's nice being with extended family again.

Family is always something we are thankful for, especially when raising quadruplets. We celebrated Thanksgiving with George’s extended family Sunday. We missed family gatherings last year due to lock down and it’s nice being with extended family again.  His 90 year old twin great aunts really seemed to enjoy meeting the newest multiples in the family.

Our family has been blessed in many ways, and it is important that we teach our children beginning right now to be thankful for what we are given each day.  What are you thankful for?

hugs!

 

Amber

Live Clean (Baby)

Between our four babies, it turns out that two of them have sensitive skin.    So sensitive in fact, we make our own baby wipes and laundry detergent! I never would have thought I’d be making those things, but to protect sensitive skin, it’s worthwhile.  Harper has a mild case of eczema that we keep an eye on, and Sydney is prone to break outs and diaper rash if we aren’t careful.  I really appreciate things that smell good whether it be our laundry or shampoo.  I mean who doesn’t love the scent of fresh sheets???  However, when making our own laundry detergent and using “sensitive skin” formulas we generally sacrifice scent in the process.

When I found out about a new line of Eco-friendly, organic baby bath products sold exclusively at Walgreen’s, I was excited to try them.  However, I wasn’t willing to try yet another line of the boring, unscented variety or something that would be too expensive for our family budget. I cruised into our neighborhood Walgreen’s for a sneak peek.  To my delight, the Live Clean (Baby)  products are affordably priced (similar to other products we buy) and had a nice light fragrance.  Just like all other baby bath products we’ve used, all Live Clean (Baby) products are tear free, hypoallergenic, and pediatrician tested.  I noticed that all of their products use plant-based ingredients.  For instance, the first ingredients in the shampoo are water, aloe leaf extract, and lavender flower extract (those things smell lovely, by the way).  They are also free of parabens, and sulfates, are vegan, and cruelty free (none of their products or ingredients are tested on animals).   Based upon those things I decided the Live Clean (Baby) product line was worth a test spin.

At our house, bath time is quite an ordeal so we alternate days that we give baths.  When I know it’s bath night, I often serve a messier dinner than usual, knowing a bath will follow.  Oatmeal is one of my favorite bath night meals because it’s thick, hearty texture is a good way for the quads to practice spoon-feeding themselves.  In the process, we usually get oatmeal facials all around, which warrant heavy-duty bathing.

On bath night, I often serve oatmeal for dinner.  It provides a hearty, thick texture for the quads to practice spoon feeding themselves.  But, they end up making oatmeal facials out of a good portion of their dinner.

The girls are doing a really good job with utensils and making most of the food go into their mouths.  Even so, they are messy at mealtimes.

The boys eat a little more haphazardly, and often lose the privilege of bowls and spoons.

The boys eat a little more haphazardly, and often lose the privilege of bowls and spoons.

It’s pretty clear that bath products have a big job at our house, and our Live Clean (Baby) products arrived just in time!  It was coincidentally bath night when our box arrived.

Our Live Clean Baby gift included bar soap, foaming wash, baby bath, shampoo and wash, lotion, and non-petroleum jelly.

Our Live Clean (Baby) sample set included moisturizing bar soap, foaming wash, moisturizing baby bath, tearless shampoo and wash, moisturizing lotion, and non-petroleum jelly.

I don’t typically make bubble baths, but the baby wash directions said to use a capful for a bubble bath so I gave it a whirl.

The baby wash created nice, thick bubbles, which Rylin was ready to explore.

The baby wash created nice, thick bubbles, which Rylin was ready to explore.

The quads really enjoyed running their hands and fingers through the bubbles.

The quads really enjoyed running their hands and fingers through the bubbles.  It was a nice sensory activity for them.

I know that lather doesn't have anything to do with effectiveness of shampoos and soaps, but I admittedly love soap with a rich lather.  I also know that sulfates generally are what create a lather, yet Live Clean Baby products are sulfate free and create an fantastic lather.

I know that lather doesn’t have anything to do with effectiveness of shampoos and soaps, but I admittedly LOVE shampoo and soap with a rich lather. I also know that sulfates generally are what create a lather, and Live Clean (Baby) products are sulfate free, yet they create a luxurious lather.  I used the wash/ shampoo on the girls.

I wanted to compare the foaming wash and shampoo/ wash so the boys got the foaming wash.  Guess what- the foaming wash created the same great lather.

I wanted to compare the foaming wash and shampoo/ wash so the boys got the foaming wash. Guess what- the foaming wash created the same great lather!

I never tried bar soap on the babies, and was pleasantly surprised at how the bar soap also created a nice thick lather, and seemed to moisturize their skin. I believe the bar soap will last us much longer than a typical bottle of liquid baby wash, which means it can save us money in the long run.

Sydney came out of her bath feeling refreshed and chipper.

Sydney came out of her bath feeling refreshed and chipper.

Following a dunk in the tub, I always give each baby a massage with baby lotion and use petroleum jelly to grease their hineys, creating a moisture barrier before bed.  The Live (Clean Baby) lotion had a light, refreshing floral scent that I liked even for myself.

Ahhh, two clean girls ready for bed!

Ahhh, two clean girls ready for bed!

Voila!  Two clean boys ready to hit the sack.

Voila! Two clean boys ready to hit the sack.

The true litmus test for these products came the next morning after the babies slept a solid 12 hours.  First of all, my two sensitive skin babies had no problems with the new products, which means it was gentle enough for them.  While the texture of the non-petroleum jelly was a bit thinner than our usual, it worked just as effectively the babies were diaper rash free the next morning.  My favorite part was they smelled as if they had just taken a bath even after 12 hours of slumber.  During the night, they tend to drool and sweat so most of the time the fresh bathed scent has long vanished.  After using these products, my mom even noticed their hair was really soft and smelled nice a full day after bath.  Amazing!!!

What measures do you take to protect your little one’s skin?

hugs!

Amber

P.S. I would like to extend a special thank you to Live Clean (Baby) for providing samples of their products for review.  I received no other compensation and all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own.

The Best Gift

A couple of months back when George celebrated his birthday, my parents gave him the best. gift. ever. an evening of babysitting.  They also gave him movie tickets and a restaurant gift card, but seriously, the babysitting was perfection.  It took us several months to redeem his gift, but this weekend proved the perfect time.

In honor of her birthday, my sister invited her friends to go bowling at a chic Dallas alley (a far cry from Fred Flintstone’s lanes) Saturday night.  I was delighted she included us in her celebration, but didn’t expect we could attend.   After seeing the invitation, George said he was game so we made arrangements to redeem his gift.   Saturday afternoon, Mom and Dad headed up to our house and set up shop.  Not only did they agree to babysit for the evening, but my parents also planned to spend the night.  Just before we left, I snapped a few pictures of the quads with Nisey and Grandpa.

Grandpa and Nisey assured us that all would be well for the evening.

Grandpa and Nisey assured us that all would be well for the evening.  Harper does not enjoy snuggling and has not slept in my arms since infancy.  Apparently Grandpa has “the touch”.

We love our kids fiercely, but it was nice getting out into a social scene together.

We love our kids fiercely, but it was nice getting out into a social scene together.  We really enjoyed spending time with Courtney’s circle.

We had trouble picking teams so went girls vs guys.  I have no idea which team won, however.

We had trouble picking teams so went girls vs guys. I have no idea which team won, however.

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Courtney and her beau, Matt, were up at the same time.

George thought it was more fun to check ball speed than to knock down pins.

George thought it was more fun to check ball speed than to knock down pins.  He and one of the guys kept trying to outdo each other.  In the end, I think Anton won that battle with something like 24 mph.

Courtney and I took a cheesy sister picture, which reminded me of a middle school volleyball team photo.  Notice I have super dorky bowling shoes thanks to miniature feet.  I think they gave me a kid's pair.

Courtney and I took a cheesy sister picture, which reminds me of a middle school volleyball team photo.  We should have put a bowling ball between us to make it goofier.  Notice I have super dorky bowling shoes with Velcro closure, I think they gave me a kid’s pair.

Thankfully, no one in our group had any bowling talent whatsoever.  There's nothing worse than being a terrible bowler when you realize your company has their own shoes and ball (that happened to George and I once).

Thankfully, no one in our group had any bowling talent whatsoever. There’s nothing worse than being a terrible bowler when you realize your company has their own shoes, monogrammed jacket, and ball (that happened to George and I once).  We had much more fun in the company of equally awful bowlers.  I managed a few strikes, but rest assured, there were far more gutter balls.

I felt like a teenager when George and I crept home under the cover of darkness as my mom waited up on the sofa.  Unlike our teen years, Mom didn’t reprimand us for breaking curfew.  Instead,  she inquired about our evening and dished what the quads did.  My aunt, uncle, and younger cousins stopped by for dinner with our crew.  Then, the quads cut the rug with their dance moves, which apparently created an uproar of laughter.  (I’m working on capturing their “moves” so I can share them later, because they really are hysterical).   Once all stories were sufficiently swapped, we all tiptoed off to bed knowing that four little people would wake us all too soon.

On Sunday morning, George and I woke up around 8:00 am to an eerily quiet house.  When we padded into the kitchen, we found the quads situated at the quad table as my parents fed them breakfast.  And, that was wonderful!

What’s the best birthday gift you ever received?

hugs!

Amber