A Four Horse Race

After the babies celebrated their first birthday, many people began asking if they were walking.  Not quite yet.  However, that doesn’t mean they aren’t giving it the old college try.  Each of them approaches mobility in their own way,  practicing their skills daily.  It’s a joy to watch their little triumphs.

Rylin is fantastic at balancing.  From a seated position, she can rise to her feet, bend down and come back up again.  We see her cruising from pieces of furniture and pushing toys often.  Most of the time she lacks courage to take steps, but I think she’s capable.

This is Rylin's favorite walker, but she also likes the shopping cart, activity table, and turtle.

This is Rylin’s favorite walker, but she also likes the shopping cart, activity table, and turtle.

I think Harper has been wanting to walk since he was about three months old, which is when he first started wanting to bear weight on his feet.  He also balances really well and pushes toys all over the place, including non-push toys like tables.  He hasn’t gotten the moxie to take steps either, but is so proud of himself when he walks holding one of our hands.

Harper really looks like he wants to walk, but taking steps is intimidating stuff.

Harper really looks like he wants to walk, but taking steps is intimidating stuff.

Sydney isn’t keen on standing without support, but she pulls up onto everything and cruises everywhere.  Her favorite activity is circling the coffee table or galloping along the fireplace.  She becomes territorial and protests when other babies invade her space while she’s doing either of these things.

Furniture gives Sydney a nice security blanket.

Furniture gives Sydney a nice security blanket.

As of today, Mason is the only one brave enough to take unassisted steps.  Much of the time he becomes over excited and bounces or leans forward, putting a halt to walking.  He is also well versed with push toys, including pushing toys on his knees.

Wheeled toys are the best for pushing.

Wheeled toys are the best for pushing.

Given the evidence, who do you expect to become a  skilled walker first?

hugs,

Amber

PS- There’s a video on Facebook of the babies in action!

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #30

I think I blinked and it was suddenly Thursday. That means it’s time once again to link up with Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus for the Little Things Thursdays. Each week we pause to reflect upon some of the little things that made the week special.

1. On Monday, we had a play date with two year old triplets (a quatriplet play date). I met their mom, Christina, indirectly through my mom a while back. Her aunt and mom work in the same office and chatter about high order multiples, comparing notes often. This was the first play date we’ve had with older kids so I wasn’t sure how it would go. Even though the triplets are a bit older, they seemed to enjoy our toddler toys, especially The Weebles Treehouse. They were also good with the babies. In addition to enjoying our toys, the triplets educated me on toddler proofing. They proved themselves capable of opening our baby gate and reaching our remote control basket. Oh the things to come!

It's incredible how much taller two year olds are!

It’s incredible how much taller two year olds are in comparison to our 13 month olds.

I was bummed to find out that at two, the triplets were too big for our quad table.  I was hoping to hang onto that thing until the quads were close to three.  At leas the triplets were okay eating picnic style.

I was bummed to find out that at two, the triplets were too big for our quad table. I was hoping to hang onto that thing until the quads were closer to three. At least the triplets were okay eating picnic style.

The Weebles Treehouse was by far the favorite toy.

The Weebles Treehouse and Camper were favorites.

2. The past several months have been trying for our community of parents of multiples. Several families have said goodbye to their babies far too soon, and the entire community felt the pangs of their grief. As a way to honor these precious babies, members of our group came together to collect funds. We then worked with an artist, Victoria Glen, to create memorial necklaces. She creates custom, hand stamped jewelry using a variety of metal materials and designed beautiful pieces for them. When we commissioned the second piece, she was so moved by the story, she donated her work to the family. What an act of kindness for a family she’s never seen or met!

I was so impressed with Victoria’s work, I ordered a piece for myself. Because her work is 100% custom, I was concerned it might not fit my quad mom budget. To my surprise, she’s very reasonable, and can work with a small budget. Victoria worked with me to determine exactly what I envisioned. She took time to listen to my description and sent pictures with examples of options so I could see various combinations. I chose a long necklace with the babies names stamped around a hammered heart. I requested two additional embellishments, one a crystal ruby (the babies’ birthstone) and the other a stamped circle with their birth date. I chose stainless steel because it’s strong and virtually quadruplet proof! I LOVE my necklace! If you want to give a personalized gift to someone special (or yourself), drop by her Facebook page to see her gallery for inspiration and send her a message.

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My necklace is actually in transit. Victoria sent me this picture to make sure I approved before shipping. I think it’s lovely in the photograph.

3. Over the past year, I’ve neglected my passion for reading. I unabashedly assumed there was no time for it a midst raising quadruplets. A few weeks ago, a friend with young children was telling me about a new book series she enjoys. The wheels started churning in my head and I wondered why I don’t have time to read. Naturally, I don’t have entire evenings or days to devour a book, but I can spare a few minutes a day for a novel. Sophie Kinsella is one of my favorite authors and I knew my sister had her most recent release so I borrowed it. Sophie writes light-hearted comical pieces that aren’t complex, which I find relaxing. I’ve since returned to my former bedtime routine of reading just one chapter before I nod off to sleep. It’s been so long since I read a Sophie book, I nearly forgot how much I adore them. She’s British so I tend to pick up a new British vocabulary. In the next few weeks I may talk about knickers, mention sniggers, or proclaim, “Bollocks!” If I really let it get to me, I may adopt a phony British accent. I’m enamored with accents as long as I can follow them. I should add, I found Sophie Kineslla’s books on CD first, when I had a long commute. It was then that I developed a love of the British accent. Whenever I read her books now in print, I hear the accents coming through.

Order is restored with a novel on my nightstand!

Order is restored with a novel on my nightstand!

For Christmas, I had book stamp made for Courtney.

For Christmas, I had book stamp made for Courtney.

If I want the babies to enjoy books, I need to model reading for them!

If I want the babies to enjoy books, I must model reading for them.

4. Last night I found this biohazard bag neatly folded in our camera bag.  I have a hazy memory of surgery prep before the babies’ delivery. I had to remove my earrings and my sister requested a bag for safe keeping.  They have been safe for well over a year!  The only problem is I had no idea where my earrings were and since purchased a new pair.  I’m glad to have my old pair back again.

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What rays of sunshine did you see this week?

Hugs!

Amber

Over The Summer: {Staycation}

Believe it or not, the summer wasn’t ALL about the babies. Yes, it was mostly baby centered, but as a Father’s Day gift I arranged stay-cation for George and I. To my delight, Nisey, Grandpa, Terri, and Ed accepted the challenge to babysit overnight. Seriously, to leave four babies overnight, we needed four adults. On Father’s Day, George received a gift certificate for a date night including dinner and movie of his choice. Unbeknownst to him, we were also staying the night at the nearest Hilton, our first night away from the babies.

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Since he had Cart Blanche, George chose the new Star Trek flick. I’ll be honest, I remember the television series, but have never seen it or any of the previous movies. Consequently, I had very low expectations for the movie. Fortunately, it was far better than I anticipated. Plus, I got the background on Star Trek, which means I now understand the references on the Big Bang Theory. Following the movie, we enjoyed George’s favorite cuisine, sushi, at Sushi Zushi. I am not a fan of fish or really seafood in general, but Sushi Zushi, has a wide array of vegetarian/ vegan options I enjoy.

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Because going out without four babies is a rare occasion for us, George and I did a little shopping after dinner. I snagged a few deals at Gap, and then we could not resist going to Carter’s. The majority of the babies’ clothes are either hand me downs or gifts so I rarely shop for them. Before the babies were born, I took a stance that I did not want to dress them in identical outfits. Instead, I wanted to celebrate their uniqueness. I often dress them in similar colors or coordinated outfits because it looks cute in pictures, but that’s where I usually draw the line. Going into Carter’s was an “Ah ha” moment for me. Parents of multiples dress their children in identical clothing because it’s easy! Carter’s was overflowing with adorable, inexpensive clothes for girls and boys. My head literally started spinning. Choosing four outfits of similar color schemes that were not identical was nearly too much for my quad mom brain. I thought I might short circuit so grabbed a stack of options I liked and gave George final say on what we purchased.  Here’s what ended up in our shopping bags-

We go out for date night and what do we do? Go shopping for baby clothes of course!

We go out for date night and what do we do? Go shopping for baby clothes of course!

Even though I despise driving, I volunteered to drive home following our date. George became irritated with my indirect route home through a parking lot, and was puzzled when I parked the car outside the Hilton. At first, he was slightly disappointed when he realized we were staying he didn’t kiss the babies goodnight, but quickly warmed up to the idea. Even though the babies sleep well at night, sleep is a precious commodity always in short supply for us. I think we both conked out close to 10 pm.  We had no chores to do or babies that needed tending, and we took full advantage of that. Naturally, we woke up at 7:15 am, right on cue. However, we did not get up to change, feed, or entertain anyone. Rather, we lazily enjoyed the morning before packing up to greet the babies back home. It may have been one night only, and near home, but our stay-cation was refreshing and much needed.  Thank you, Nisey, Grandpa, Terri, and Ed for taking care of the babies overnight.

Ahh, the quiet!

Ahh, the quiet!

What did you do over the summer?

Hugs,

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #29

Thursday has rolled around once again.  It’s time for us to link up with Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus for The Little Things Thursdays.  Each Thursday, we take time to reflect upon some of the little things that brightened our week.

1.  Laughter is good for the soul, and the babies gift us plenty of laughter to fill our days.  Sydney’s hair is getting longer by the day so I’ve begun pulling it into a side swept ponytail.  We could not contain the laughter a few days ago when her hair stood straight up after the ponytail holder was removed.  She seemed to think it was entertaining as well.

I think Sydney could star as "Cindy Lou Who" in the next Dr. Seuss flick.

I think Sydney could star as “Sydney Lou Who” in the next Dr. Seuss flick.

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2.  Keeping up with family tradition, my grandmother (GiGi to the babies) hosted a family birthday party honoring the babies.  GiGi whipped up a family meal chock full of the babies favorite dishes (macaroni and cheese, steamed carrots, roast, and rolls).  For dessert, Cici made scrumptious funfetti cupcakes.  Now experienced with cake smashing, the babies demolished these cupcakes.

They each received a brightly wrapped package containing a tiny backpack filled with books.  Reading is a beloved pastime in our family so I hope to instill a love of books in the babies now.  Of their new reads, they especially enjoy the book, “Thank you, God for Puppies” by Tommy Nelson.  They literally squeal when they spy it.

Grandma decorated each baby's gift with a picture from their first birthday party.

GiGi decorated each baby’s gift with a picture from their first birthday party.

Keeping up with tradition, each of the babies approached the cupcake in a unique way.  Sydney entertained the entire family when she grabbed her cupcake and went after it like an apple.  She did not let go until it was completely devoured.  Mason ate none of the cupcake and only licked the frosting off the top.

As always, each of the babies approached the cupcake in a unique way. Sydney entertained the entire family when she grabbed her cupcake and went after it like an apple. She did not let go until it was completely devoured. Mason ate none of the cupcake and only licked the frosting off the top.

3. We’ve been working on learning environmental sounds and Rylin is all about it.  She produces a moo and ba sound upon request.  She and Mason scrunch their noses and snort if you ask them what a pig says.  However, my favorite sound of all is Rylin’s smacking to call the dogs.  Apparently George and I smack our lips to call the dogs A LOT because Rylin’s been imitating this all week.  She also makes the sound if she sees a picture of a dog.  It’s precious.

4. Today, Granny, (my uncle Clarke’s mother) celebrated her 90th birthday, and she met the babies for the first time.  Granny is 90, but she’s spry and didn’t miss a beat with the babies.  She was determined to learn each baby’s name and got a snuggle with each of them.  Happy birthday, Granny!

Sydney gravitated to Granny and cuddled with her for a long time.

Sydney gravitated to Granny and cuddled with her for a long time.

Even at 90, Granny helped Mason take steps.

Even at 90, Granny helped Mason take steps.  The picture quality is poor…I snapped it while wrangling another baby so the hand was not steady.  Still, it is really sweet.

Poppy informed me that he celebrated his 92nd birthday last month and that he and Granny recently celebrated 71 years of marriage.  What a wonderful example of commitment and honor.

Poppy informed me that he celebrated his 92nd birthday last month and that he and Granny recently celebrated 71 years of marriage. What a wonderful example of commitment and honor.

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Granny and Poppy’s son, Jack, was visiting from Washington in honor of the momentous occasion and brought them to the house.

What brought joy to your heart this week?

hugs,

Amber

Plagiosaur, No More

During my pregnancy, Mason spent most of his days nestled in my rib cage. I remember pleading with him to scoot down just a smidgen so I could feel a bit of relief.  However, his siblings just didn’t leave him any space to move.  In my ribs he remained.  After delivery, I noticed a rib on my right side was shifted out of alignment, but Mason seemed fine.  After discharge from the NICU, we noticed him struggling to keep his head upright.  After an occupational therapy evaluation, we learned that his neck muscles were weak on the left side causing him to drop his head to the right.  After months of occupational therapy, there was concern regarding not only his neck muscles but also his head shape.  An evaluation at Cranial Technologies revealed severe Plagiocephaly, or oblique head shape.

We made the difficult decision to have him fitted for a DOC band to correct his head shape.  Although treatment was estimated to last 2-3 months, Mason endured treatment for a grueling 5 months.  In the beginning, he didn’t mind wearing the band 23 hours a day, and we thought he was adorable wearing it.  His new accessory seemed to highlight his dreamy brown eyes and huge dimples. I also enjoyed having one on one time with him as I took him for adjustments on a weekly basis.  We anticipated that he would complete treatment prior to the onset of a hot Texas summer, but he just wasn’t done by then.  He ended up outgrowing the first DOC band and was evaluated a second time.  Based upon evaluation results, Mason was fitted for a second DOC band.

Over the past several weeks, our entire family became increasingly tired of Mason’s DOC band.  I grew tired of figuring out how to take him to appointments while caring for the other babies, George grew tired of decorating and touching up the paint, but worst of all Mason grew tired of wearing it.  For the first time, he started unfastening the Velcro on the side and pulling at it.  It pained me to force him to continue wearing it when clearly he was D-O-N-E.  This past Friday he began crying when we put it on him as if really bothered by it.  Upon removal of the band, we noticed two red spots forming.  One was on the center of his forehead and the other on his left temple.  Since Cranial Technologies is not open on weekends, Mason got a weekend long break from the DOC band and he seemed so happy.  On Monday, I called the clinic so he could be adjusted that afternoon.

My friend, Kristin, happened to be hanging out with us on Monday so she helped me tote all four babies to Cranial Technologies for Mason’s appointment.  It was the first time I brought all four babies together to the clinic, and the staff finally got to see the full set.

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Mason’s occupational therapist at Cranial Technologies examined his head and was ecstatic with his progress.  She reported that his ears and cheeks were now even, and the back of his skull rounded out.  Amen!  It was a slow day at the clinic so Cindy asked if I wanted Mason to have his exit images taken.  What?  EXIT?  Hallelujah!  Within a few short minutes, Mason was dressed down to his diaper, fitted with a stocking cap and his noggin was photographed with a 360 degree camera.  We were then taken to a small room where Cindy showed us before treatment, mid treatment, and after pictures of Mason’s head from all angles.  It was reaffirming to see how much progress he made.  Before we left, Mason was given a DOC Band Graduation diploma and we thanked Cindy for helping him.  While DOC band treatment was far longer than we anticipated, George and I will never regret what it did for Mason and I hope he realizes the benefits later in life.

I didn’t anticipate Mason’s graduation and I didn’t have my camera, but I snapped a few pictures using my phone to commemorate the big day.

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This is Cindy who we have to thank for helping Mason along the way. Each week, she charted his growth and adjusted his band to encourage growth.

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Mason seemed impressed with his own progress. The picture on the left is before treatment, the next is mid treatment, and the far right shows him now. In a few weeks, we will get his exit evaluation report and copies of all images.

They didn't play Pomp and Circumstance, but Mason did receive a diploma.

They didn’t play Pomp and Circumstance, but Mason did receive an official diploma.

Here is a bird's eye view of Mason's head after treatment.  His right cheek no longer juts out and his head is rounded out in the back.

Here is a bird’s eye view of Mason’s head after treatment. His right cheek no longer juts out and his head is rounded out in the back.

Mason is so handsome without his band.

Mason is so handsome without his band, and proud of himself.

hugs!

Amber

Over the Summer {Field Trips}

As the babies became mobile and increasingly curious, they became cranky being confined to our home.  Witching hour often became intense and trying.  I quickly discovered the babies needed more opportunities to explore outside the home with “field trips”.  With the help of family and friends, I was able to venture out to new places with the babies.  I checked into visiting some local children’s museums and such, but found the babies were just has happy to go to less expensive venues including dining out, shopping, and swimming.

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Dining Out

Before my summer break officially started, we went to Jason’s Deli as our first family meal in a restaurant.  It gave me confidence knowing that dining out could be a pleasurable experience for all.  Later, we ventured to the Rainforest Cafe with a few friends.  I had not been there in over a decade and forgot how impressive it is.  As our tour guide, aka the hostess, showed us to our table, a rain storm complete with lightning and thunder ensued as gorillas aggressively shook nearby trees.  Since loud, surprising sounds startle the babies, the thunderstorm did not bode well.  Rylin began to scowl and I became concerned about this adventure.  However, when the storm ceased, the babies settled into their high chairs and soaked the scenery all in.  The babies scarfed a kid’s meal grilled cheese with a banana on the side as if were the best food they ever sampled.

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Sydney sat beside Kristin where she could view the aquarium.

Harper, Me, & Rylin

Sydney, Kristin, Billie, & Mason

Kristin helped Sydney manage her meal while Billie tended to Mason.

The aquarium was the best attraction.

The aquarium was the best attraction, and we could have viewed it without dining in the restaurant.

With the mild temperatures, George noted it was ideal for patio dining at Joe T. Garcia’s, a local Tex Mex hot spot.  Impulsively, I extended an invitation to my sister and her boyfriend and they accepted.  Thankfully, they also agreed to a ridiculously early dinner to accommodate the babies and to beat the dinner rush (the line winds around the building and can go for hours).  As George predicted, the weather was perfect and the eight of us enjoyed dining al fresco.  We confirmed that the babies are Texans as they chowed down on cheese enchiladas, refried beans, rice, fajita meat, and guacamole.

These little faces have Tex Mex all over them!

These little faces have Tex Mex all over them!

Our eight top table was too big for a good group shot.

Our eight top table was too big for a good group shot so I settled for three small group shots.

Shopping

Since the babies are yet not at the age of demmanding politely requesting toys in stores, taking them shopping makes for a worthwhile adventure.  Mom and I took the babies to Target where we used birthday gift cards to buy toddler toys and other baby necessities.   I found that veggie sticks are the perfect distraction for antsy babies.  I dished those things out right and left.  However, I think we may have left a trail along the aisles of Target.

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When we go to Target, Walmart, or Kroger, I scout out a cart that seats more than one baby.  I learned the hard way that Rylin needs the seat with a harness because she attempts Houdini escapes when in the cart.

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Before we got busy shopping, I filled the babies’ sippy cups with water from the concession stand.

I was ecstatic when I learned a Sprouts market opened near our house.  Prior to the babies arrival, we traveled to the next town for Sprout’s produce and meat.  With the babies, there just is no time to travel longer than necessary for shopping.  Therefore, we had not been to Spouts in well over a year.  With the help of Grandaddy and Aunt Carol, we went on Wednesday, which is double ad day.  I scored wonderful produce on sale, including blueberries for $.99!

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With the help of Jen, we visited our local pet store.  I didn’t expect much out of it since they don’t sell puppies and kittens the way they did in the past.  However, our pet store has a dog day care, which was highly entertaining for babies.  The dogs romped and wrestled behind a large pane of glass.  For about 20 minutes eight little eyes were fascinated by the canine antics, especially when some of the smaller dogs ran up a toddler slide.  Aside from the dogs, we also enjoyed looking at birds and playing with dog toys.  As it turns out, dog toys are more fun than baby toys.   They bold colored, crinkly, squeaky, and sometimes flashy.

The parakeets put on a good show for the babies.

The parakeets put on a good show for the babies.

The boys wanted to pet the dogs.

The boys wanted to pet the dogs in doggy day care through the glass.

When we returned to the house, the babies found Lily and Sasha's toys far more interesting.

When we returned to the house, the babies found Lily and Sasha’s toys far more interesting than ever before.  This Loofah dog was snatched by little hands numerous times.

Swimming

Over the course of the summer, we made several trips to the pool.  Each time, we realized how different each baby behaves in water.  Mason is not a fan unless he is held or in shallow water where he can bounce and wade.  On the other hand, Harper and Sydney could take up residence in water.  The two of them kick and splash with zeal.  Harper nearly dog paddled without prompting.  I only wish we could do swim lessons for them, but sadly Mommy & Me swim lessons don’t work with one mommy and four babies.  Rylin has her moments of enjoying the water and overall tolerates it.

Getting a group picture with the quads is always a challenge.

Getting a group picture with the quads is always a challenge.  By the end of our swimming excursion, Rylin had ENOUGH already.

Our Super Seats are perfect for traveling during meal times.

Our Super Seats are perfect for traveling during meal times.  I’m not sure who fed Sydney, but it looks like they missed her mouth.

3-IMG_6212 Following a dip in the pool, we use small inflatable pool for outdoor bath time.  As soon as we arrive at the pool, we inflate it and fill it with water so it’s lukewarm once we finish swimming. That way, we come home with four clean babies dressed for bed.

When we go swimming, I always bring a Pack 'n' Play as a "holding cell" to use while we get things set up and put away.  Some babies are more content with the situation than others...

When we go swimming, I always bring a Pack ‘n’ Play as a “holding cell” to use while we get things set up and put away.  This was just after bath time. Some babies are more content with the situation than others…

Each time we traveled with the babies, my confidence in the goodness of people was restored.  Where ever we went, the babies were welcomed and greeted with kind words such as, “amazing”, “what a blessing”, and “adorable”.  Going out with multiples can be intimidating, but when people are kind, it makes the experience wonderful for everyone.

Where did you go this summer?

hugs,

Amber

P.S. I’d like to thank Karen for suggesting field trips to the Rainforest Cafe and the pet store.  Both were inexpensive, fun ideas we all enjoyed!

What Muffin Top? {The Melody Tank Dress}

A hot topic among quad moms (and probably most moms for that matter), is the post-pregnancy wardrobe.  In fact, every few weeks or so, a new mom posts something about wardrobe woes.  Regardless of how much weight is shed or exercises completed, I doubt that anyone’s body is ever exactly as it was before pregnancy.

Several weeks back, my quad mama friend, Rebecca, excitedly reported that she finally lost the last bit of pregnancy weight.  That was a proud moment!  However, she was dismayed after ordering a dress online that didn’t reveal her hard work.  She posted a picture of herself in the new dress and sought feedback.  The group was split in their opinions of the dress.  Some said she should proudly show her “post pregnancy body”, while others candidly reported the dress was not “The One”. Based on the photograph alone, it seemed apparent to me that she did not feel beautiful in this dress even though she is beautiful.  After all, she was back to her pre-pregnancy weight.  The problem was not her body at all, it was the dress.

I’m not a fashion expert by any means.  However, over the past year, I’ve worked at embracing a new style of clothing that flatters my body.  I realize that I’m extremely petite and the majority of people around me do not see that I have anything to conceal.  The fact is, I do.  Despite my efforts with rehabilitation exercises and losing all pregnancy weight, excess skin, a distended naval, and a “muffin top” remain in my mid section.  Again, I know that most people do not believe this problem area exists, but I know it does, and the wrong clothes make me feel self-conscious.  I considered baring it all to prove the grim details, but opted not to.  If I revealed what makes me feel self-conscious and uncomfortable, then what’s the point in expertly masking it with the right clothes?  Instead of showing the parts of myself that I don’t like, I’m sharing how I make clothing choices.

When I saw Rebecca’s frustrations, I shared a few pointers, and to my delight she headed my advice.  Finally she found a Little Black Dress that flatters from an online clothing company, Fresh Produce.  This company offers beach-inspired clothing with flowing, forgiving lines and an array of colors and sizes.  This is perfect for a post pregnancy body and busy moms, I think.  Rebecca’s photographs in the LBD exude confidence and beauty.

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In the past, I often wore fitted clothing, which now only highlights that nice “muffin top”.  I’ve been replacing my old clothing with loser fitting, flowing tops and pairing them with a slim leg line.  When I do this, I mask the stomach area while highlighting the slimmer parts of my body.  Before pregnancy and during pregnancy, dresses were a wardrobe staple for me.  Even now, I’ve found a way to keep them in my clothing rotation.  I now choose dresses with an Empire waistline and gather just above my stomach region, skimming over my stomach instead of clinging to it.  I also like A line dresses that are narrow above the stomach and flair out, drawing attention to the thinnest parts of my body and camouflaging problem areas.  Gathering or pleating around the neckline or waist helps fabric keep from bunching around the “muffin top”.  I also consider material and find that 100% cotton and cotton/ polyester blends are more forgiving than lycra and spandex, which cling (unless you are talking about shape wear).

After dishing out all these tips to Rebecca, I wondered how I would fare finding a dress from Fresh Produce, following my own advice.  I was ecstatic when Fresh Produce extended an opportunity to test drive one of their pieces.  Considering what I suggested for Rebecca, I chose the Melody tank dress in eggplant.  I chose the eggplant color because I find deep colors flattering for my skin tone and wanted to veer away from the cliche black.  It’s a simple tank dress made of 100% cotton with an Empire gathered waist and scoop neck.  I also appreciated that it is machine washable and dryer safe.  Having quadruplets in the house means paying attention to washing directions is impossible!

When my dress arrived, I immediately put it through the washer and dryer test.  I was slightly concerned about bleeding considering the dress was a deep jewel tone.  However, it did not run onto the rest of our load at all and came out looking as it did before.  As an added bonus, it’s run in the dryer kept me from needing to iron or steam it.  Goodness knows I don’t have time for that!

As a mom on the go, I found the Melody tank dress ideal for moments when I wanted to look cute, yet be comfortable while caring for four toddlers.  I first wore the dress to the babies’ one year well check up.   Since we are usually confined to the house, I consider any outing worth getting dressed up, and that includes appointments.  At the same time, I am taking care of four babies so I need practical, comfortable clothing.  A hidden feature I love is the pockets.  When I’m out with the babies, it seems I always need a place to stash a tissue or lip gloss.  I wore the dress a second time for one of our afternoon field trips to the pet store.  Even though I was wearing a dress, I wasn’t concerned about loading or unloading babies from the van (in sweltering Texas heat), or toting babies around because it was absolutely comfortable and modest enough.  To date, I’ve only had chances to wear my new dress while out with the babies, but it’s dressy enough for a future date night, especially when paired with fun accessories.

I'm sure the pediatrician's office did not care about my outfit, but when out, I like to feel cute.

I’m sure the pediatrician’s office did not care about my outfit, but when out, I like to feel cute, and the Melody tank dress delivered.

I like how the gathering goes all the way around the back of the dress.

I like how the gathering goes all the way around the back of the dress.

I paired the dress with a long soft gold necklace and sandals, but I can also pair it with other neutrals such as silver, copper, and black.  I also want to try it with a bright cardigan (I'm thinking of a turquoise or poppy) so that I can wear it to work as well.

I paired the dress with a long soft gold necklace and sandals, but I can also pair it with other neutrals such as silver, copper, and black. I also want to try it with a bright cardigan (I’m thinking of a turquoise or poppy) so that I can wear it to work as well.

George snapped this picture for me AFTER I toted for babies around all day, fed them dinner, bathed them, and tucked them into bed.  Despite all that, I thought the dress was still comfortable and maintained shape.

George snapped this picture for me AFTER I toted for babies around all day, fed them dinner, bathed them, and tucked them into bed. Despite all that, I thought the dress was still comfortable and maintained shape.

Prior to the arrival of the quadruplets, I enjoyed comparison shopping, and of course trying on clothing and touching them to assess quality.  In recent days, my time for shopping is slim and I am learning the art of online shopping.  I was admittedly hesitant to try online clothing shopping, but was pleasantly surprised with the quality, style, and fit from Fresh Produce.  Along with our typical online purchases, I’ll now add clothing to the list.  If you’re in the market for fashion forward, yet practical and comfortable clothing, be sure to visit Fresh Produce.

hugs!

Amber

P. S. I would like to thank Fresh Produce for kindly sending me the Melody tank dress for review.  I received no further compensation and all opinions expressed are 100% my own.

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #28

Whoa, Nelly! Is it Thursday???  Sometimes I don’t know where the minutes and hours go.  Before I know it, a week or more vanished right before my eyes.  Since it IS Thursday, it’s time to link up with Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus to recall what little things brought happiness to our week.

1. Texas summers are typically stricken with heat waves and severe drought conditions.  This year we’ve seen more pleasant showers than I can ever recall.  We still have plenty of triple digit days, but the rain is always refreshing.

All four babies pressed their noses to the glass, but scattered before I could snap a picture.

All four babies pressed their noses to the glass, but scattered before I could snap a picture.

2. Last night was our first bottle free night.  In place of bottles we offered the babies Sippy cups of cow’s milk.  Thankfully, they seemed content with this new bedtime routine and drifted off to a peaceful slumber without protest, and they stayed asleep all night long.

One new challenge with Sippy cups at the table, is the trill of playing with gravity.  Without fail, the babies take a swig of milk then toss the cup over their shoulder.  If the cup remains on the edge of the table, they push it until they hear that nice “crash” to the tile.  I’ve been working really hard to redirect this behavior, but I sometimes miss opportunities.  Yesterday I made my first ever trip to Buy Buy Baby and stumbled across Sippy cup straps.  Ingenious.  The babies still attempt to taunt gravity, but the cups don’t make it to the ground, which is hopefully not thrilling and cup tossing will soon cease.

Rylin nudged her cup over the edge, but it dangled instead of smacking the tile.

Rylin nudged her cup over the edge, but it dangled instead of smacking the tile.  That’s no fun.

The blue cup is Harper's.  Mason attempted to commandeer it, but it didn't quite reach his lips.  It looks like the Sippy cup straps solve another problem for me.

Mason attempted to commandeer Harper’s blue cup, but it didn’t quite reach his lips. It looks like the Sippy cup straps solve another problem for me.

3. Periodically, I rotate the babies toys, keeping some in rotation while others are stashed away.  This week the Weeble’s tree house and camper returned from a sabbatical.  The babies were thrilled to reacquaint with their old friends.  The best part was the babies now discover how to play with the toys.  These Weebles have been sent down the slide and for a camper ride numerous times this week.

Weebles wobble, but the don't fall down!

Weebles wobble, but the don’t fall down!

What simple pleasures did you enjoy this week?

Hugs!

Amber

Over the summer…{DIY projects}

With a birthday party on our heels and vacation time from work, George and I set our sights on several DIY home improvement projects over the summer. Because we both have Type A personalities, George and I are task finishers, meaning when we begin something we do not stop until it’s done. This can be a good thing as far as task completion, but it can be the detriment to self-care and leisure time. Knowing this, George and I developed a “time budget” for all projects. Each night we allotted only one hour to work on projects. Since most everything takes place once the babies are tucked in for the night, we have a small time frame to do everything from cooking dinner to showering, and sometimes even relaxing. An hour a night was ample enough to put a dent in our DIY list, but left a little time for the other things on the to-do list as well.

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Shortly after we moved into our house we busily began painting all of the walls.  It was a blank canvas of stark white and we desperately wanted a warm, cozy feeling.  At the time, deep jewel tones were en vogue so our dining room became crimson while our bathroom was deep plum.  Admittedly, I despised the bathroom after we finished painting it.  Because it was a labor intensive job, I settled with a color I didn’t fully embrace.  Sometimes DIY jobs just don’t live up to your vision and our master bathroom was one of those instances.  It made a large bathroom feel cramped and dingy.

As we considered the possibility of putting our house on the market, we both knew that our Plum Palace could send even the most zealous buyers sprinting away.   Neither one of us wanted to put in the elbow grease to prime and paint the walls a neutral color, but acknowledged it needed to be done.  We wanted to pay someone to do the job even less so we jumped into our first DIY project of the summer: neutralize the master bathroom.  We stuck to our one hour a night budget, doing just one part of the job per night.  By night four it was D-O-N-E!  Honestly, the part that took the most time and effort was cleaning in the end.  We didn’t want to cut corners on any piece of this project so we scrubbed every nook and cranny until the room was fresh and sparkling.

Prior to the paint job, I was planning to distress the cabinets in white to brighten the space, but I’m ditching that idea now.  With the fresh khaki paint, I don’t mind our cabinets anymore.  In the mornings, the natural light spills into the room and it’s a refreshing way to start the day, especially when applying make up.

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As soon as the babies began to roll over, George and I settled with the fact that there was no room for our beloved coffee table.  It took up a slice of floor space we couldn’t afford to lose and we feared future head conks when they learned to pull up.  We sorely missed our coffee table.  It made enjoying our morning cup of Joe a bit of a challenge and we never knew where to lay our remote controls.

Then, my mom offered to give us my great grandmother’s coffee table.  I know, it seems odd to get a coffee table when you just ditched a perfectly good one.  However, this one was not only a family piece, but it has ideal characteristics for babies.  It is round, which means it’s void of corners (that is what makes tables hard on noggins).  Plus, it has a pedestal rather than legs so babies don’t trip on pesky legs sticking out there.

By the time this table found its new home in our den, the babies were successfully pulling up on furniture, but there was little material for them to use.  The day it arrived, the babies darted to it and began banging toys on its surface.   This table was made to last and was in excellent condition, but it boasted a 1960’s finish complete with gold flecks.  Neither George or I liked it’s appearance.  We let it hang out in the den for a few weeks until we finally decided we wanted to distress it using a cool aqua.  I found a tutorial on Pinterest and it was pretty simple.

You may be thinking we ruined an antique.  That is true, but what value is there in an antique if you don't like it?  I envision us keeping this table for years to come and painting it to match whatever decor suits us.

You may be thinking we ruined an antique. That is true, it is no longer the way it was designed.  What value is there in an antique if you don’t like it? I envision us keeping this table for years to come and painting it to match whatever decor suits us.

As soon as the table was complete and returned to it's rightful place in the den, Sydney began adding to the distressed finish with a maraca.

As soon as the table was complete and returned to it’s rightful place in the den, Sydney began adding to the distressed finish with maracas.  For the time being, the babies cannot reach the very center of the table so we can leave remote controls, drinks, or phones there.

Soon after the babies began pulling up, they also figured out how to climb.  One of their favorite places to go: the gas fireplace.  I spend plenty of time redirecting them from climbing, but with four highly mobile babies I find them in places I prefer they not go.  In order to protect them, we have to toddler proof our house even though we supervise the babies well and set limits.

This meant our fireplace needed a cover before the quads climbed right in.  George upcycled some plywood from the garage.  After he cut it to fit the opening, he painted three coats of magnetic paint on the wood followed by a coat of black.  I saw a cute idea on Pinterest where the homeowner also magnetized her fireplace cover and put magnetic alphabet letters as a teaching tool.  I scoured Amazon and thought I found the perfect set of magnetic letters.  They were brightly colored and the magnet covered the entire letter to keep little hands from pulling them apart.  The package arrived the morning of the babies’ birthday, which was perfect for party decor.  However, I quickly learned we won’t be using these letters for a few years.  The babies made a beeline right to them, shimmied up the fireplace, pulled off letters and then began munching.

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We left the babies “Happy Birthday” sign on the fireplace the day of their party, but took it down immediately after.

One of my favorite pieces of furniture was our red chaise lounge situated between the windows in the study.  I devoured many a book from that spot and gazed out the windows with the babies there.   A few months back, I knew it was time to re-home my cozy chaise.  As the babies became increasingly mobile, I noticed they seemed cramped spending the entire day in the den and we needed more play spaces.  Thus, our study became a playroom/ study combo room.  It’s not a large space and the chaise lounge took up the majority of the space.  In it’s place, I found toy storage baskets at Home Goods and George built a custom fitted window seat to house them.  The babies now use the window seat for table top toys and they pull up on it to glimpse into the yard.  While I miss my cozy spot, we are utilizing our new play area much more than we did when it was only a study.  Besides, I don’t have much time to read these days.

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With the new purpose for our study, I thought an art gallery wall was also in order.  I rustled up old picture frames from the attic and George spray painted them in bright colors to compliment the baskets.  He then spray painted a few clothes pins in matching colors and I hot glued them to the frames, for holding pieces of art.  Two of the frames had panes of glass permanently attached.  On these, I backed the inside of the frame in fabric then glued the clothes pins right on the glass.  As the babies create new works, we’ll change up the display.

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After moving into our house, we were irritated to find that our back porch never, ever appeared clean.  We would scrub it, spray it with water, and once even power washed it, but it was always dingy looking.  Then we discovered porch paint.  It was miraculous in hiding the grime and dirt.  However, a year later we found the paint peeling.  As a result, porch painting is one of George’s annual projects.  It seems like a huge chore, but really it takes him 20 minutes tops, and makes the porch look new again.

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What DIY projects are you itching to conquer?

hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #27

Each Thursday we link up with Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus and take time to reflect upon some of the smaller things that brightened our week.  Depending on what time zone you are in, it may actually still be Thursday.  In my neck of the woods, I still have about 15 minutes remaining…I guess I better get things going!

1. Our study, turned playroom, is surrounded by low hanging windows, and the babies enjoy gazing outside.  Last week we discovered a family of cardinals frolicking outside.  They splashed in our bird bath and pursued grasshoppers on the lawn for quite a while.  Living in suburbia sometimes nature seems void, but beautiful creatures do sometimes find a place in the ‘burbs too.

It was a challenge capturing one of the cardinals because they didn't stay still long and I had to take a picture through the window.

It was a challenge capturing one of the cardinals because they didn’t stay still long and I had to take a picture through the window.  This is the best I could manage.

2. I’m really excited to have a few of my baby food recipes published at Bobee Inc. online today.   The founder of Bobee Inc is a mother of two boys who invented a wall mounted baby wipes dispenser, which includes decals for personalized decor.  Although her website is devoted to her product line, she maintains a blog sharing a variety of parenting articles from how to keep your home safe for babies to baby feeding tips.  Don’t forget to drop by Bobee Inc. to see my applesauce baby food recipes!

3. All together the babies have about 20 pearly whites.  Although I’ve been using the silicone finger tip toothbrushes on the babies since they were newborns, I decided that was no longer sufficient.  This week we began a teeth brushing regimen after breakfast and dinner.  I purchased a four pack of toddler toothbrushes and training toothpaste for the job.  I haven’t sampled this toothpaste myself, but it must taste delicious because the babies get all jazzed up about this new routine.  They begin squealing in excitement when they spy their toothbrushes and crocodile tears flow when we are finished.  I hope they develop a lifetime of good dental hygiene and always love brushing their teeth so much!

We brush the babies teeth first to ensure the job is sufficiently done.

We brush the babies teeth first to ensure the job is sufficiently done.

After we brush the babies teeth we let them do the work themselves.  We usually do this while they are still seated in the quad table, but I forgot tonight and wasn't hauling them back in just for teeth brushing.

After we brush the babies teeth we let them do the work themselves. We usually do this while they are still seated in the quad table, but I forgot tonight and wasn’t hauling them back in just for teeth brushing.

4. On Sunday morning, George and I prepared a family style breakfast with buttermilk pancakes.  Typically we enjoy our breakfast during the babies’ morning nap, but this time decided to eat with them at the quad table.  George misjudged Mason’s reach and found a little hand nabbing bits of pancake right off the plate.

This brings the expression, "Sticky Fingers" to life!

I think “Sticky Fingers” could be a proper nickname for Mason.

What warmed your heart this week?

Hugs!

Amber