The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #11

It’s 11:00 pm as I type this,  so technically it is still Thursday.  I’m working at “game time” no doubt!  Nonetheless, it is time to reflect upon the little things that filled our week.

1. George and I were inspired by the Glawson Triplets to take the babies to our community playground.  We stuffed two babies in each baby swing and they soared.  Of course, before we stuffed them in, I sanitized each swing with Clorox wipes.  Oh yes, I am that mom.  We are enjoying freedom from lock down, but I’m not completely ready to let my germ guard down.  Rylin and Mason thoroughly enjoyed their ride, giggling and grinning the whole time.  Harper and Sydney didn’t protest, but seemed rather lackadaisical about the whole ordeal.

This is how quadruplets roll at the playground!

This is how quadruplets roll at the playground!

Rylin thought this was big fun.

Rylin thought this was big fun.  I love the wind in her hair.

Hmm, these two don't seem terribly interested.

Hmm, these two don’t seem terribly interested.

2. After I took Mason to Cranial Technologies for his weekly band adjustment, he and I took a detour to one of my former schools.  I introduced Mason to the principal, Samantha, and secretary, Mina, at Bonnie Brae.  Both of these ladies helped me trudge along as I worked full time the first 20 weeks of a quadruplet pregnancy so I thought it was time they meet at least one of the quadlets.  I promised to bring the others someday.  And…Springdale and Riverside friends, I promise we will swing by to see you as well.

Mina, Mason, & Samantha.   Mason was highly interested in Samantha's glasses and seemed to thing they'd be a tasty snack.

Mina, Mason, & Samantha.
Mason was highly interested in Samantha’s glasses and seemed to thing they’d be a tasty snack.

3. My Uncle Mark sent this picture to me a few days ago.  It is me and my Grandpa I think at Easter, which would make me about 13  or 14 months old.  It’s a sweet picture that reminds me of how special he was to me and all of the little things we did together.  I will always remember catching fireflies in his yard, swinging from vines, looking at stars with his telescope, performing on his hearth, and going to the beach.  In his 87 years, he always stopped to look at bluebonnets and never let the little things go unnoticed.  Thank you, Grandpa for teaching all of us to appreciate the little things!

Do you see any of the babies in this picture?  I see a strong family resemblance...

Do you see any of the babies in this picture? I see a strong family resemblance…

hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #10

Happy Thursday!  Each week, we take some time to pause and reflect upon the little things that made our week special.  Here are some of our highlights:

1. Texas weather has been fickle as usual.  Just when I packed up all of our winter clothes, the warm spring weather vanished  and was exchanged with cool drizzle.  I could replace Puxatony Phil as predictor of spring weather.  Every time I flip the closets for spring, we have at least two more weeks of winter.   I should know this by now, but when we have temperatures exceeding 80 and it is sunshiny for over a week, I’m ready to ditch the sweaters and bring out the skirts.  Anyways, all this dreary weather kept us indoors and from taking our evening walks.  To change things up in the evening, we’ve been retreating upstairs to the playroom.  It is a bit of hassle to haul four babies upstairs for 30-45 minutes of playtime, but we all need the change of pace.  When we get up there, eight little eyes dart around exploring the new environment.  Plus, all the toys are novel since we don’t get up there often.  We primarily use the playroom as Nisey’s guest bedroom and to store toys that are too advanced for the babies.  However, the babies surprise me and seem to understand some of the toys I thought were too big for them.

Harper really enjoyed pushing the buttons on the sitting toys.  We learned, however, to turn all toys off before bed.  The toy in the background spooked George when it beckoned, "Play with me." in the night!

Harper really enjoys pushing the buttons on the sitting toys. We learned, however, to turn all toys OFF before bed. The toy in the background spooked George when it beckoned, “Play with me.” in the night!

2. We’ve been practicing sitting up with the support of Boppy pillows.  We since  rearranged our “Boppy Conventions” with a new perspective.  Harper and Rylin can almost sit independently, but they still need the safety net because they will topple and crash their noggins sometimes.  Sitting up opened new horizons for the babies and we did our first sitting up baths in pairs!  Harper and Rylin seemed to really enjoy being able to see their toys and splash the water.  Sydney lounged back in her seat like the old chair, but appeared relaxed.  Mason wasn’t keen on the new bath arrangement and protested with crocodile tears, but eventually warmed up to the idea.  I’m excited that bath time could take half as long by putting two in the tub at once!  I’m thinking it’s time to expand our bath toy collection as well.

Looks like someone missed the party.

Looks like someone missed the party.

The boys

The boys splish splashing!

The girls

Sydney’s hair is long enough down the center to make a Cupie Doll curl.  Rylin’s is close.

3. Shortly after starting spoon feeds, a friend suggested introducing Puffs since they dissolve and don’t require any chewing.  The first time I introduced Puffs, I ended up fishing one out of Sydney’s’ throat and didn’t want to try again.  That was until I noticed the babies chomping pureed food and picking smaller toys up.  When they were fussing for me to feed  them faster, I put a Puff in front of everyone and they did so much better.  Since they put everything in their mouths that is exactly what they did with the Puffs, but no coking.  It’s comical most of the time because they slobber so much the Puffs stick to their chubby little arms or hands and they can’t find them.  Other times they drop into the pocket of their bibs.

Harper is going in for the Puff!

Harper is going in for the Puff!

He did it!  Puff made it to the mouth.

He did it! Puff made it to the mouth.

Rylin scored a Puff too!

Rylin scored a Puff too!

4. My hairstylist recommended The Wet brush so I headed to Amazon and ordered a pink one.  I received it yesterday and gave it a whirl last night.  It worked perfectly.  It brushed through my wet mop without snagging or snarling and took a fraction of the time my old comb took.  Plus, it was a one step operation: just brush.  I used to spritz my hair with conditioner, use a wide tooth comb, then run a paddle brush over everything to smooth it out.  I’m all for consolidation so this brush is a winner in my book!

What little things filled your week?

hugs!

Amber

PS- Don’t forget to visit abeautifulruckus.com to see more little things!

Happy Easter!

This is what it looks to get everyone ready for a quadruplet picture.  You have to footballl hold two babies each.

This is what it looks  like to get everyone ready for a quadruplet picture. You have to football hold two babies each then settle into place.

We all wore our Sunday best for Easter and attempted to take a family picture.  Not a single one turned out good.  The babies were far more interested in teh koi pond in front of them than the camera.

We all wore our Sunday best for Easter and attempted to take a family picture. Not a single one turned out as I envisioned . The babies were far more interested in the koi pond in front of them than the camera. And, Stella thought she’d join us for the family picture.

George and I have a rather large extended family within the metroplex so we typically make rounds for major holidays.  Having four preemies meant taking extreme precautions to prevent illness so our plans drastically changed this year.  Instead of our usual hustle, we spent the holidays on a smaller scale.  It was nice having low key holidays, but we missed many of our extended family members and all the family traditions.

With lock down officially OVER, the babies enjoyed their first extended family holiday on Easter Sunday.  They’ve seen the majority of our extended family, but in smaller doses.  This was the first time they were around family in full force!  We made the same faux road trip to Nisey and Grandpa’s as we did on St. Patrick’s day.    Like before, we fed the babies first thing in the morning, put them down for their morning nap then headed out after their lunch.  The idea was they’d get at least one good nap before we left.  They did great with the travel aspect of it all.  I always ask the babies how they are doing during transit and usually it’s silence so I assume all are sleeping.   I’m relatively certain Rylin did not take a nap during the van ride this time.  She was even keel the first hour or so we were there then she snapped and transformed into Banshee Rylin.   We attempted to put her down for nap in a Pack ‘n’ Play, but she wasn’t having that.   Sydney and Harper probably would have napped, but Rylin stirred them up so much they refused nap too.  I settled with letting the three of them take lap naps.  A lap nap is far better than NO nap.   Mason was duped into taking a nap when Grandpa lulled him to sleep.

With so many doting relatives around, George and I escaped all afternoon and evening feeds and most diaper changes too. That was a nice change of pace. For the most part, the babies were the  center of attention most of the day. However, before lunch we gathered together to reflect upon the meaning of Easter and what brought us there.

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Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead…

I hope you had a Happy Easter this year and remembered why it is a day of celebration.

Mason tried to be a big boy who walks.

Mason tried to be a big boy who walks.

No one likes me, everybody hates me.  I think I'm gonna eat worms!

No one likes me, everybody hates me. I think I’m gonna eat worms!

With a house full of family members there was never a shortage of baby feeders.  I don't think George and I fed a single baby after 11 am!

With a house full of family members there was never a shortage of baby feeders. I don’t think George and I fed a single baby after 11 am!

The Super Seats helped the babies get a good view of what everyone else had for Easter lunch.

The Super Seats helped the babies get a good view of what everyone else had for Easter lunch.

Nisey thought Harper would enhance her Bunny centerpieces.

Nisey thought Harper would enhance her Bunny centerpieces.

Nisey and Grandpa gave the babies a huge Easter basket with bath toys, a bubble gun, books, and candy for the "big kids".

Nisey and Grandpa gave the babies a huge Easter basket with bath toys, a bubble gun, books, and candy for the “big kids”.

If you ever wonder where Harper got his good looks, I think it's from these two: Grandpa and GG Paw.

If you ever wonder where Harper got his good looks, I think it’s from these two: Grandpa and GG Paw.

Well, a nap in somone's arms is better than no nap at all.

Well, a nap in someone’s arms is better than no nap at all.

Harper seems to be quite the ladies man.  Grandma, Terri, and Nisey doted on him all together.

Harper seems to be quite the ladies man. Grandma, Terri, and Nisey doted on him all together.

The Super Seats are amazing for traveling spoon feeds!  Love them!

The Super Seats are ideal for traveling spoon feeds! Check out this feeding frenzy with four babies plus four feeders.

After a full day of festivities, we all setteld in for a Baby Einstein DVD.

After a full day of festivities, we all settled in for a Baby Einstein DVD.

I always marvel at the four car seats loaded after a day trip.  I often still wonder if they are all ours!

I always marvel at the four car seats loaded after a day trip. I often still wonder if they are all ours!

hugs!

Amber

They’re Finally Hitched!

Last spring George and I did the unthinkable. We sold our beloved Jeep and purchased a van in its place. I always said I would NEVER, EVER drive a van. Then God must have chuckled the day we discovered we were expecting quads and would consequently need a van. That being said, we actually really like our van. If you have to drive a van, this one is pretty nice. With the nifty seat warmer working it’s magic and the sound system going it’s rather easy to forget you are actually in a van. A few short weeks after buying the van, we made another purchase we never anticipated: a Runabout quad stroller. We stumbled across a fantastic deal and scarfed it up.

The only problem was that our new van wasn’t equipped with a trailer hitch, which is required by the stroller. Had we purchased the stroller first, a trailer hitch probably would have been in our negotiations with the dealer. We didn’t worry about it at the time knowing it would be months, even close to a year before we’d even use the stroller. We’ve been putting off adding a trailer hitch for months thinking it would be both time consuming and expensive. After a bit of research George learned it was a relatively simple DIY project with a kit from U Haul. Over spring break, George finally scrounged up enough spare time to install our trailer hitch so we could use the van and stroller for the first time! Check out our first family excursion with the Routan + Runabout:

I think the Routan and Runabout make a beautiful couple.  The babies seemed to enjoy the ride.

I think the Routan and Runabout make a beautiful couple. The babies seemed to enjoy the ride despite the dreary looking weather.

If you’ve been following our crazy journey for a while, you likely recall when we purchased the van, https://fourtoadore.com/2012/04/22/i-never-thought-i-would-say-this/ and then when we purchased our stroller https://fourtoadore.com/2012/04/30/lets-runabout/ That means you’ll also recall that the stroller loads on the van similar to a bicycle rack for transport of the stroller itself, not the quads. However, upon hearing that our stroller requires a trailer hitch, many people envisioned a stroller being pulled by the van with the hitch! I wrote about the first incident of that https://fourtoadore.com/2012/05/20/is-that-thing-safe/ shortly after it occurred because it was hilarious.

This is actually how the Runabout attaches to the trailer hitch.  We have plans to take the babies on outings such as the zoo, festivals, and more!

This is actually how the Runabout attaches to the trailer hitch. We have plans to take the babies on outing such as the zoo, festivals, and more!

However, if you are a new reader, I hope we GOTCHA!!!!! Happy April Fool’s Day.

Disclaimer: No babies were transported via the trailer hitch for this posting. Rather, the photo you see above was staged and the keys were not even in the van at the time of the photo.

Hugs!

Amber

The Little Things Thusrday: Installment #9

Here are the little things we celebrated this week-

1. We now have three rolling babies (Rylin, Harper, and Mason), plus they all turn and scoot a bit.  This meant time for changes in our den arrangement.  First we sold all of our little baby equipment (three rock ‘n’ plays, two swings, three Bumbo chairs, and two bouncy seats) on Craigslist.  We caught babies trying to flip over while in these types of seats so it was time to say farewell.  With all the movement and exploration we noticed far too many baby tangle ups so our coffee table found refuge upstairs.  I really like how our den works now.  We have just two baby contraptions and an activity table so there’s much more open space for all.

Oh boy!  The babies are like heat seeking missles when they see a toy being used by another baby.  Harper is stretching out to nab Sydney's toy.

Oh boy! The babies are like heat seeking missiles when they see a toy being used by another baby. Harper and Sydney seem to be scuffling over that book.  As of now, they don’t mind having a toy snatched up, but it won’t be long before there are wails of protest.

For the first time in months there is nothing below the television besides baskets concealing baby toys.

For the first time in months there is nothing below the television besides baskets concealing baby toys. Ahh!

2. We summoned the babies to be Mini Monets once again for our spring artwork.

This is my favorite piece of baby art so far.  We used the babies' footprints to make robins for spring.

This is my favorite piece of baby art so far. We used the babies’ footprints to make robins for spring.

3. Even when we scrubbed it with rubbing alcohol, Mason’s DOC Band started smelling like a foul foot. I tried putting baby powder on his hair as suggested, but he just smelled like a stinky foot dusted in baby powder. My sister reminded me of an amazing product I bought in Vegas a few years ago.   It is coconut scented deodorant powder from Lush. They use organic and chemical free ingredients at Lush, which is baby friendly in my book.  Now his noggin smells like summery  coconut even after hours of wear!

Even when we scrubbed it with rubbing alcohol, Mason's DOC Band started smelling like a foot after day one. I tried putting baby powder on his hair, but he just smelled like a stinky foot dusted in baby powder.  My sister reminded me of this amazing product!  It is coconut scented deodorant powder from Lush.  Now his head smells like coconut even after hours of wear!

There are a few Lush stores internationally located, but if there is not one near you, check out http://www.Lush.com

4. Sydney is clearly our Little Evil Knievel with her stunt girl moves.

Sydney's latest trick is planking.  She should have a seriously developed core now!

Sydney’s latest trick is planking. She should have a seriously developed core now!  Sometime we catch her bear crawling like this, but of course she only goes backwards so it’s not efficient means of locomotion.

5. I found my latest snack craving this week when we seemed to have way too many pretzels in the pantry.  I paired them with peanut butter and Nutella.  I just love salty/ sweet snack combos!  George was less than impressed, but I think it is yum-o!

Sometimes I dip the pretzel in each scrumptious spread while other time I mix the spreads together first.  Either way I love it!

Sometimes I dip the pretzel in each scrumptious spread while other time I mix the spreads together first. Either way I love it!

6. During playtime I’ve been playing children’s music for the babies so they don’t hear only me talking all day.  And so I don’t hear myself talking all day!  Most of our children’s music was sung by the Fisher Price Little People.  The Little People have quite the repertoire of children’s sing-a-long tunes and they can carry a tune, but their voices started grating on me.  I visited the itunes store yesterday and purchased a bunch of folksy-indie children’s music that is much more appealing to me.  I am the newest fan of Frances England and Elizabeth Mitchell.   Seasoned parents, do you know of great children’s music not sung by Wee Sing or the Little People?  I accumulated a good bit, but I will soon tire of the 40 some odd songs I have now.

What little things highlighted your week?

hugs!

 

Amber

Welcome To Quadville

Last week. one of our close family friends commented on how her daughter said something to the effect of feeling inferior  (because it apparently appears that I’ve got it together 100% of the time).  I considered this a bit flattering, but don’t we all put our best foot forward for visitors?  If you invited guests over for dinner I’m sure you’d tidy up and serve your signature dish.  This is because you want to look and do your best in honor of your guests.  We do the same thing here, but not only for visitors to our home, but also for blog visitors.

As a one time deal, I figured I should pull the curtain down for a peek of what it can look like in Quadville.  If you strolled past our home at about 7 pm last night your ears would have been assaulted by Beethoven’s Symphony #1 (from a Baby Einstein DVD), a dog howling, two more dogs scuffling, babies demanding bottles, and George and I barking orders.  I darted around the house trying to juggle baths and bottles as George decided to clean out our toy closet and Courtney entertained babies.   There probably was a giant neon sign flashing “Welcome to Quadville” in our front yard as well.  We keep the babies on a tight schedule and that keeps things running relatively smoothly, but as the day shifts to evening everyone’s energy reserves deplete and good moods fade.  Between about 6 and 7 pm we are all a bit frazzled to say the least.

If you look closely you will see the stuff that is everywhere.  Muddy looking footprints adorn the quad table, dirty dishes litter the counter tops, and behind the counter toys fill the floor.

If you look closely you will notice stuff is everywhere. Muddy looking footprints and slobbery  sippy cups adorn the quad table, dirty dishes litter the counter tops, and behind the counter toys fill the floor.

My sister's puppy kept diving under our furniture chasing after her tennis ball.  She usually got stuck and howled for rescue.

My sister’s puppy kept diving under our furniture chasing after her tennis ball. She usually got stuck and howled for rescue.  She managed to get stuck here as the babies were wailing in unison and no one could help her.

I always know it went from bad to worse when Mason joins the Wa Wa Quartet.  Sydney is missing from teh picture because she was so angry she was nearly intolerable.

I always know it went from bad to worse when Mason joins the Wa Wa Quartet. Sydney is missing from the picture because she was so angry she was nearly intolerable.

By about 7:10 Sydney was transforming to a Gremlin.  Aunt CiCi averted a full meltdown by putting Sydney on her shoulders.

By about 7:10 Sydney was rapidly transforming to a Gremlin. Aunt CiCi averted a full meltdown by putting Sydney on her shoulders.  This worked for about a minute before Sydney remembered she was irate.

Why am I wearing a T shirt with semi clean pajama pants?  Oh yes, after bathing Mason I struggled to figure out why he smelled like poo AFTER his bath only to discover poo was smeared on my jeans!  For a good 15 minutes I was doing chores sans pants, but thought a pantsless pictures wasn't quite appropriate for a blog post.  Thus, I pulled these nifty pants from the laundry hamper.  Good times!

After bathing Mason I struggled to figure out why he smelled like poo AFTER his bath only to discover poo was smeared on my jeans! I ripped my foul smelling  jeans off and finished bath time with no pants.  George and Courtney got a good laugh as I dashed to the kitchen without pants carrying Sydney in just her diaper as I dropped bottles in the warmer.  I didn’t think that  picture was quite appropriate for a blog post. Thus, I pulled these nearly clean pajama pants from the laundry hamper.

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George’s closet clean out resulted in stuff spanning the length of the hallway and spilling into the den.

Sydney maintained an unhappy disposition even after being presented with her bottle.  George and Courtney fed the other three babies while I wrangled Sydney.
Sydney maintained an unhappy disposition even after being presented with her bottle. George and Courtney fed the other three babies while I wrangled Sydney.  When I say wrangled I’m not even kidding.  She thrashed and screamed for about 10 minutes before succumbing to her bottle. 
Once all the babies are snuggled up in bed and drifting off to sleep, our Type A personalities go into overdrive and we sweep through picking up all the clutter.

Once all the babies snuggled up in bed and drifted off to sleep, our Type A personalities went into overdrive.  We like to get things back in order as best we can before bed.  That way we start the next day prepared for possible mayhem.   If you look carefully there is a full laundry basket lurking in the background.  Ran out of steam for that chore.

What measures do you take to make sure everything appears in order before having visitors?  Run a Swiffer? Light candles? Hire a housekeeper?

Hugs!

Amber

Ready to Rumble

Thursday Mason and I returned to Cranial Technologies for his DOC Band fitting to treat his Plagiocephaly (oblique head shape). When the therapist put it on him, he grinned and giggled the whole time.  She even commented on how well he acclimated to it.  His DOC Band needed some minor adjustments and we were on our way.  Mason seemed totally unphased the rest of the evening and did not have any major irritations when we did his skin checks. Since he only had it a few hours before bedtime he didn’t have to sleep in it on night one.

Mason carried on playing as usual even with his DOC Band.  However, the white looked frumpy and clinical to me.

Mason carried on playing as usual even with his DOC Band. However, the white looked frumpy and clinical to me.

He even enjoyed a Baby Einstein DVD with his sibs.

He even enjoyed a Baby Einstein DVD with his sibs.

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While Mason enjoyed his final night of slumber sans DOC Band, George got busy painting a mini masterpiece.  He found a website with samples of painted bands and used a pair of the boy’s camo pants as inspiration.  The end result was exactly as I envisioned.

The artist who painted our inspiration used shades of blue, but we chose classic camouflage colors instead.

The artist who painted our inspiration used shades of blue, but we chose classic camouflage colors instead.

Does he blend in with his surroundings now?

I think Mason’s new fangled accessory highlights his adorable face rather nicely.

I think he looks pretty dapper.

This is one dapper boy!

Friday Mason was content wearing his DOC Band during feedings and playtime, but naps were an entirely different story.  Poor Mason could not find a comfortable place and fussed the whole time.  He only napped a few times for 20-30 minutes at best.  I was concerned that his pleasant mood would soon deteriorate because he is a fantastic napper (he’ll take 90 to 120 minutes naps).  He proved me wrong and maintained a good attitude all day even without naps!

Since he couldn’t seem to sleep all day we were slightly concerned about making it through the night with Mason’s new accessory.  George and I braced ourselves for a rough night, but Mason slept like an angel!  I think he was utterly exhausted and finally figured out that he could sleep in the DOC Band after all.  Harper on the other hand woke up wailing at 10:00 pm for no apparent reason.  Thankfully, we were able to settle him and all babies slept through the night as usual.

Order is restored!  Mason is napping like himself again.

Order is restored! Mason is napping like himself again.

Hugs!

Amber

PS- In case you are new to our site,  I wrote about Mason’s Plagiocephaly here:  https://fourtoadore.com/2013/03/16/plagiosaurus/

The Little Things Thursdays: Installment #8

I love when the Little Things Thursdays come back around each week.  Thursdays help me pause to reflect upon the past week and all of the wonderful things that transpired.  Even though the purpose is to delight in little things,  this week we seem have more BIG things to celebrate.  I hoped to write full posts on a few of them, but never managed to carve out the time to write them.  Hmmm, I wonder why….

1. March 20th was a momentous day in our family.  George and I celebrated our ninth wedding anniversary.  We had a hearty chuckle when George thought it was our eight instead.  I’m relatively certain that the hoopla of 2012 caused a mental lapse for George and a few more gray hairs.    Several weeks ago, Rebecca at A Beautiful Ruckus took a poll asking fellow quad mamas how much they felt having quads aged them.  I responded, “not at all”, which likely comes as a surprise (considering the strain of carrying them  and how demanding caring for them is now).  The truth is I do feel older, but the fact is that I am older.  Every day that passes I am one day older than before and I am okay with that.  George and I look so young in our wedding pictures, but we were young then, nine years younger to be exact.  In our nine years of marriage, we’ve had moments of sickness and health, richer and poorer with each experience helping us to grow together.  Through it all, there is no one I’d rather have at my side than George.

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George and I met at a pancake breakfast at church.  I surprised him with the ingredients for a hearty breakfast for dinner and we spent the evening cooking together.  Cooking as a team is something we really miss.

George and I met at a pancake breakfast at church. In honor of our anniversary I surprised him with the ingredients for a nostalgic breakfast for dinner and we spent time cooking it together.  He planned to bring take out home and let me take a luxurious bath.  Since I beat him to the punch with dinner, I got a rain check for tomorrow. 

 

On March 20th the babies also celebrated their eight month birthday.  I took another obligatory crib picture of them.  They are really starting to fill it out!  Harper is officially in nine month clothing and Rylin is in 6/9 month clothes.  Sydney and Mason insist on keeping their six month wardrobe to make sure that clothing storage is a challenge for me.

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2. Okay, this one is a little thing, but worthy of mention in our Big Things post.  Grandaddy did not style Sydney’s hair.  It was a tad chilly when we took an evening walk so she donned a bear hat.  She looked like this when I removed her hat!  Serious case of hat hair, I think.

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3. Do you notice anything different about our recent quad feed?  This is MAJOR progress at our house!

I would be remiss if I didn't mention the fact that this does not happen the whole feed all the time.  However, we are making huge gains in the fact that they are interested, willing, and able to hold their bottles independently.  I have not used our bottle buddies in the past week at all!

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the fact that this does not happen the entire feed all the time.  The way Rylin decided to look at her bottle is fairly common during a feed.  However, we are making huge gains in the fact that they are interested, willing, and able to hold their bottles independently. I have not used our bottle buddies in the past week at all!

What little or big things filled your week?

hugs!

Amber

Who wore green today?

Here is our March artwork.  I commissioned my friend, Jen, for this one.

Here is our March artwork. I commissioned my friend, Jen, for this one.  We agreed a four leaf clover was appropriate.

On this beautiful Saint Patrick’s Day we took the babies on a mini road trip to my parent’s house.  I say “road trip” because it’s an hour drive there and taking the babies anywhere besides a walk seems like a road trip.  We stuffed the van with a package of diapers, package of wipes. four pairs of pajamas, eight bibs, four booster seats, a swing, a travel crib (mom has two more), four bottles, two cans of formula, four jars of baby food….you get the idea.  It was everything but the kitchen sink and it practically looked like we were going out of town.  In everyone’s best interest, we waited to leave until after the babies’ morning nap.  I knew they probably wouldn’t get much shut-eye at Nisey and Grandpa’s so I thought at least one good nap was in order.  After their 11 am spoon feed (green beans) and bottle we corralled everyone into the van and hit the road in our green attire.  Thankfully, the babies made good use of their time in the van and took a decent nap.

Everyone wore green today in honor of Saint Patrick.  And of course we didn't want anyone being pinched.

Everyone wore green today in honor of Saint Patrick. And of course we didn’t want anyone being pinched.

A faux road trip seemed to be an occasion worthy of shoe wearing for everyone.

A faux road trip seemed to be an occasion worthy of shoe wearing for everyone.

Upon our arrival, the babies made note of their new surroundings.  Eight little eyes darted around the living room fully aware that we weren’t in Kansas anymore.  They clearly knew it was new territory.  Rylin being her pensive self really seemed to take it all in and pouted a little bit initially.  When everyone was settled, the big people  enjoyed a home cooked meal complete with cabbage and potatoes in honor of our Irish heritage.  The babies of course were served some delicious formula.  After lunch, George, my sister, and I headed to visit my Grandfather while the babies stayed behind.  Nisey and Grandpa reported that the babies took a short nap then devoured their spoon feeds despite being in a new place and using booster seats for the first time.  The babies also apparently met many of my parent’s neighbors while we were away.

Before we headed home, some of our extended family was able to drop by to meet the crew for the first time.   While the babies were a bit apprehensive about meeting so many new people they all acclimated very well.  Rylin really sized each person up, but was eventually won over by my uncle Clarke.  Sydney who reserves laughter for special times erupted in giggles when my uncle Mark played with her.  Harper does not know a stranger yet and enjoyed cuddle time with whomever held him.  And Mason, well, he flashed his dimples way too many times to count.  Instead of rushing home, we fed the babies their final bottle before leaving.  George and I feared there would be dire consequences of moving sleeping babies from the van to crib.  To our surprise, the babies handled it all in stride.  Mason didn’t stir a bit and the other three were awake but went to  bed without protest.  Whew!  It was a lot of work taking the babies out for the day, but we had a lot of fun and it was much easier than previous trips with them.   We’re all looking forward to getting out and exploring more this spring and summer.  My sister and I have grandiose plans for a field trip to the zoo and a shopping excursion with two babies (we’ll take the two who took a good morning nap!).

When Rylin finally warmed up to Clarke, she smiled at him and enjoyed this little game.

When Rylin finally warmed up to Clarke, she smiled at him and enjoyed this little game. 

Props to Uncle Mark who got Sydney to chuckle.

Props to Uncle Mark who got Sydney to chuckle.

My mom's sister, Linda, with Sydney enjoying a little Baby Einstein.

My Aunt Linda and Sydney enjoyed a little Baby Einstein and cuddle.

It's so much easier feeding four babies when there are more than four adults.  I don't think I fed a single baby after 11 am today.

It’s so much easier feeding four babies when there are more than four adults. I don’t think I fed a single baby after 11 am today.

Harper was enamored with his Aunt CiCi tonight.  He kept touching her face and grinning even while eating.

Harper was enamored with his Aunt CiCi tonight. He kept touching her face and grinning even while eating. 

Oh yeah, we celebrated my belated birthday.  My sister made this yummy s' mores cake found on Pinterest.

Oh yeah, we celebrated my belated birthday too. My sister made this yummy s’ mores cake found on Pinterest.  Oops, someone forgot birthday candles so they improvised with a tea light. 

This was cute.  Grandpa sang to the babies as they waited to go back to the van.

This was cute. Grandpa sang to the babies as they waited to go back to the van.

How did you spend St. Patty’s Day?  I hope you at least wore green and if not that you were pinched.  I know I made sure to pinch everyone who forgot and that was most everyone in our family except the wee ones I dressed.

Hugs!

 

Amber

Plagiosaurus

While the babies were in the NICU, both Physical and Occupational Therapists worked with them on feeding and positioning.  Repositioning is critical for premature babies because they have soft heads and spend a lot of time in bed sleeping.  At one point during our NICU stay, both Sydney and Mason began developing flattened heads.  With repositioning, they both improved.

Once the babies were home, they all began receiving Occupational Therapy through Early Childhood Intervention to help address developmental delays from prematurity.  While they have all responded well to therapy, Mason’s head continued to be a concern.  Soon after coming home, we noticed he favored his right side often turning only that way and sometimes dropping his chin towards the right.  He struggled to control his head and tummy time was a feat for him.  Early on, our Occupational Therapist, Laurie, taught us a stretching regimen and showed us how to reposition him and encourage him to look left (e.g. putting favorite toys on that side, moving his mobile).  Mason showed drastic improvements after only one therapy session.  Turning left wasn’t as difficult as it once was, but he continued to favor his right side.  Laurie ramped up Mason’s stretches and we saw some gains for him.

Back in November Mason could only hold his head up in short spurts during supported tummy time.

Back in November Mason could only hold his head up in short spurts during supported tummy time.  he is on the far left with his head dropped.

To our surprise, Mason’s tight neck muscles did not hamper his motor skill development.  He compensated and remains the only baby who skillfully  rolls over both ways, changes direction, and scoots a bit.  Additionally, he uses both hands together relatively well and explores his environment with gusto.  On the downside, since he does all of these things we cannot reposition him anymore and we still observe facial asymmetry.  Laurie urged us to have Mason evaluated for Plagioephaly, which means oblique shaped head. While it does not impact cognitive development,  Laurie explained that some research suggests that asymmetry can result in poor gait and balance due to uneven ears and eyes.  If left untreated, Plagiocephaly can cause problems with glasses sitting correctly and sports helmets fitting as well.  I was also really concerned because social psychology research indicates that people prefer to look at symmetrical faces and consider them most attractive.  It breaks my heart to think that Mason could later be viewed as less attractive if his parents didn’t want to explore treatment options.  He’s much to handsome for that!

With time and therapy, Mason has no trouble holding his head up.

With time and therapy, Mason has no trouble holding his head up.

Of course when I asked our pediatrician about it at our six month check up he scoffed at the idea touting that no one has a symmetrical head.  I’m sure he’s right, no one is perfectly symmetrical.  However, Mason’s asymmetry is noticeable and there could be repercussions in the future.  Despite Dr. Knapp’s lack of concern regarding Mason’s head shape, we chose to take him to Cranial Technologies for an evaluation, which was free.

We were glad we went with our intuition and opted for the evaluation because Mason was indeed diagnosed with Plagiocephaly.  They pointed out that the back of his head looks great (thanks to therapy), but the side is uneven pushing his right cheek, ear, and eye slightly forward.  Honestly, many people probably don’t notice, but his asymmetry was considered “severe” considering measurements from one side of his head to the other.  Since he falls within the severe range, treatment is covered by insurance. which is a huge blessing because it costs $3800.  Of course insurance required a pediatrician’s prescription, but Dr. Knapp agreed once he saw the evaluation results.  (Whew!)  We are also grateful that only one of the four babies requires treatment.  Babies who are premature, multiples, sleep on their backs, and in the NICU are at the greatest risk for developing Plagiocephaly and that describes all four of them.

This week digital images were taken of his head to create a custom fitted DOC Band.  When the initial images were taken for evaluation, Mason giggled the entire time and tracked the light they showed him.  Two weeks later it was a different story.  Mason grinned and flashed his huge dimples until I handed him off to a stranger.  He wailed and blubbered the entire time  even though I was three feet away talking to him.  I think he met the “stranger danger” milestone.

Starting next week, Mason will wear his DOC Band 23 hours every day.  We will take him back to Cranial Technologies for and adjustment every other week for the next two to three months.  I know I will loathe not being able to kiss his sweet head all day long, but in the scheme of it I know it won’t be that long.  I’m also glad we are doing this now while he is too small to remember and doesn’t have the dexterity to unfasten the straps on his band.  It might even be handy as he becomes mobile bumps into furniture.

These bands are a bit clinical and frumpy looking so George is planning to paint it to look like camouflage.  If Mason’s wearing this accessory all the time, it might as well be cute as he is.  I’m affectionately referring to Mason as my “Plagiosaurus”.

From the back, Mason's head looks similar to his siblings.  He once had an off center bald spot from favoring one side.  As he progressed with therapy the bald spot shifted to the center, but is gone since he tummy sleeps.

From the back, Mason’s head looks similar to his siblings. He once had an off center bald spot from favoring one side. As he progressed with therapy the bald spot shifted to the center, but is gone since he tummy sleeps.

Mason is a man on the move so capturing a bird's eye view of his head was tricky.  From this picture you can see where his right cheek and ear are further forward.

Mason is a man on the move so capturing a bird’s-eye view of his head was tricky. From this picture you can see where his right cheek and ear are further forward.

This is a bird's eye view of Sydney's head.  Of course she stayed still for the picture so it's a better angle, but you can notice she is more symmetrical.

This is a bird’s-eye view of Sydney’s head. Of course she stayed still for the picture so it’s a better angle, but you can notice she is more symmetrical.

It is subtle, but if you look carefully, Mason's right cheek appears fuller than the left.

It is subtle, but if you look carefully, Mason’s right cheek appears fuller than the left.

If you’d like to learn more about Plagiocephaly or Cranial Technologies please visit: http://www.cranialtech.com/

We are fortunate that Cranial Technologies has a satellite office within thirty minutes from our home as we learned that many patients travel from out of state for treatment!

Hugs!

Amber